My boyfriend of 3 yrs. knows my deepest darkest secrets. I fell in love with him because he was my best friend .We shared everything. I had never been in love before, and I am 44. Here's the question....due to circumstances beyond our control....long story .....my ex and child custody....etc.... We had to break up.
Now he threatens me ...that he will tell my family that my Dad sexually molested me for ten years...no one knows this but my ex, my sister, and him. What do I do? He says if I don't come back to him, he will write my Mom, who is 74, a letter by email and tell her the truth. I never told my mother because she had enough pain in her life due to my father's alcoholism and all. Why would he do this? Do you think he will? Should I wait and see? Should I tell my Mom first? My Dad is 78 now and on a feeding tube. He had cancer and radiation and all the rest. I don't know what my parents will do...it could cause them a heartattack or something. I don't condone it.
2006-10-17
05:58:31
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lucy p
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