We work together and he is always saying I'm beautiful and he loves me, but he seems kind of shady. I never encouraged this. I try to be nice and ignore his comments but it's starting to really creep me out. The other night I had a really bad nightmare about him. And he always wants to see me outside of work but I try to dodge his questions. I don't know what to do. Should I continue to do nothing? Should I tell my boss? Should I tell this guy how I really feel?
2007-12-30 13:39:16 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If he is really creeping you out then I would suggest first of all to continue ignoring him completely. There is a point though when you have to stop being nice and just tell him straight up that you dont think he is being appropriate. Tell him that you dont want to make things awkward at work but that you dont like the attention he is giving you. I hope things get better!
2007-12-30 13:57:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, if he continues with this kind of behavior i guess you should do the whole confrontation thing. tell him that his attitude toward you is making you feel uncomfortable...if he's a nice guy he'll back off...if not (i.e. he continues and maybe even more than before) maybe you should tell your boss about him and how uncomfortable he makes you feel. And usually bosses don't promote office (or whatever it is you do) relationships anyway so i think he or she will be on your side. And keep a friend with you at ALL times ( this might make it harder for him to approach you)
2007-12-30 22:18:08 · answer #2 · answered by sickofitall 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be honest, confront him and tell him to let you alone if he is bothering you.
2007-12-30 21:47:17 · answer #3 · answered by No More Abuse 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋