I have been going out with my boyfriend for almost 2 months My boyfriend likes to get on lesbian chat rooms and pretend that he is a girl in order to look at thier webcams to see them naked. He sits on the computer and masterbates to those girls' webcams. Then he wants me to suck his penis while he looks at the girls. Im starting to think that i dont seem to satisfy him anymore. Now hes starting to want me to do stuff with him on webcam like have sex suck his penis etc. I dont feel comfortable doing this and he dont understand why. im not really sure if i can tell him that him doing this is upsetting me. He also tells me that he wishes i looked just like those girls who are blond and as he says are hott. I am a short but skinny redhead and i guess im pretty. When he does this i dont think im good enough for him anymore. whould someone please help me with this??????????/
2006-10-17 12:48:18 · 8 answers · asked by peaches17774 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Dump this perverted creep immediately! Looking at porn on the net is fine, but using you for his own pleasure while comparing you to women whom he finds hotter shows no respect or consideration for you! Please, leave him and never look back.
This guy makes me sick!!!!
2006-10-17 12:51:45 · answer #1 · answered by schweetums 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all never do anything your not comfortable doing. This guy sounds like such a loser, he shouldnt be saying that he wants you to look like those other blonde barbie looking girls. You sound like a very pretty and nice girl and for him to be doing those things and saying disrespectful things like that you is just wrong. Put your foot down and tell him how u feel. Also a guy that has to pretend he's a chick to see girls naked in a chat room is pretty pathetic! It sounds like you deserve way better.
2006-10-17 12:55:47 · answer #2 · answered by Lady B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your boyfriend is a fool... And if he wants you to do things that you are not comfortable doing .. Tell him NO.. that was one of the first words your mother and father taught you.. so use is when he is asking for things that you don't want to do.. He hasn't got the right to make you feel guilty for not doing this stuff.
Honestlly think it is time for you to move on.. Just think you have only wasted 2 months of your time on him.. glad you found out about this before you spent to much longer with him..
and if you want to try and make things work with him. Tell him that you don't like doing that stuff and you don't want to be on the web cam.. if that is all that he wants then dump his butt and move on with your life and find someone that will respect you for who you are..
You don't have to deal with this crap.. you know how it makes you feel tell him. be honest with him and if he don't like it so what.. you are a better person than that .. find some one new.
2006-10-17 12:57:46 · answer #3 · answered by Sandy F 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My best example is dump the guy hes fantasising badly its not good or healthy...Thats yuk.
He has to watch porn to get off whats with that? Nah find you someone else it seems his hands are more important than you.
Good luck and find some1 that loves you and everything about you.
2006-10-17 12:53:35 · answer #4 · answered by fonua275 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi my name is valentina stevens i do psychic tarot card readings you are in a bad relationship, any time you have to put up with someone Else need of dark sexual behave and not be yourself it is not go for you or your ego unless you like it don't put up with it, this could bring harm to you and your self esteem, i have my own psychic shop and work with keen psychics well over 10 years you can contact me by e-mail at valentinastevevns@yahoo.com i will need only your d-o-b, hope to hear from soon
2006-10-17 13:10:10 · answer #5 · answered by valentinastevens 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off, thats totally mesed up. you NEED to tell him that you don't like what hes doing. im serious. and if he doesn't care about what you think then dump him and don't forgive him. seriously thatts my best advice
2006-10-17 12:53:59 · answer #6 · answered by ! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Two words. Dump him.
Yah, I agree... He's using you, and you aren't even aware of it.
Nah, you're too good for him. He's the one who doesn't deserve you.
Good luck :]]]
2006-10-17 12:51:39 · answer #7 · answered by ♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is using you to get off. Get rid of him.
2006-10-17 12:51:16 · answer #8 · answered by kny390 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋