How do you tell if a guy is a player or he is serious????????

Answer 1

I don't trust guys who buy flowers and teddy bears, meaningless stuff that ain't worth much. I don't trust guys who say such lovely things like they're practicing for a Romeo and Juliet production. I don't trust guys who say, "Whatever you want baby" in a seductive voice.

Give me a man who takes my car to do an oil change and when I get it back, it is in pristine condition like a new car, because he spent the time to vacuum and wash it for me. (Gives you more than you ask for)

Give me a man who when I call to pick up something from the grocery, he does so without a quarrel (dependable man)

Give me a man who leaves work to take my sick mother to the hospital (a family man)

Give me a man that does not remember anniversaries or birthdays, but keeps every little thing I give to him like a treasure, even an old shoe lace I gave him years ago for some odd task.

Answer 2

I think all men are players until they find the right one. It's just the name of the game. And honestly would you want a man who would just give himself up so easily. Hell no as women we like the challenge, and the challenge represents strength, which we all know is what we as women look for.

I wish you well

Answer 3

Sincerity. If he is really interested in you he will show that by asking questions to get to know you. If he's nothing but a flirt then he's probably a player.

Answer 4

What has he done in the past? How does he treat you? What do your instincts tell you, follow your gut feeling, the fact that you are asking could be trouble, good luck.