2006-10-17 21:34:43 · 29 answers · asked by djshy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Remember that they are with you now and that no matter what happened in the past is in their past so forget about it they have bout your past relationships. Concentrate on now and your future together.
2006-10-17 21:36:09 · answer #1 · answered by Missbutterfly:-) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know it's difficult to think of your partner in bed with someone else, but at the end of the day s/he's with YOU now, and that's what counts. Put it yout of your head by thinking that if you partner hadn't been with all those other people s/he wouldn't be the wondeful person s/he is now and the person who loves you. Everyone has a past, but it doesn't need to affect the future unless you let it become an issue, which will likely destroy what you have now. Focus on the present and the future.
2006-10-17 21:38:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think, there would be no problem if your partner is real free at the time you accepted him. I mean, your partner is already divorced, or doesn't have existing boy/girlfriend. With this, you wouldn't care anymore of his past relationships. Accept him and his past. Live happy with him. Spend every moment as if everyday is your anniversary, celebrating your love day.
As they say, when you accept your partner, accept his everything.
2006-10-17 22:15:44 · answer #3 · answered by Orlie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's in the past should stay there! All the things that have happened to your partner have in the past have made your partner the person you fell in love with! Unless they're constantly banging on about it just put it from your mind - it really doesn't matter. Value the time you spend with them today, and look to your shared future. Tiime spent dwelling on the past is time wasted.
2006-10-17 21:38:11 · answer #4 · answered by Roxy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing to get over, they were nothing to do with you.
If your partners past relationships bother you that much then perhaps you need to look at whether you are mature enough for an adult relationship.
2006-10-17 21:37:42 · answer #5 · answered by neogriff 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By living in the present.
Your partners last relationship is for him / her to get over - by joining you in the present one ~ through being 'engaged by you in it' and hopefully, 'building upon what you have together.'
It's not always as easy as I have painted it, sometimes you may need to listen ~ as it is in the retelling of the past that allowss it to drift into 'the past' and settle there.
Good luck.
Sash.
2006-10-18 01:45:22 · answer #6 · answered by sashtou 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not enough info here but if you feel the need to get over a relationship that has passed you'r obviously not ready to move on with your's .
2006-10-17 22:01:18 · answer #7 · answered by nicemanvery 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I understand you correctly, your partner's previous relationships are not for you to get over.
2006-10-17 21:36:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The same way they get over YOUR past relationships. If you two are together now, who cares about the past.
2006-10-17 23:48:12 · answer #9 · answered by LittleBitOfSugar 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
by remembering it was your partners LAST relationship x
2006-10-17 21:44:44 · answer #10 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋