You know that saying once a cheater always a cheater. Of course you do. Well is there a chance that they won’t cheat ever again. Anyone been cheated on before and it never happened again?
I believe any man who cheats need a woman to help him grow up and out of cheating. Who’s better than his loved one? Right?
2006-10-17 06:04:47 · 8 answers · asked by mandi lala 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I was cheated on when his sister inlaw passed away in a car accident. he was 22 and she was 18..me i was 17. He told me he loved me but tried to start a relationship with this girl. She knew bout me but didnt care. She loves his neices and nephews and had the hots for my man.
He stopped seein her shortly after I found out, now he wants to marry me and have a house with me.
2006-10-17 06:33:04 · update #1
it all depends on the person. i was with a couple of guys who had cheated on me, i found out, they said it wouldnt happen again, but it did. lets see...i had two long term relationships, one was 2.5 years the other was almost 4 years...within that time they both managed to cheat on me a total of 9 time...one cheated 4 times, the other 5. *i didnt find out about most of them until the very end* so umm...its very likely that that statement is right on the ball! its true with a lot of people. but your right, it could just take the right kind lover to teach them and make them NOT want to **** up what they have. just be wonderful and everything they desire and your likely to succeed. im with a guy that had cheated on his girls in the past but has changed his ways. im still cautious, due to past experiences, but i trust until proven wrong *kind stupid but the only way i can live* so far, all has gone well! i believe that i am the one he has been wanting and wont ever hurt me like that. I myself...yeh ive cheated in past relationships, only a couple of time and only once did i go all the way to having sex with someone else. but that was the last time for me. after that i felt horrible and i had lost someone i loved dearly and it had scarred me and started bad rumors about me. i decided myself that i would no longer do that to someone, for i know what its like to have it done and its all just too messy and dirty! im not a cheater at all...my philosophy, if you really get those urges or temptations to be with someone else when your in a relationship, you need to make the decision to either stay in that relationship and forget about your selfish needs OR dump that person before you hurt them and screw yourself over.
2006-10-17 06:17:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are Lot's of reasons for cheating, none good but.... Before you assume that statement to be true, you need to consider why this person cheated and their age. Immaturity could easily play a role. Perhaps he wasn't bright enough to get past the urge. I only cheated once in my life, but she was cheating too. What it came down to was that I wasn't man enough to tell her it was over. Basically I knew we were done and just started messing around before it was official. If you are talking about a man in his late 20s or older who has cheated recently or has a history of it then maybe it is a way of life and not an exception. I work with a guy in his 40s who has always cheated. He says that no 1 woman can keep him satisfied. What do I think ? I think that he is very insecure and needs the conquests to feel good.
2006-10-17 06:25:41 · answer #2 · answered by rock d 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
human beings continually say this, yet i don't think it. i imagine it relies upon on the stages of intimacy, dedication, and keenness in a relationship. If both companions are satisfied and satisfied throughout the period of the relationship, then a previous cheater might want to be committed. I do, notwithstanding, imagine that its truly puzzling for a relationship to make a comeback after someone has cheated.
2016-12-04 22:25:16 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a tough question. The answer is probably maybe. Some men will always cheat, others cheat because of a void in their relationship that might be better filled with someone else. You'd have better luck with the latter kind of guy.
2006-10-17 06:13:46 · answer #4 · answered by buff831 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My experience is that women cheat more than men do. My experience is "once a cheater, always a cheater". Sorry.
2006-10-17 06:14:25 · answer #5 · answered by Otis F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yup. Once a cheater, always a cheater. Until he reaches about 75 years old and just can't keep up...
2006-10-17 06:14:07 · answer #6 · answered by Katherine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree. I don't think players and cheaters stay that way all their life. They are looking for the right one to settle down with. And when they find what they're looking for, why would they stray?
2006-10-17 06:21:27 · answer #7 · answered by shondak 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
half - half
don't believe in guy's words always - but their behaviour
but trust them if you choose to - trust them, trust yourself too
2006-10-17 06:20:11 · answer #8 · answered by chloe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋