i made a deal w/my friend that if i didn't have a date for homecoming by the 21st (and it doesn't look like i will), that i would ask my crush (as a friend). any tips on how to overcome shyness and ask him?
2006-10-17 16:07:26 · 6 answers · asked by ...♥melissa♥... 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
the dance is on the 28th
2006-10-18 09:12:43 · update #1
Well if you talk to him alot....get on the conversation of homecoming and start joking around...and be like me and you should go together but don't let it get silent that would be ackward... and if you don't talk to him alot just start haning around him and then later on ask him.....its not hard once you do it.
2006-10-17 16:12:00 · answer #1 · answered by Michelle A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure he doesnt already have a date? I would make it more of a group event and ask him that way. Let him know a group of you are meeting " somewhere" before the dance and plan on going to the dance as a group - and see if he would like to go along.
If there are tickets involved another way to go is..tell him you have a extra ticker to the event of the season. A front rolll seat to watch all the goofy outfits and dates people bring to the homecoming. You need to make it more fun then a romantic gesture...especailly 3 days before the dance.
2006-10-17 16:19:49 · answer #2 · answered by KA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look this happened to me i wanted to ask this guy out and i froze but you know what i did i asked him to come over and play as a friend and it all workedand you have to over come your fear but have a friend ask him or something like that best of luck!
2006-10-17 16:12:02 · answer #3 · answered by Caroline D. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
come up to him and tap him on the shoulder. when he asks, there will be no choice but to ask him!
either do that, or be accompanied by a friend so you don't feel as nervous.
good luck!
2006-10-17 16:11:49 · answer #4 · answered by Noel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be with 1 or 2 of you friend to be with you so you dont feel shy on him.
2006-10-17 16:14:19 · answer #5 · answered by sher_2005 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just get him when hes alone, and tell yourself what your going to say over and over in your head, and go up and ask to talk to him.. then just ask him if he would like to go
2006-10-17 16:15:11 · answer #6 · answered by Mimi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋