Other - Family & Relationships - 16 October 2006

I know this sounds really cheesy and all, but i need help.

My friends is having this SUPER fun party at the mall. My mom wont let me go because I have to go on this gay Bid Brothers Big Sisters hayride. It's the same exact time too, so I can't even arrive late to the party. My mom keeps saying " You made a commitment and you cant back down just because something better comes along." She didn't even ask me if I wanted to go or not! She just signed me up. So I didn't commit to anything. I try telling her that and she doesn't care. Please help. Thanks.

2006-10-16 11:34:20 · 5 answers · asked by Fizz 1

its really starting to get to me...this boy who really was into me im not sure if he likes me anymore. I defitnitley like him. and i miss the things he used to do and say to me. he asked me to be his gf in fornt of everyone, but i totally ignored him and probably embrassed him. all of a sudden he stopped. i dont know if he doesnt think i like him b/c my friend and i were talking about boys we used to like and i guess he overheard. after that he startin tryin to make me jealous and is kinda ignoring me. he said hi to me today though. im kinda shy only around him, how can i show him i do wanna go out w/ him

2006-10-16 11:26:37 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

Okay, I have this tutor. She is a 4th grade boys' teacher at my school. (I go to a K-8 Catholic private school.) My tutor is married, and I'm guessing is in her mid to late 20's. Here's the deal, she dresses kind of innapropriate. On Friday, at school, she was wearing black leather boots, a mini skirt, half way up her thigh (that's shorter than our uniform skirts!), and a faux fur coat! She isn't like super pretty. She's about 5"7, pale, short brownish-black hair, and is super thin. She is also pregnant. When I first met her, at school, for my school tutoring last school year, she was wearing a purple mini skirt, and she was sitting down, and I could see here pantie, it was a purple lace pantie. What is her deal with dressing so innapropriate?!

2006-10-16 11:26:11 · 4 answers · asked by Addicted To Abercrombie & Fitch 2

I have this problem, i dunno why ive started to think that maybe i should dump my boyfriend just so we'd be better off, the point is that im moving to the states in about a year or so, and im going to study there too for 4 years, 4 years is a really long time to not be with someone, so ive been thinking that maybe i should dump him to make things easier for us.
but then i start thinking that that is just stupid because we've been through a lot, really rough times and good times and we've gotten through it all, i really love him i really dont know what i would do without him, i just dont want to hurt him or anything.
So today i was just like ok w/e ill just let things go however they want to turn out, but during the whole day ive been thinking maybe i should dump him, but i seriously dont want to, there is no absolute reason i should, im going crazy, and i really love him i even think about marrying him i see myself with him in about 20 years and he does too. what's wrong with me?!

2006-10-16 11:25:28 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

Like I am tired of her doing things for me. I am 19 years old. She as well takes my money for no reason, Takes my cell phone for no freaken reason. Why is she doing that?

2006-10-16 11:24:04 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

My fiance and I are having to deal with a long distance relationship but I send him pictures and film of myself naked so that we can still have some sort of sex life but when I visited this weekend I found pictures on his computer of other women.

Is it just something all men do or is it something I should be seriously worried about?

I've taken him back but I haven't managed to forgive him yet and I feel as though I can't trust him. I do still love him though so I have no idea how to deal with this.

2006-10-16 10:36:27 · 32 answers · asked by Hannah 2

2006-10-16 10:34:25 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

So she has been texting me late at nite and telling me she is sorry wished it could be different,she misses being togather and that she wishes it wasnt so hard,I gave this girl everything,including the moon,did i spoil here?Yes,plenty of attention and she knows all of that,but i am trying to move on here and have found out that there are plenty of girls out there.I have recently started dating again and i am enjoying it,i dont have to walk around on egg shells
so do i have feelings ?yes,its hard so i am trying to find a so;ution here,HELP anybody

2006-10-16 10:33:00 · 11 answers · asked by sale dog 1

i am 20 years old and When i was about 10 weeks pregnant i came home from a night at my sisters house. When me and my friend got to my house there was a strange car in the driveway. i went into the house and my b/f jumped out of the bedroom zipping up his pants. his *friend* which i have met before came out of the bedroom.. did i mention her pantys were on my couch? anyway so he said he was sorry and he just wasnt ready to have a baby blah blah blah. anyway that has been almost a year ago and we are still together. since then he has quit his cocaine use and spends all of his time with me and our baby. he supports us both and is a great father but i still cant get over it. i still think about it all the time afraid he is going to do it again, i cant go through that again! am i stupid for staying with him? how do i get over this?? help!

2006-10-16 10:21:13 · 4 answers · asked by smule1985 2

During summer he loved being my friend and he wasnt that much into girls and now after school started he hasnt been talking to me or anything.Please give me an answer!

2006-10-16 10:13:39 · 20 answers · asked by Sidneyy!@#$%^&* 2

They say you can tell a lot about a person based on his/her room or any kind of personal space.

Since I'm at work, I'd like to ask: What's on your work desk currently and why are these things there?

:)

2006-10-16 10:13:04 · 7 answers · asked by ♥iamsleepy♥ 4

I became pregnant July 2005 and at the time I was no longer dating my ex-boyfriend. At first he told me everything would be ok, then a week later he admited he was not ready to become a father. In other words he was 20yrs old and wanted to party! It was pprobably one of the worst pregnacy's ever. It was extremly hard not having any support from him. After having my daughter, I thought things would get better between us, but of course they didn't. I have put up with verbal abuse for the past 15 months and nothing is getting any better. I am such a better person than the way he makes me feel, but I just won't let him go? I am so... despret for help, I have no idea what it will take to make me snap back to reality. He has litterally ruined every bit of my self-esteam. I feel as though I will never be the person I was before I ever met him. Most of all, I am more wrapped up in him that I am my 6mo baby girl. ! How can I get over him if I have to keep in contact with him because of our baby

2006-10-16 10:07:56 · 16 answers · asked by Tara M 1

i cant seem to win. I always get guys who turn up hurting me. What is wrong with them why do they hurt us like this.

2006-10-16 10:06:39 · 17 answers · asked by loveliliekisses 3

i need some ways to make some extra money fast to pay bills i live in an apartment

2006-10-16 10:05:15 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-16 10:03:46 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-16 10:01:54 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-16 10:01:45 · 5 answers · asked by bh37bh37 3

Question and this excludes anyone that has a disability that prohibits them from working.

If you are a peson that is happy to live on benifits with no intention of working.

What makes you think this its ok to take and not give?

2006-10-16 10:01:08 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

Every time my mom ask me when i get up to go somewhere in the house. My mom ask me like : " where are you going?" its pretty annoying and how should have my mom understand that she doesn't need to know where i'm going around the house, I always tells her where I'm going when i want to go out to hang with my friends but i don't why she needs to know where i'm going around the house and how should stop her doing that? HELP I feel like i'm her jailer! FYI: I'm 15!

2006-10-16 09:58:38 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

Whats the deal? Is he trying to get me back because he did say that we were friends?

2006-10-16 09:56:54 · 9 answers · asked by To Remain Anonymous 1

Check out guys packages as they walk by, the way guys look at a woman's chest or bum? or are you not as visual as men tend to be.

2006-10-16 09:55:34 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

why is that mostly the wife have problems with there inlaws. All the questions seems to be the wife have problems with there inlaws . Mens seem not to be bothered by there wife`s family .Is this true ?

2006-10-16 09:54:00 · 7 answers · asked by tony 1

♥My exboyfriend wants me back for after he broke up with me and now, he said that he wants to take a break so he could get his grades up and everything. What should I do with myself and life?♥

2006-10-16 09:52:13 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have a strong feeling that my boss is trying to replace me. This new guy came into the office and my boss asked me to teach him everything I know... He's been here for 1 month and I'm still not sure what's his exact title, or why he is even here...I know more about the database than anyone is this company. I am training this guy and I have a strong feeling that he is here to take my position over...Should I just quit or be a b**ch and teach him the wrong information???

2006-10-16 09:51:04 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have an 18 year old neice I live with, she is a sweet girl, but is driving myself and my sister out of our minds with the constant wanting to use our vehicles and "borrow" $2.00 to $7.00 a day ,not including gas she uses from the cars. She needs to find a way to make at least spending money , no one is asking to pay for groceries or household bills. It is very hard to get her motivated to do most things . The ADHD makes it compounded. Anyone with this type of experience or any great ideas please by all means . Let me know. Thanks in advance.

2006-10-16 09:48:45 · 7 answers · asked by ssmithblueskies 2

About 2 months ago, my boyfriend and I of 3 years broke up, we never quit seeing eachother, still slept together and weren't really "broken up". But then 2 weeks ago, I was raped by a black guy (I'm white) and Chris (ex) was the first one I called. Things were great between us, and we were together together. He helped me so much, but then last night his dad decided that he doesn't have to accept me into the family again, and told Chris I had made the whole thing up to try and get back into the family. We got into a bit of an arguement over it last night since Chris didn't defend me at all. He and his dad both know I spent 5 hours in the hospital getting a rape kit done, and the evidence proves the man guilty. Chris's dad told him he had to pick between me or his family, I told him I didn't want to ruin the family, but wanted to be in his life, and if he absolutely had to, I would just go to make it easier. He told me he wanted me, then today he picked his family, and told me I get what

2006-10-16 09:46:41 · 9 answers · asked by MaNdYb 3

2006-10-16 09:46:19 · 27 answers · asked by Child of God 3

to the high school that i will go to...and like he wants to hang out with me but my mom keeps saying no!!and i relle badly wanna hangout with him!!we talk on the phone like all the time and my friend knows him so of course hes not weird or any thing well yeah what should i do?

2006-10-16 09:45:18 · 5 answers · asked by iluvotis 1

The second part of my question: I was very explicit with my ex when I told him that meeting up with that woman would end our relationship...and that I did not approve at all. Of course its going to make me uncomfortable given the whole affair. Since learning of her return, I asked him several times if they have spoken/met up. For every time (over 6 months) he has answered NO and even become upset at me for asking. I have since found he has spoken on the phone and met up with her.

When my ex made the decision to talk and meet with this woman he carried on a 2 year long affair with (prior to meeting me), did he make a choice? Is it a choice when you know the consequences? He argues he made no choice over me. I argue he did.

What do you think?

I argued that he did. He has said that this wasn't a choice. Yet, when you know all the potential consequences of an action, aren't you making a "choice" when you chose the action?

2006-10-16 09:45:06 · 4 answers · asked by Sebring 2

My great grandma had 15 kids, along with other relatives.-I couldn't handle 1 child! -how many kids do you plan to have?

2006-10-16 09:43:09 · 8 answers · asked by strange-artist 7