2006-10-17 17:05:48 · 12 answers · asked by someoneyouknow 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
There are different kinds of love....brotherly love and real passionate love and friendly love, etc....Which one is it? You cannot hate someone and love them. And there is Godly love for someone...you love them because God says to love everyone. Love thy neighbor as thyself....and so on. Hate is a strong word too. Is it a strong hate, make you sick hate, evil hate, get revenge hate, get under my skin hate, kill hate, or just hate little things about someone??? So I am guessing, it would depend on how strong the love is.......and how strong the hate is....and which one outweighs the other. But you have heard of a love/hate relationship. You love to hate someone. Or, you hate to love someone. What do you do? Decide which is the most true to your heart. Can you live without this person?
2006-10-17 17:12:58 · answer #1 · answered by lucy p 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a thin line between hate and love.
The deeper you love, the more you hate a person when they've done you wrong (or did something you don't like).
Just a rhetorical question, why in the world do you hate the person? Then why in the world did you fall in love with the fellow?
Shouldn't you evaluate whether you both are suited to a relationship? Better to do it now than to leave it festering. If you think there are more aspects that you hate and that the relationship would not last, you might as well get out of it. Alternatively, if you really want to make it work, then MAKE it work.
If you've tried everything and it still doesn't work, don't bother, you probably should go your own ways.
2006-10-17 17:16:13 · answer #2 · answered by demi-kun 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you love them you have to figure out if you cna deal with hating them or leave the person that you love. You cant be both and be happy at the same time. If you hate them the love is gonna fade away sooner than you think. Maybee tis a different kind of love that you feel for them than you want to admit to. Figure out whether you want to be with the person you love and deal with the problems or leave the peron that you hate and move on.
Good luck
2006-10-17 17:14:11 · answer #3 · answered by Ask Ashlynn!!!! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on how deep the love is & how deep the hate is. If you love more than hate...work it out. Changes can be made. If you hate them more than love them...get out now. Save yourself any further torture!
2006-10-17 17:28:20 · answer #4 · answered by moonbaby3504 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can you love someone you hate?Think about it.There are different types of love,,maybe he is not the one for you but you love him like a friend or family.Move on.
2006-10-17 17:08:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marry them
2006-10-17 17:10:32 · answer #6 · answered by Kellie W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is not a healthy relationship. Do yourself a favor and seek professional help.
2006-10-17 17:08:49 · answer #7 · answered by Rhonda 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmmmm wrap um in a blanket and staple it...kidding kidding...lets see dump them, then call them back? no no no just love them and then hate them
2006-10-17 17:08:08 · answer #8 · answered by DOMINATUS 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are either, in love or infatuated with him or her. You always hurt the one you love ! ... Think about it !!!
2006-10-17 17:14:42 · answer #9 · answered by guraqt2me 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make up your mind, it CANT be both.
2006-10-17 17:08:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋