Other - Family & Relationships - 17 October 2006

my b/f of 3 weeks , wants his mate to watch us you know, well this i dont mind too much but i am scared he is gonna join in, they just laugh when i ask

2006-10-17 23:50:52 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've been engaged for 9 years now, and my partner wants to get married. The thing is I've been seeing someone else off and on for 4 years. Its a guy I work with, so I spend a lot of time with him during the day. I have strong feelings for this guy. He has a girlfriend of 5 years. He says that he wouldn't leave her for me. He says that he loves both of us equally. When I talk to him about marrying my parter he gets upset with me, but I know that he'll never leave his girlfrend for me. Should I forget about him?

2006-10-17 23:40:22 · 48 answers · asked by Poppy 1

i found out my dad been seeing other woman and couples.
also going to swingers clubs.
he has no idea i know this!!!!
i want to tell him i know but if i tell him ill go mad at him and probs hit him.
there a twist he has bad kidney which means he going on some sort of machine soon to help him.
i want to help him but after what he done i cant even look at him in face no more.
god know i love him but i hate him at sametime for what he has done.
do i tell my mum?
she got enough probs without this on her back.
shall i let it drop or what??????
he makes me sick!!!!!!!!!!

2006-10-17 23:36:46 · 12 answers · asked by alan h 3

Me and my boyfriend are going to have our first romantic getaway together. We have already reserved a penthouse suite on the oceanfront. I need some ideas of plans of things we can do that would make our night perfect!
Thankyou

2006-10-17 23:29:19 · 6 answers · asked by phattygirl 3

My girlfriend has the tightest and cutest *** eva and she used to know it by wearing french knickers and thongs all the time, now she only wants to wear panties that cover her *** why is this?? Also what do other women like to wear?

2006-10-17 23:01:28 · 12 answers · asked by Simon T 1

2006-10-17 22:57:20 · 6 answers · asked by jeevanu 1

2006-10-17 22:51:39 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

i had a feeling for someone and i must say it was really strong but choose to stop it cause he's already in relationship with someone and i don't want to wreck other's relationship.I finally get over him ( i think) after how many months,but after doing my best to overcome it,he suddenly get back and now my feelings for him is coming back.Now do u think that is a sign for me to hope that one day will be together?What should i do now?

2006-10-17 22:46:38 · 9 answers · asked by kimy 3

i found that he loves sum1 who doesnt love him bak! all this tym i thot he wanted to b with me only to realise i was his last resort! discussed about the issue n he said he is over her! should i buy this

2006-10-17 22:45:23 · 10 answers · asked by curious cynthia 2

He met my family and I met his.
My mom has a great flair for making people feel at home and she was just great.
His folks were watching me with evident disapproval and his sisters were very very rude.I felt singled out and excluded from the general cammaraderie.
He thinks it's all in my head.I asked him and he was pissed off.He told me that had watched too many movies.As a rule,we never discuss race.It's a no-no.
Am I being paranoid?

2006-10-17 22:39:48 · 17 answers · asked by Amy Lee J 1

how to find the one??

and what to do if you found your soulmate, but after 5 years you realize this will be tough. since love life is poor (everything else is perfect, i love and admire him) and was from the very start. and every other girl thinks he might be her soulmate too(my bf is VERY charming and acts like understanding women) so i started asking myself if he just blinded me and my feelings are not so special ("soulmate-thing") because my bf puts up this kind of illusion for all attractive women he wants to impress?

i had deep thoughts and i know that i do love him. want to grow old with him. but is it possible i'm mixing something up and he is rather friend than lover?

i miss passion and real attraction. me and my bf flirt oftenly and behave like lovers. but i don't really feel it? he seems to play the role of the lover, but my feelings tell me he is just pretending and illusioning himself? i think he misleads himself and does not realize.. is such a thing possibe???

2006-10-17 22:34:54 · 6 answers · asked by india18 2

2006-10-17 22:33:47 · 16 answers · asked by Cozy 1

Well my biological father is currently in prison and is up for parol. He is in jail for trying to kill my family and i. but even after these years i for some very stupid reason i just want to know if he loves me. Hearing it from my step father isnt enough, i just want to know that even after what he has done he for even one day loved me. On fathers day all i can think is if he is thinking of his girls... it tears me apart becasue when i stay at a friends place i hear them say dad can you help me with this and that...but when all i can remember is him pushing me away. do you think i should talk or send a letter to him because no one believes how much it would mean to me to get a letter just saying that he once loved me.....

2006-10-17 22:31:42 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

Well she asked me for advice but i didnt know what to say-plz help.this friend of mine met a guy on chat who really wants to marry her,makes 2 hours calls to her from another country,messages her etc.the problem is he wants her to see him naked and even cumming on cam.now she is a decent girl and does not like this at all-she even asked him to cover himself while on cam but he wouldnt listen-they both like each other but...she has this in her ind which is disturbing her that maybe he has been doing that for others and still doing when she is not online-what should she do to make her mind at peace-obviously if she asks him he would deny that he does it in front of others too...advice her

2006-10-17 22:31:08 · 3 answers · asked by IKNOWNO 1

I am still looking!!

2006-10-17 22:28:43 · 13 answers · asked by becciberesford 2

I know its selfish to be loved. But I'm those get malfunction if things go bad. Now I've left him and go for some1 else but my heart is still pumping for him. In reality i know we'll nv get back.

2006-10-17 22:22:20 · 13 answers · asked by Sob Sob 2

My friend (female) says that we're close friends and that she doesn't see us being anything more. I respected her decision and we've still remained close friends. Everytime I mention a girl that I'm interested in she changes the subject straight away and does not seem comfortable with me telling her who I'm interested in (no dirty/sexual info). As a close friend (where we tell each other everything) surely this should not bother her??? Also when we speak about sex (we usually do anyway) I asked if the thought of us sleeping together would repulse her (asked out of curiosity-wudn't try anything). She answered that it would not.(we're very honest+open with each other!)Was her answer strange,seeing she only see's us as friends,surely the thought should repulse her???We also continue to see each other on a weekly basis, even though we don't live in the same town, even after she said there would be nothing between us?(her suggestion to meet, not mine). Is this normal??

2006-10-17 22:20:20 · 7 answers · asked by Machine 3

she loves me and i love her but i feel that i am always week and want to call her and send sms to her and she is ok with that but rearly she talk and send sms i feel she is stronger than me and she take all the control but i need to take control and feel like we are equal or i am not week what can i do and i want her to miss me

2006-10-17 22:18:06 · 7 answers · asked by lover boy 2 2

It seems I have everything going for me

- good job
- married
- kids
- friends
- family
- adequate wealth
- god fearing

Yet with all these things, I feel incredibly lonely. Often it occurs after the family has gone to bed, or for that matter any time that I am alone with my thoughts.

I'm really not sure how to overcome this.

Any thoughts.

2006-10-17 22:12:48 · 10 answers · asked by tango m 1

The weather should be nice. What would you do for enjoyment?

2006-10-17 22:06:28 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

I left him several times because I couldn't bear his behaviours in our one yeared relation. but I still miss him so much because I love him. he always accept that he is wrong and he will change himself but he didn't.I am confused. I don't know so much thing about his life and his character and we saw eachother not more than 2-3 months totally in this one year.he always keep his life as a secret.he didn't use the many chances I gave him. whenever I left him he came to me and beg me to take him back to my life.am I stupid by still loving him and thinking about giving one more chance to him????

2006-10-17 22:05:41 · 11 answers · asked by AbsoluteLY 2

He did not think I needed to know, his whole family have kept this fro me. And to make things worse his uncle, who isactually his ex gf father has just died. I feel betrayed and so angry. I'm just not sure now how to move forward as he is using my past which I honestly told him to compare his own hidden truth and tellingme that I did not deserve to know.Constantly beinghorrible to me and finishing with me and then saying he does not mean it.

2006-10-17 21:48:15 · 18 answers · asked by antwan 1

first there's so many different kind of loves, as i realize. appreciating a guy as your soulmate but less as a lover or having passionate love-relation with a guy (lacking the closeness though). i seemed to have both. i just don't get the clue. is it impossible to have both? passion and closeness (soulmate). or is a soulmate rather a friend than a lover and i should not mix up?

thing is that my boyfriend is more of a very very very close friend to me than a real lover. we flirt often and play the whole flirt-game (we are both 28 and have a five-year relationship, so i guess this is not so bad). but thing is that apart from flirting and sweet talks, there is more of a brother-sister issue involved :-( it means that attraction and needs of love are completely different. it was never ok. always week. since making love is very important to me and i'm a passionate person, this leaves me unsatisfied. i think it will NEVER much change. we talk about it. and try to change things. but fact

2006-10-17 21:42:53 · 8 answers · asked by india18 2

2006-10-17 21:34:43 · 29 answers · asked by djshy 1

You finally meet someone you believe is meant to be, your one true love do you wait for them?

2006-10-17 21:31:32 · 13 answers · asked by NoMaD! 6

2006-10-17 21:25:55 · 15 answers · asked by dentist 2

2006-10-17 21:24:16 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

Or Guys....Have you had someone do this to you?
What was the reason this was done?....Was there regret?

What was the outcome?

No, I have not done this myself, but I have a male co worker whose ex just did this to him...she was trying to get him back...it went on for 4 months until she was found out..he is devestated, but she didn't get him back either....he refuses to talk to her...

Is it worth it?

2006-10-17 21:19:52 · 7 answers · asked by mysticfairy74 5

2006-10-17 21:16:09 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

What i mean is like what do you think the pretty yet creative nicest girls name is?

2006-10-17 21:11:57 · 10 answers · asked by xox.Butterfly_kisses.xox 1