Other - Family & Relationships - 17 October 2006

I have had a loved one lie to me so now I don't no if I can trust them at all. The closer I am to people, the more it hurts when they lie and break trust. Help! I don't want to be alone all of my life. What can I do?

2006-10-17 12:56:35 · 5 answers · asked by tuna 2

at school theres this guy and everytime i see him i get all serious and today at lunch he was sitting beside me and then he left after 10 minutes and i started crying i dont know why i didnt feel anything the tears just came out. and it feels like i have seen him somewhere long time ago his face is very fimilar i just cant remmber
why is this?

and the weird thing is everytime i walk by him or he sees me he looks at me too in a confused way like today i was in the room and the door opened and he was walking by and he started staring
i saw him at lunch and when i did my heart just started to skip and he looked at me again...

could it be that were soul mates? and how can i talk to him?

2006-10-17 12:54:48 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

I think he may already know, but I'm not sure.

2006-10-17 12:49:55 · 5 answers · asked by Kmore 1

2006-10-17 12:49:47 · 21 answers · asked by perfection 1

I have been going out with my boyfriend for almost 2 months My boyfriend likes to get on lesbian chat rooms and pretend that he is a girl in order to look at thier webcams to see them naked. He sits on the computer and masterbates to those girls' webcams. Then he wants me to suck his penis while he looks at the girls. Im starting to think that i dont seem to satisfy him anymore. Now hes starting to want me to do stuff with him on webcam like have sex suck his penis etc. I dont feel comfortable doing this and he dont understand why. im not really sure if i can tell him that him doing this is upsetting me. He also tells me that he wishes i looked just like those girls who are blond and as he says are hott. I am a short but skinny redhead and i guess im pretty. When he does this i dont think im good enough for him anymore. whould someone please help me with this??????????/

2006-10-17 12:48:18 · 8 answers · asked by peaches17774 1

I have been talking to this guy ever since May. and well we were getting to know each other for months and we recently got together about a month ago. But the thing is just a couple of days I made a retarted decision and broke up with him out of anger. I felt like at that moment it was the right and only thing to do. He begged if I can change my mind, and I constantly said no to his question. He finally gave in. But now the tables have turned he refuses to get back with me. And i cannot sleep, eat or concentrate without this dude, he say's that he will never get back with me again, but I wanna know what you guys think I can do or say to get him back. I am willing to do anything I LOVE HIM with all my heart! - Somebody help me plezzzzz!

2006-10-17 12:46:43 · 16 answers · asked by Diva2ThaBone 1

were physically attracted to eachother and we are talking and getting to know eachother better little by little step by step. last night he called to say hi and i was sick so i asked if he can come see me because i told him it will make me feel better if i saw him, and he came. we drove around and went by the waters because it has a really nice view. everytime i ask him to come he would drive all the way from brookyln to queens to see me unless he's busy and has something to do. he also respects my thoughts and decisions on things. so last night on my way back home, i asked him whats going to happen between me and him and he said "were talking for now but in time lets work something out". maybe he wants us to get to know eachother better before starting a relationship. what do you guys think? wouldn't he have asked me out if he likes me? honest opinions and answers will be greatly appreciated. thanks

2006-10-17 12:46:05 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Is there anyone in your life, a teacher, classmate, ex- boyfriend, uncle, whatever, that you really really hate right now?

2006-10-17 12:44:58 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

i just want to find out if anyone knows a site that dosent charge.

2006-10-17 12:40:05 · 4 answers · asked by shell 2

2006-10-17 12:39:04 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

are you pooer then you were 5 year's ago and seem you will never get any relief?

2006-10-17 12:38:29 · 2 answers · asked by mishoney 4

what should i do with a stepson that talks to his mother she is a piece of dirt ,breaks things ,and feel no blame for anything he does,. but still he wants the world to be handed to him on silver platter while doing nothing for it.

SOMEONE PLEASE HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2006-10-17 12:37:39 · 8 answers · asked by CRAYO 2

We have been married for 3 years. A year ago I had surgery and may not be able to have children. The sooner we try the better our chances. He says he wants kids, and yet we never have intercourse. He just isn't interested in having sex with me. What can I do to make him want to have intercourse?

2006-10-17 12:36:48 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

IM having a heartache!!!!?
Despite of all my flaws.... my life i think i did something that in the long run wil be good for me but for today its weakening...me!!!
i talked to this guy ... who has been doing things" to me and iv retaliated ... stroking my hair/cheek./face etc .. and my retaliation would be ALLOWING him... coz i got too many loving vibes from him. For some reason .. he acted oddly and i just bluttered out everythin in BLACK.WHITE . and he was on a denial trip . i dont even knkow what theconversation ended at (it was on phone)!!!!
Well...it took an effort to make him mellow ..but i just dunno. This relationship was an accident ,.,, and he was pathetic .
ok.. now the dark truth ... i'm married ... still this hapened ... and..no i was not looking for a "new" relation i was just hoping for a CLOSURE ... and i just dunno what to feeel!!!!
i feel sick.
yeah many of yu will say.. "yu desrve it" yup i do... but is anyone going to be kind with me???



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2006-10-17 12:29:57 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-17 12:29:57 · 9 answers · asked by bo dee 1

i want to spend every minute with my boyfriend. i love him so much. i think i am messing up our relationship tho. i cant help it i miss him so much when hes not with me and i call him a lot im not physco its just i really love him and i cant live with out him how do i stop being like this and be more secure?

2006-10-17 12:24:58 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm a red hair but please answer: blonds or brunettes?
And why?

2006-10-17 12:23:29 · 8 answers · asked by Madelain M 1

2006-10-17 12:23:27 · 12 answers · asked by perfection 1

My current beau of a few months, as we should say, was just told that his ex was 6mos pregnant. Possibilites are that its not his. Dates don't match. I don't know if I should walk away from the situation now just in case it is his or stand by his side and give him support thru this hard situation. Help!

2006-10-17 12:22:13 · 10 answers · asked by caasi2004 1

2006-10-17 12:21:19 · 12 answers · asked by queenmeplse 2

2006-10-17 12:20:18 · 23 answers · asked by buddah 2

If you want to talk to your ex-boy friend but his family say that he is not there. What would you do about it? You want to talk about something. Because of some thing you heared. And you went to tell him your feeling about him. So this is your question?

2006-10-17 12:18:58 · 9 answers · asked by tink172007 1

Ok, me and this girl are like best friends, but I have strong feelings for her. When i told her, she was surprised, she didnt know what to say. She had a boyfriend, but they recently had a nasty break up, and I was the one she came to lean on. Now, when i ask her about her feelings, she will never give me a straight answer. She says she doesn't know if she is ready for a relationship yet, but I hear people talking about her and this other guy. It occured to me maybe she is just afraid to turn me down, with us being such good friends and all. She keeps saying that its nothing like that, but I don't know what to think. I'm afraid I may have moved too fast, too soon. Its just so confusing cause I don't wanna screw up our friendship, but I really think there could be something more to it.

2006-10-17 12:14:01 · 5 answers · asked by can_you_see_me_now 1

my son in lawno he didnt do oit cop sayin it wat can happen

2006-10-17 12:09:01 · 1 answers · asked by piglet19642000 1

My boyfriend & I had split cos of our parents makin our lives a misery.We couldn't stay apart (he would call me over 50 times a day) &got back 2gether in secret.I ended up pregnant & when we had a row he told me how his mum (who has been hauled in 4questionin over his dad's murder) would make sure I never got 2c my child. I had an abortion,though he'd apologised 4what he said,&asked me 2keep the baby.I would have had no support &a potentially life-threatenin struggle otherwise, in my view.A couple of months later,he cheated on me.He told me on the same day &says he's really sorry,but he also says that he was upset,confused &wanted 2hurt me.I can't believe that being upset about an aborted baby is conducive to maintainin an erection? He says that if I'd have kept the baby,everything would have been OK? Am I mad,cos I just don't understand how 1 thing lead to the other? It was a long time ago,but I still don't understand.Please help.

2006-10-17 12:08:34 · 39 answers · asked by viv friend 2

Did it a little too early last time. How long should I wait so I dont seem like a creep.

I also want to avoid that awkward silence after I say it.

Or should I just wait for her to make the first move?

2006-10-17 12:08:33 · 8 answers · asked by Joe F 2

I have currently been kicked out of my life by my significant other, I have two children with her and thought we were getting along ok. To me, it seems that all of our recent problems started when she asked me if on one of my off days I could watch the kids. I lived with her so it was no problem, she said she just wanted to work out, this was about 4 mo. ago, about a month ago, she stared staying out till 6 a.m. and had started coming home with alcohol on her breath. I obviously reacted to it, she said she was giving me a taste of my own medicine. I fish, and I take it seriously, on my off days I'll put 18 hrs. on the water, that's I'm sure part of it, but she keeps telling me I'm an *** and have to change, She tells me I treat her like crap, but when I ask how, she doesn't say anything, What do I do, I want to save my family????

2006-10-17 12:07:52 · 8 answers · asked by kwar1213 1

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2006-10-17 11:53:55 · 7 answers · asked by sexcraz420 1

last month i dated a guy (he's 19, i'm18) for 2 weeks ( we met online n were in contact online for 2.5 months, then we started dating in person). During the 2 weeks we dated, i got raped by him on the 3rd and 4rth days. I didn't want to have sex, i was a virgin, He pressured me in to sex. However when he was having sex with me, i didn't fight back, i didn't scream, i just said "no" n "stop", n after sex i cried a bit. But that's it. I again continued dating him, again he forced him self on me n raped me again, yet i didn't fight back. I didn't broke up with him either . Then, since sex was all he wanted, we had sex again 2 more times, but during these times i no longer said no, i was not participating in sex, meaning i would just lay there n he would do his thing. It didn't feel ne thing to me. I did it becuz i knew that's wat he wanted, i wanted to keep him happy, becuz had i said no he would break up with me. But he did ne way, after the 2nd week. there's more in to this, plz wait..

2006-10-17 11:46:37 · 6 answers · asked by kitXcat 2

He's 23 and I'm 22. I'm in college and he dropped out. Last summer we were laying down and he said "will you marry me" and I said yes, eventually. Then he said "I'm asking right now". So I said yes and I thought that meant we were going to get the ring.

Over the summer he left for a month to work at a summer camp. He asked me numerous times and asked if I should be w/him to buy the ring, I said yes because I'd like to help and I don't want something extravagant for my small fingers. He talked about it maybe every other night he was gone.

He hasn't brought it up since then and I don't know if I'm supposed to ask or what, or if I'm supposed to get rid of him for messing w/me like that.

2006-10-17 11:44:25 · 6 answers · asked by PlasticTrees 2