Ok, I've been dating this person for a little minute. I've now come to realize that I need space and time to work on myself. My partner aggres with me and told me to handle whats most important, but after a week I find myself calling him every other day. We saw each other last nite for the first time in like two weeks, and he kept making comments like "oh you dont do me anymore". He also said that he wants to call me but he doesnt because I said I need my space. Is it wrong for me to get mad that he calls once every two days? Is he really respecting my decision or is he moving on?
2006-10-17 16:55:24 · 8 answers · asked by Ultimate Diva 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You cant have your cake and eat it to. Either you want him to call you or you want your space. You need to make up your mind and let him know what you want. I think if you feel like you need your space than you dont really want to be in a relationship right now. There is nothing wrong with being single and finding yourself. Just don't make someone wait around for you at the same time. Let him go and live his live. Maybe you guys can start fresh some other time.
2006-10-17 17:01:02 · answer #1 · answered by GEE-GEE 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You say you find yourself calling him every other day - then you say you get mad when he calls you every 2 days- give the guy a break you must be damaging his brain with all the confusion.
I reckon both of you should have no contact for a week & then see at the end of that time how you both still feel
2006-10-17 17:00:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I think it's wrong to get bad at him since you call him every other day. If you're going to lay boundaries you should be the one who keeps them. Talk to him again, make it clear for the both of you. If you have to resort to having your parents hold onto your phone or whatever do that.
2006-10-17 17:01:02 · answer #3 · answered by X M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he is respecting your decision. So ther is no need to be upset, your trying to figure yourself out and I'm sure if you want his help or opinion you can ask him and be glad he is still calling you even tho its not everyday. If it doesn't work out he is not the only one out there for you.
2006-10-17 17:02:18 · answer #4 · answered by angie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes gonna end up moving on if you say u need space which to me if my fiance told me that id think he didnt want me anymore
2006-10-17 17:03:51 · answer #5 · answered by angela43512 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he's using you and can't accept responsability for his actions, therefore, he places blame on you for your decision. there's better out there! good luck!
2006-10-17 17:00:14 · answer #6 · answered by Karen M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I need help understanding what you are saying.
2006-10-17 17:01:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
IT SOUND LIKE YOU NEED TO TALK TO HIM AND FIND OUT
WHAT REALLY IS GOING ON,
2006-10-17 16:58:27 · answer #8 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋