i want to spend every minute with my boyfriend. i love him so much. i think i am messing up our relationship tho. i cant help it i miss him so much when hes not with me and i call him a lot im not physco its just i really love him and i cant live with out him how do i stop being like this and be more secure?
2006-10-17 12:24:58 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Get your own life that doesn't revolve around your boyfriend, cause, believe me, his life does not revolve around you. (nor should it)
2006-10-17 12:41:00 · answer #1 · answered by Morley 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just begin loving yourself,
And dont worry, the clinging is just a phase, you'll get over it soon and would begin concentrating on your own hobbies and interests!!
And whats more, you'll even grow so far apart that you wont even remember him more than 3-4 times in a day! thats like after 2-3 years in the relationship
But for now, just relax and get new frieds and go out with them once in a while. Read some books and develop some intersting hobbies! You have a life of your OWN too dont you?
2006-10-17 12:30:12 · answer #2 · answered by Someday 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just take one day at a time and enjoy the time you two have together. Dont worry so much about tomorrw because no matter how hard you try.. it wont change anything. Two things you cant do nothing about is the past and the future. So.. just worry about today. Last but not least.. dont smother him. He needs some space just like you do. Just enjoy today as if there is no tomorrow. Good luck
2006-10-17 12:38:27 · answer #3 · answered by Peanut Butter 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not that hard to love someone that much. But I"ve there and done that I still love him so much it hurts. When I say I love you now and foralways that is what I meanby Shania Twain. I go off to be alone and cry over the one I love and stay depressed.
2006-10-17 12:35:20 · answer #4 · answered by sw33t_lil_sugar 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetheart all the hobbies and interests and whatever will never stop making... u quit craving Love..just find someone who says they want to be on the receiving end..
2006-10-17 12:32:27 · answer #5 · answered by dreamy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋