So this post is a bit lengthy, but I hope you will read it and give me some feedback.
So I have one friend, perhaps my closest, who also happens to be my neighbor. Then there is this other friend who came from NY and is staying here for the month.
Last Thursday I was hanging out with them and I asked this girl who was having a party if we could come, but she made up some reasonable excuse. My friends tried getting in even though I told them it's not cool because I know them and it's going to make me look bad.
On Friday night we all went on a walk and NY guy comes up with the idea of hooking up with my sisters' friends (we are 19, they are 16. Her friends were staying over our house). I told him that it's petaphilic and that he has mental problems. At this point, I thought he was kidding. However, when we got close to my house they both tried to go through the gate that leads to the backhouse, which was where my sister and her friends were staying.
2007-12-23 11:49:09 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I showed my disapproval by going through the front door and locking it. By the way, this was at 12:45 at night. I had told them it is extremely rude to knock on their backhouse door this late, but they apparently disregarded my suggestion. Anyway, my sister and her firends were in the living room of the house and not in the backhouse. I don't know how my friends figured that out, but they came and knocked on the front door only half a minute later. I told my sister and her friends not to open the door, but they continued to knock about five times (which by the way woke everyone else up). They then went through the back gate again and through the other entrance to my house which is into my room, so I went to my room and find them chilling there. They call me an a s s for not opening the door, and I justify it by telling them they are being weird and idiotic. I sit in my room and ignore them, giving the impression that they are not welcome in my house and should leave.
2007-12-23 11:52:00 · update #1
They then go to my living room (while I'm in my room still) and start talking to my sister and her friends. In the process of it, they make a lot of noise which I get in trouble for in the morning by my parents (they thought I was in the living room with them, so I supposedly assume responsibility). I also get in trouble in the morning because they apparently gave them a shot of whiskey. Anyway, my friends were there in my living room until about 2 in the morning when my sister and her friends retired to the backhouse.
2007-12-23 11:54:12 · update #2
Yesterday they came over again and I pretended to be sleeping because I had no intention of seeing them. So they got the idea of going to the backhouse again, only to find out that my sister and her friends were not there. They left.
How serious do you consider this? These two people are my closest friends, but I am considering dropping them completely. I would rather have no friends than have fake ones.
2007-12-23 11:55:49 · update #3
They are not worth your friendship. They shall be putting you in much more serious troubles if you are not going to get rid of them asap.
2007-12-24 02:44:41 · answer #1 · answered by yogeshwargarg 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats just weird.
Sounds like new york guy is a bad influence on your friend, and they sound like horny creepy guys.
For your sisters sake, get rid of them, thats a big no-no.
2007-12-23 12:05:02 · answer #2 · answered by adilicious 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋