My cousin has so much things that I like things like tiffany and co. louis vuittion handbags and all expensive clothing so much of everything and I am so jealous because I want things like that but i just dont have that kind of money it hurts me so bad to see her with all that and i cant have that life i am greatful for what i do have but what can i do it bothers me that she has everything.
2006-10-17 16:18:34 · 6 answers · asked by babygirl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
look dont let material thangs make u jealous of ur people cuz that is very ugly just tell he u like her style and if u have a birthday coming up or christams let her know that u would like to have somethang like that and hopefully she will get that for u
or u can get a JOB and work for what u want
2006-10-17 16:25:41 · answer #1 · answered by ~Tranell~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't feel bad about the situation because by you getting so upset about not having the things she has will only have you dwelling on it even more. This is what i say you should do ask to borrow some of the stuff sometimes maybe she'll be kind enough to share.
2006-10-17 23:55:32 · answer #2 · answered by mzblack 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know alot of people are telling you not to be bothered with material things. it does bother people not to be able to get what others have and that is just basic human nature.
there are wholesale stores out there that offer brand name things at a much lower price such as Kohl's, TJ MAXX, Gabriel Brothers, Value City, etc. check out those stores.
my opinion is, if you can't pay cash for it, YOU DON'T NEED IT.
she may have all the world at her finger tips, so it seems, maybe she buys all those things because she is truly unhappy.
it's found in most studies that shopaholics are usually depressed and that's a way to make themselves feel better at that time. such as depression leads to drug abuse and so on. it just makes them feel better at that time.
2006-10-17 23:51:51 · answer #3 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey you should be thankful for having the things that are necessary. Anything over that is just a waste. She is probably not any happier than you are with all her things. People that have everything don't appreciate the true things in life. God will provide for you the things that you need all you need to do is ask him for your needs. Anything more than you need is lust. God Bless you.
2006-10-17 23:26:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really need not worry about them material things. Material things are not a real person. I like nice things to but I can't afford them either so I get what my little money can buy and be happy.
2006-10-17 23:38:50 · answer #5 · answered by just me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can find good deals on ebay and other places on line. But really and truly who cares about that stuff? Paris Hilton??? Do you want a boyfriend?? Then get off the materialistic train and be yourself! No guy wants a gold diggin' barbie who carries a $800.00 purse?
2006-10-17 23:27:08 · answer #6 · answered by ? 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋