Other - Family & Relationships - 17 October 2006

My boyfriend and I have been going out for a while.. we both feel that we care a lot about each other.. and he's been really hurt in the past.. he's a very caring and sensitive person as well. Right now he's not in town.. he'll be away for a few months (military) and I received an email from him today... it closed like this:

Love you.
Love,
Nick

He usually just writes:
Love,
Nick

Am i looking too much into this? How should I respond? "I love you too"? I don't want him to feel rejected and he may not say it again b/c of that... or did he just write it accidently.. but he took the time to add a period at the end of "Love you."... ??? help!!!

2006-10-17 17:24:28 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

I know some parents who have 4 children and can't barely take care of themselves. they making minimin wage or maybe just a bit more and have so many children. what are they thinking?

2006-10-17 17:08:52 · 10 answers · asked by GirlyWorld 1

2006-10-17 17:05:48 · 12 answers · asked by someoneyouknow 1

Ok, I've been dating this person for a little minute. I've now come to realize that I need space and time to work on myself. My partner aggres with me and told me to handle whats most important, but after a week I find myself calling him every other day. We saw each other last nite for the first time in like two weeks, and he kept making comments like "oh you dont do me anymore". He also said that he wants to call me but he doesnt because I said I need my space. Is it wrong for me to get mad that he calls once every two days? Is he really respecting my decision or is he moving on?

2006-10-17 16:55:24 · 8 answers · asked by Ultimate Diva 2

I have been dating this guy for a year. The first 8 months were great. NO RED FLAGS. By the 9th month the relationship started getting weird. Without any arguments or fights, he would disappear and when I contacted him he would threaten to call the authorities on me. I never even knew what I did or why we fighting. Then a few weeks later he would come back saying, "I'm sorry, I had a lot of stress." 4 weeks ago, I was in the hospital for surgery and he was and actually had been very supportive of me for those weeks. As I got better I thought we were good again. A week after I got better he called me and said his father had a stoke and he would call me back after he went to see about him. He never called and now 3 weeks later I'm sending him emails saying "what is going on with you?" I got an text back today saying that if I contacted him again he would call the authorities for harrassment. I'm shock! I didn't even know we broke up? He last text to me was "I luv u". What happend?

2006-10-17 16:55:21 · 10 answers · asked by Spleakie 2

What is acceptable and what is not? I live in an apartment complex and there are no nudist clubs or resorts anywhere near here. I'm thinking unless I travel that I am stuck to home nudism. I could lay out on my porch or maybe go to the laundrymat but I'm thinking that would be pushing it. Has anyone ever dated a nudist on here? Any advice would be greatly appreciated. Thanks. Also, I didn't know where to post this so If I goofed i'm sorry.

2006-10-17 16:55:19 · 5 answers · asked by Cindy C 2

Sorry for my english!!!
hi! im 20 years old, and im dating a korean girl for already 1 year,
i really love her , and our relation is getting more serious, the problem is she is 3 years elder, and i know korean parents are very strict, and i think they will not accept me!!! what should i do??

2006-10-17 16:49:50 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am usually really good at interpreting eyes and have done it with the guy I like before, talked to him for an hour about our pasts and stuff, and found out that behind his hilarious, flirtacious mask he too often wears he is hurting and now he considers me a real friend and he doesn't have many people he considers real friends.
I have noticed that a lot of times when he looks at me his eyes are questioning, wondering...trying to figure something out. And he is a huge flirt, but if I'm there when he is hugging another girl a lot of the time he is looking at me.
Today we were both in the hall during studyhall that we have together and I was on my way back up and he was at a friend's locker. He stood a few feet away from his friends. As I passed we locked eyes and I slowed down/stopped (not sure which) but for about 3 seconds we held that and he gave me this INTENSE look and looked like he was figuring something out. What does this look mean? He only looks @ me like this

2006-10-17 16:47:19 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was born in New York City and have my mother's name on the original birth certificate. I tried calling the city of New York - but that was just a recorded message going through 20 different menu options. After about 1 year, I still have not heard anything from them - not that I ever expected to.

2006-10-17 16:44:12 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm not too familiar with the American traditions. I wanted to bring my fiance but I didnt want him to feel uncomfortable?? Is that okay?

2006-10-17 16:41:53 · 5 answers · asked by im_a_goofy_chick 2

i mean, look at this world...jobs, frens, plastic surgery....it all boils down to being old is disgusting.

2006-10-17 16:32:10 · 4 answers · asked by fansy 1

I have seen 8 year olds on here! What is up with that???
I am on 3rd shift, and I see kids on here at all hours!

ALL KIDOS GO TO BED!!!!!!

2006-10-17 16:30:05 · 8 answers · asked by ? 5

My cousin has so much things that I like things like tiffany and co. louis vuittion handbags and all expensive clothing so much of everything and I am so jealous because I want things like that but i just dont have that kind of money it hurts me so bad to see her with all that and i cant have that life i am greatful for what i do have but what can i do it bothers me that she has everything.

2006-10-17 16:18:34 · 6 answers · asked by babygirl 2

and follow through with it without feeling bad or guilty?

2006-10-17 16:18:33 · 13 answers · asked by Doc 2

Alright, I just moved back home to my rent's house and my boyfriend stayed with me for a week while my mother was gone. Well, we took him to his moms and left him there because he can't stay with us. We have been off and on for 4 years. I am tired of it and sick of him, he does drugs and doesn't care about anyone but himself. I love him and always will and we have a 7 month old together. I want to break-up but how do you break up with someone you can't see?! Help!

2006-10-17 16:16:48 · 4 answers · asked by duckie0411 1

last 6 years he was my life. The only thing I had done was loved him. He loved me a lot. But now he is with another. I couldn't realize this. I want to foget him. The only boy I saw on this earth was he. I'm scare of my future. I couldn't love another as I loved him. I thought this will be my first & last love. But he changed my whole life. He gave me lots of Hopes. Therefore I won't fogive him. Because of his new affire he hurt me a lot. The last time he spoke, to me he told he will not marry. He will be along. I asked why? He told b'coz of the bad thing that he did to me. Also he told if I know the reason why he did like this, I feel sorry about him. Pls let me know how can I rebuilt my broken heart. I feel I coudn't love anyone else. He was love with me. But how he went with another?In this case I feel terribal with girls. For last 6 years he was my life. So I didn't think about me. So how can I live now. Happy to die. But my mother loves me alot.Why he did this to me?

2006-10-17 16:14:15 · 17 answers · asked by Krishanthi C 1

I broke up with my ex due to the fact that he started doing loads of crugs and turned into a completely different person. In the time we've been apart I started dating one of my friends and now my ex is convinced I was cheating on him while we were together and is getting violent towards me.
We work together in the kitchen of a resturant and he keeps throwing knives, saucepans and anything he can get at me.
I love me job and don't want to leave but it's scaring me.
I still care for him as well though and don't want him to lose his career.
Help is desperatley needed!

2006-10-17 16:09:25 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

i made a deal w/my friend that if i didn't have a date for homecoming by the 21st (and it doesn't look like i will), that i would ask my crush (as a friend). any tips on how to overcome shyness and ask him?

2006-10-17 16:07:26 · 6 answers · asked by ...♥melissa♥... 2

I need someone to talk to. Someone sensible enough. Someone who has the wisdom to go through life.

2006-10-17 16:05:12 · 18 answers · asked by ~Amor~ 3

my x of 7.5 yrs. finally decides,
after a year of getting back together,
that I dont have at least 3 of 4 qualities he wants.
recently, I text him about boxes of mine at his house.
now he wants me for the night.
should I? X marks the spot.

2006-10-17 16:03:21 · 21 answers · asked by paint the town 1

in relationships i find myself so insecure everytime and i end up ruining the relationship becuz of this. i guess i am too clingy and needy. how do i stop this?

2006-10-17 16:01:26 · 3 answers · asked by ashleyhasquestions 1

this guy on my bus always sits a seat behind me in the afternoon and in the morning the seat right next to me, he always teases me and smiles alot ,he laughs at what i do all the time does helike me or what do you think!we talk to each other alot and we dont really feel uncomforatable around eachother,i tease him alot too.HELP me please!

2006-10-17 15:59:31 · 7 answers · asked by Trista 1

we just found out my girlfriend is pregnent, and now she wants to quit her job because she thinks she can't lift more then 5 pounds.

2006-10-17 15:59:27 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok guy#1 takes my stuff and makes me chase him for it and teases me in a cute way and always jumps infront of me and goes "whoa!"

guy#2 talks to me alot and makes me laugh and he shows up behind me or pushes me or grabs my arms to move me,

guy#3 talks to me ALOT!he makes me laugh and makes stupid remarks about me ,funny ones at that,and shows up where im at all the time

which one likes me or do any of them like me?

2006-10-17 15:58:14 · 8 answers · asked by Trista 1

I really like this guys named T and C (don't wanna use there realt names) and C knows I like him but the T doesn't. I think C likes me too. I don't know my friends say that C is rude becuase his brother treats everyone like crap and I should go for T but my feeling aren't as strong as they are for C. I have the same classes with them gym and math...They always talk and they hang out all the time....they are best friends....I don't wanna ruin a friendship but I really really like them....What do I do?

2006-10-17 15:55:29 · 6 answers · asked by Michelle A 2

Are there certain kind of guys that are considered taboo to marry? I've heard that I wouldn't want to marry an athlete, an actor, and any guy in the military (that's just a few). The reasoning goes anywhere from being a control freak to being too promiscuous. Can anyone concur with any of those or dispute them? Men AND women feel free to comment...

2006-10-17 15:53:13 · 6 answers · asked by Teoshe 3

WHENEVER I TALK TO THE GUY THAT I LIKE HE MAKES THIS DISGUSTED FACE.WHY IS HE DOING THAT.

2006-10-17 15:52:15 · 7 answers · asked by Chelsea 1

When the hard time comes around , nobody is your friend and family. Where is the humanity in this? and please don t tell me that "this is how life is". Why do we even live if we are so selfish and want everything for ourself and none for others. What is this world

2006-10-17 15:51:17 · 18 answers · asked by cutlus 1

Not puppy love or infatuation.... but, true blue love. It doesn't have to be with your present significant other.

2006-10-17 15:50:01 · 11 answers · asked by ? 5

2006-10-17 15:46:18 · 12 answers · asked by Steph xoxoxoxo 1