i cant seem to win. I always get guys who turn up hurting me. What is wrong with them why do they hurt us like this.
2006-10-16 10:06:39 · 17 answers · asked by loveliliekisses 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
There are alot of women out there though that like it. And alot of good guys have been dumped by women, because they weren't jerks, so the guys changed to try to keep the women. I guess they think all women like it. I have had good guys ask me why a woman would dump them when they treated them like a queen. Just hang in there, the right one will come along. I never imagined it would happen, but I am living prove of 10 months, working on a house and marriage. When you least expect it a great guy will come along. You have to go through alot of bad apples till you find the great one. Good Luck!!!
2006-10-16 10:13:24 · answer #1 · answered by la_southern_femme 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You get guys that hurt you because you are attracted to them and will continue to do so. I am a nice guy and good looking but women will not stay with me if I treat them right. If I treat them like crap, they cling to me like white on rice.
Men learn from women and treat them that way because it's what keeps you coming back for more. I know you don't believe me but it is true none the less. I wish it were not so.
It really is sad because I don't like treating women that way but it is the only option. I really hate doing it.
2006-10-16 17:11:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe because women are plenty and guys can find girls plenty.
In the USA, there are 7 million more females than males and in the UK, 4 million more females and they say there 25 million gay males in the USA. Men are in demand.
Also Christianity and Islam say that towards the end of the world, women will outnumber men by 50 to 1.
2006-10-16 17:11:10 · answer #3 · answered by Mr Business 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know if its in their nature to treat women like garbage. And not all men do. But I think you might want to look at it another way. We (women) let them treat us badly. Take a look around, there are so many desperate women (or we act desperate).
Sorry about what happened to you. Next time be more protective of your heart. Your worth it!
Good luck
2006-10-16 17:10:43 · answer #4 · answered by stacina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some ladies just always end up with the wrong people. As a guy, I always wondered why ladies would not pick out me. I was always nice and considerate; but they wanted looks over someone who would treat them right.
2006-10-16 17:09:15 · answer #5 · answered by bigfree_2005 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on how they are hurting you. If you get hurt because they don't love you or whatever, that isn't them treating you like garbage...If they are hitting you and yelling at you and stuff like that...then they are really treating you like garbage and you need to get out! Not all men are like that. But for some reason...so many women complain that their men treat them like garbage, then when the actually find someone nice...they leave for someone else to treats them badly again.... you just have to keep lookin and hold on to it when you find it!
2006-10-16 17:09:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are just taking cues from american society. It is portrayed on TV that a man can get a gorgeous wife no matter what he looks like - and can also treat her like garbage because there will be 10 more gorgeous girls waiting in the wings for him.
2006-10-16 17:08:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not Nature it's nurture.
Women treat men badly they then turn around and treat women badly. If women were nice and nit selfish they would not have these problems.
Women even treat other women badly
2006-10-16 17:08:53 · answer #8 · answered by keith s 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You said you ALWAYS get guys who end up hurting you...which says that you keep picking that type of guy...you need to find out WHY you keep doing the same thing over and over and expecting different results...
2006-10-16 17:17:58 · answer #9 · answered by angeleyes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i cant really tell u whats wrong with them. not all men r like that. ur just having some bad luck when it comes to love. all i can say is to keep looking for ur right guy. dont worry he'll show up sooner or later and hopfully for ur sake it will sooner rather than later. good luck and i hope u find mr. right! ; )
2006-10-16 17:12:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋