So there's this guy and there's a huge age difference between us.
We've just started getting serious but we have to keep it on the down. I mean he's not married or with anyone. And, well his personal business is really in the public eye. Im scared to get him in big trouble but its like being with a "not legal" guy. And you know, we've never had sex, it's just I dont want his reputation to fall apart if anyone finds out he's with an underage girl (I'm 16). Whenever we're out we cant do anything because if someone he knows finds out, he could be named the new pervert. What should I do?
2006-10-16 05:08:56 · 11 answers · asked by dewey_dew 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
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2006-10-16 05:15:02 · update #1
(sorry about that last added detail)
But he doesnt have kids and he's told me he doesnt want sex at all. =(
2006-10-16 05:16:35 · update #2
I am a mature 16 year old but none of that matters to me. I mean I know that we're good for each other even if I cant write it down on the computer but all I'm seriously worried about is what society would say.
I've only told one friend and she talked with the guy and everything and she said in this case age shouldnt matter, but people will say things about him. =( =(
2006-10-16 05:24:07 · update #3
See, you guys are telling me that I should break up with him but I dont want to.
I'll wait and everything but he's so great.
If only you knew....
2006-10-16 05:38:19 · update #4
your life,your choice, you choose.....
2006-10-16 05:12:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
Hun. If you are 16 and this guy is older than you and he doesnt do things with you first of all he knows its wrong and you know that it is wrong that there is a HUGE age difference and if you are not sure about this and you are asking people that you dont even no for help then Hun you no the you have to break up with him. And he is actually a pervert because you are under age. It is true that he is a perv. You know that it is wrong and you feel that if you break it off then you don't know what is going to happen or what you would do. But you can't go out with him you can't it is against the law. That is a crime. He is a pervert and have someone with you like a parent or something with you when you break up. Just tell him you are through. Good luck<33 and you can find someone better than a pervert <33
2006-10-16 05:35:02 · answer #2 · answered by 7thangel a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old is he? I am dating a guy much much much older than me... but I am over 18. In fact, I posted my own question about the same thing. Most everyone told me the same thing, but I have a little something else to say. Maybe you should wait till your over 18 to do too much with this guy. If he really likes you, he will wait till you guys won't get into trouble over it. The biggest reason that you should wait anyways is that even though women mature faster than guys, your still young enough that you might regret stuff that you do now. Your emotions are and will still be establishing themselves for a few more years. Don't be in a hurry. I was a very very mature 16 year old.... but you really should wait. Guys that much older can take advantage of young girls... be careful. I love dating older guys, but I did wait until I was 18... I think you should too... it would be good for you both.
2006-10-16 05:17:29 · answer #3 · answered by Myria 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He should know better. You should find someone your own age. By the way, he is a pervert. You are underage. He probably has kids older than you. Do you really want to be "the closet girlfriend"? This can never go anywhere. You should break off with him.
2006-10-16 05:12:38 · answer #4 · answered by Lotus 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all wait to get with him untill you are at least 18. after that be with whoever you want no matter there age or race. but at 16 you are not mature enough to handle the stuff that could and will go wrong in the realationship. if he has feelings for you he will wait until you turn 18 to be with you.
2006-10-16 05:12:45 · answer #5 · answered by ms01 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One thing i sure wouldn't tell anybody because he can get into big trouble. Just keep under cap and one day you will be old enough. That the age wouldn't matter. You should keep it to your self.
2006-10-16 05:16:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are already on dangerous legal ground.you didn,t say what his age is but the dscripnation would be the first thing that crossed the leagle/ public opinion minded. if he is in the public eye you had better be d**n careful.in your queston you gave some broad hints, age social standing, ?money? what else???? you decide
2006-10-16 05:21:14 · answer #7 · answered by houdini 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The male in this occasion lacks sufficient self-properly worth to objective to this point women people his very own age and perceives the extra youthful woman to be "extra handy" to handle. She desires to ditch this loser and get somebody who's extra worth of her. desire her stable success for me.
2016-10-16 06:24:12 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quit before he ends up in jail. The police can read too, dummy!
2006-10-16 05:15:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Name him the pervert and stay away from this guy.
2006-10-16 05:12:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ummmm stop seeing him for 2 years.
come on.. you are not YET having sex.. but any guy who is 18+ who is dating someone under 18 is looking for one thing.... sex.. sex,sex, sex.
2006-10-16 05:13:38 · answer #11 · answered by .... 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋