Why is it that sometimes you have nobody to trust ? None of your friends , family and so on?

Question

When the hard time comes around , nobody is your friend and family. Where is the humanity in this? and please don t tell me that "this is how life is". Why do we even live if we are so selfish and want everything for ourself and none for others. What is this world

Answer 1

1st, trust yourself.

Answer 2

God will never leave you nor forsake you. It doesn't matter what you are going through He is always there just waiting for you to call on Him. The Bible says He is the friend that sticks closer than a brother. That sounds like exactly what you need right now.

FOOTPRINTS IN THE SAND

One night a man had a dream. He dreamed
he was walking along the beach with the LORD.

Across the sky flashed scenes from his life.
For each scene he noticed two sets of
footprints in the sand: one belonging
to him, and the other to the LORD.

When the last scene of his life flashed before him,
he looked back at the footprints in the sand.

He noticed that many times along the path of
his life there was only one set of footprints.

He also noticed that it happened at the very
lowest and saddest times in his life.

This really bothered him and he
questioned the LORD about it:

"LORD, you said that once I decided to follow
you, you'd walk with me all the way.
But I have noticed that during the most
troublesome times in my life,
there is only one set of footprints.
I don't understand why when
I needed you most you would leave me."

The LORD replied:

"My son, my precious child,
I love you and I would never leave you.
During your times of trial and suffering,
when you see only one set of footprints,
it was then that I carried you."

written by Mary Stevenson

Answer 3

You know that saying, if life throws you lemons, make lemonade? Well, grab the sugar, sugar! I use to think that way too, so trust me, I know where your coming from. But you know what I found that helped me when I started going into "pity party" mode? I began asking myself a few questions:

1. What is the cause of this hard time?
2. What can I do within MY power to make this situation better?
3. What can I do to prevent this hard time from happening again?
4. And lastly, what can I learn from this situation?

This is the real deal, pal. Empower yourself! That first answer from Mel, is the best. You have to depend upon yourself first and utmost. Life is a lot like the wild, it's a survival of the fittest. We are all dealt choices and how we choose decides our fate. In a dog eat dog world, you have to use our problem solving skills to basically get us through every day. It's about the pursuit of happiness, that no one can give us but ourselves. If we consistently depend upon others for our happiness, they will never fail to let us down. That's why I am saying that it comes from within......start en powering yourself! Get off the cross, someone else needs the wood.......

Answer 4

There is more to it than,"That's Life." It's almost like the world around you has turned into a hostile thing.At such times you have to be careful, because you are only human, and yet you are the only one you have to depend on.You have to be careful because there is psychological danger at these hard times.You can become your own enemy by caving in to the pressure unconsciously.So protect yourself from yourself at these times.
Make a safe set of rules to get yourself out of trouble and do not bend or break them no matter what, until the troubles fade out, no matter what your feelings are-follow your safety rules.

Answer 5

i think maybe sometimes is can seem like there is no one around who is worthy of your trust, but of course there are. Trust is earned and what is most important for you is that u behave in a manner that others can trust in you. no matter what age a person is, life and its twists and turns, can make you cynical, if you let it. The trick is to not let it by right thinking. where u find your right thinking is up to each individual but i would suggest to read some positive spiritual books and there are plenty out there.

Answer 6

"Love many, trust few, but always paddle your own canoe" is what we are taught to believe hon. I know it's somewhat of a bitter mind set, but when it comes down to it, there are far too many self absorbed people in this world. All the complaining in the world isn't going to change that, nor are the comments we make as we allow it to continue. I often find myself in your situation. Everyone comes to me to fix their problems, but God forbid, I have one, I have nobody to turn to. Or so I thought. Turns out, it was my own pride that didn't allow me to trust those that cared. I was the one who didn't want to burden anyone and in doing so, I felt awfully lonely at times. Don't do that to yourself. Trust them until you have a reason not to....people have a funny way of surprising us and you'll realize you'll have more people willing to help if you just ask.

Answer 7

Basically, you choose to. To trust no one but yourself adds security, but also brings scrutiny to others. To trust no one means everyone is a threat. If that's how you see people, that's the same way they'll see you. Trusting people is a risk, but it gives a clear statement of who your friends and enemies really are. It can be rewarding to find a friend, or devastating to find a traitor. Nonetheless, at least you know.

Answer 8

god has a purpose for every one.u weren't here by accident.there are people out there who u can talk to but they just wont come out of nowhere and ask u whats wrong.you have to have courage to go out and find someone,a counslior,decon,paster,or a parent.i know its hard to talk to someone about some things u know u need help for,but keep trying never giv up

good luck!<3

Answer 9

I am going thru it myself now. I am wondering why all the nice things I have done for others in the past seem to not be returning to me in the form of blessings - in fact, If it weren't for someone special I just met it would be truly sad indeed.

Answer 10

everybody's dealing with their own dramas in life. you're not the only one who has it... you have to trust yourself before allowing others to trust you, or before you start trusting others. but if if you really felt as if there's really nobody to tust, think again buddy... someone up there is a great guy that can always be trusted.^_^

Answer 11

Honey you can always trust the Lord. All you have to do is talk to him and he will give you answers. You will never be alone with the Lord. God Bless you always.