So I'm 20 and there's this professor i'm absolutely obssesed with, he's smart and approachable and so sexy. I had his class last year and he kept givng me these looks that let me know he's interested, but i know he'll never make his move because it could be interpreted as sexual harassment. so my question is how do i make mine? p.s he's about in his late 40's and married as well.
2006-10-17 06:20:43 · 31 answers · asked by picturemeyours 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i know you feel like you have feelings for him, but please keep it is a crush. not only could he get in trouble, but it wouldn't lead anywhere. think of who you would be hurting if you did...his wife!! what if he has kids? it's just not fair. maybe he showed you signs because you are an attractive person. unless you are blind it is hard not to notice attractive people, but i think you might end up getting hurt or hurting him or his family...not to mention his career. the reason why you might be so obsessed is because he is older which often times is very attractive and also, you know in a way that he is something you can't have. i wouldn't do this, so i can't recommend a way to make a move. i know it's hard to let go of crushes or infatuations, but seriously, this just sounds like a sexual thing. find someone else attactive to like and move on.
2006-10-17 06:29:11 · answer #1 · answered by cheekybrit 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hes caching ur interest.. believe me this teach I knew chached on me for so long and then he wen along and got married to someone else. In my college Its absolutely OK to ask a girls hand in marriege but he just acted like a jerk ..And even after havin his first daughter he isnt ashamed and tries to give me the I love u and no one else look!! I know u cant believe it but I then just gave him the I-know-what-u-want look.
Most teachers who cant control themselves fool girls coz they can easily fall for them
My teacher was the most intelligent charmin guy I had ever come accross.Yeps. But now I have dumped him. I dont want to have any relationship that makes me NUMBER TWO. If he really liked me he would have asked my hand in marriage.
Secondly I see that ur guy is also married and beleive me my man was in his 20s and so was I ...I felt so regected.
My advice ..plz ignore him.
If he was intelligent and charming ur teach would make his wife happy and thus make his life better..not go around shooting flirtish looks at others. THATS what a REAL intelligent and handsome man would do dont u think!!
2006-10-17 06:34:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on what you want in your life. My advice is "BE CAREFUL!!!!". Such matters are very delicate. Apart from the question of whether he feels the same about you, you should ask yourself if you want to be the one to break up a family. Above all, what if he just wants to fool around? There have been many cases that a teacher just wants to fool around with a student and then leaves him/her high and dry. The consequences? The worst of all an emotional breakdown and time lost to recover and get on with your studies. The first one sooner or later you will get over it with a little help from your friends. The second one is even harder. Just be careful!
2006-10-17 06:33:02 · answer #3 · answered by andrew_papam 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try taking a course in "Immorality and acting like a Cheap, Common Strumpet 101".
Not only should this help you but I can see that you will excel greatly at this as you have all the characteristics to be no better than a common prostitute.
Huh...and this is what the schools of higher education is turning out now.
Bet your parents are proud of their little girl.
2006-10-17 06:37:18 · answer #4 · answered by Quasimodo 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Leave him alone and let him be happy with his wife. You have no business interfering with his marriage. If he wanted you he would have approached you. Sexual harassment has never stopped a man that IS interested in a woman. He is not interested in you, get over it. he loves his wife. I hate girls like you, just wait until you are married and you have to worry about your husband. GROW UP!!
2006-10-17 06:31:24 · answer #5 · answered by micah z 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
So let me recap this question:
You want advise on how to compromise your self respect, destroy a marriage, ruin the integrity of a good professor by trying to tempt him with a sexual relationship for your personal gain?
So is the class :How to be a whore 101?
2006-10-17 06:32:35 · answer #6 · answered by Denise W 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Leave him alone! Nothing but heartache comes from this.... He shouldn't make his move because he is married and cheating on his wife will kill the trust and probably his marriage. He may lose his kids, his money and his job. You want to be the secondary cause for all that?
2006-10-17 06:29:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't and your a whore if you know he is married and still try, if you should have success at getting him, may god send a fine sexy woman to pay the same curiosity to your husband when your in you late forties and happily married with kids. Good Luck and pray for yourself.
2006-10-17 06:30:01 · answer #8 · answered by Wood77 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-02 09:37:42 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
really not a good idea. you could be accused of inappropriate conduct and censured (relocated, talked to by the dean, possibly kicked out!). Just find someone who looks like him and go on a date. Believe me, older guys seem cool until you have their real life fall in your lap like their creepy ex-wife, or pissed off current wife, or they have sexual dysfunction, or prostate problems. Just keep it a fantasy, the fantasy is better.
2006-10-17 06:33:53 · answer #10 · answered by ts 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋