Other - Family & Relationships - 30 December 2007

I have a male friend (im a gal)but i find him hot n cold. Hes a little bit of a loner and tends to befriend alot of girls but hasnt really got any friend friends outside the office. Anyway i made friends with him since aug. We got talking and he asked me to lunch so i returned the favour. He nagged me to go over his new flat so i did. I email him now and again but he doesnt seem to be good at initating just at the replying and seems he doesnt give alot out of himself. He says im open person but i wouldnt say the same bout him. Hell go to lunch with me when i ask and does little things like appologise to me if he dont reply to my mails and theres always that flirty banter yet he dont make much effort his side. Hes worksworthy so i take that into account. He can be moody yet will get jealous ifi ask someone else to teach me to play snooker. I wish he would make more effort his side my instinct says he likes me

2007-12-30 03:06:30 · 9 answers · asked by shelley 1

I've been living in germany with my g/f for a few months and flew home for xmas. my g/f wasn't sure of where she would be on new years eve so i booked my flight back to germany on new years day. when it transpired she would actually be staying at home, it was too late for me to change my flight to be with her on new yrs eve and it was too expensive (£80ish) to get a new flight. BUT, then I got £100 b'day (which is today!!) money. My g/f was so upset that she couldn't be with me and that i was alone on my b'day and new years, so i decided to spend £80 of my b'day money on the flight. another advantage of this is that now i have an extra day to settle before starting work again on the 2nd Jan. But i feel stupid for using up money given to me as a present on this, esp as I had another flight booked for THE NEXT DAY! Cld someone pls tell me i'm not a total idiot, maybe just a partial one? thanks a lot!! At least now I won't be alone on new year right????

2007-12-30 00:30:21 · 18 answers · asked by colejoe79 2

If you could change one thing going on in your life right now, what would it be and why?

If you can't realistically change what you would like...how do you cope with it?

2007-12-30 00:12:25 · 10 answers · asked by sublime 5