What should I do?

Question

♥My exboyfriend wants me back for after he broke up with me and now, he said that he wants to take a break so he could get his grades up and everything. What should I do with myself and life?♥

Answer 1

Focus on your own education and future, not his. He clearly isn't the right guy for you. Move on.

Answer 2

Sounds like you are letting your boyfriend run your life instead of you running yours. There are many fish in the ocean and you should date more than just this one guy. You could waste a lot of years with this person and miss out on finding someone that is more suited for you. Take a break, date, and you can always come back to him if there is still an interest.

Answer 3

Focus on yourself. Self-care is everything. It sounds like he's put you on an emotional rollercoaster--one that you can step off of. But it will take time and patience with yourself. When things suck in my life, I always try to treat myself extra gently and do things that I find soothing like bubble baths, walks in nature, talking with a close friend, or anything else that calms me.

If your boyfriend is pushing and pulling you in and out of his life, I would try to take control of my own life back. You can't control how he will react or whether or not he wants you in his life, but you can control your life. So start putting things in your life that are fun. Take up an activity you haven't done, but always wanted to, talk to friends and family (don't isolate yourself) and just try to make your life great whether or not he is part of it. Once you feel more balanced, you can make better choices (if there are any to make). But really be good to yourself. A great movie to watch about taking back your life is Under the Tuscan Sun. I like watching feel good movies too! Girl power!

Take care of yourself.

Answer 4

GIRL LET ME TELL YOU SOMETHING, I'VE BEEN DOWN THAT ROAD SO MANY DAMN TIMES THAT I COULDN'T IMAGINE DOING IT AGAIN... HERE IS ALL I HAVE TO SAY MY LIFE MOTTO IS AND YOU'LL REMEMBER THIS JUST LIKE I DO AND WILL ALWAYS, "THE ONLY ONE IN LIFE WHO IS GOING TO TAKE CARE OF YOU IS YOU!!!"; IT'S NOT GOING TO BE YOUR MOM, FRIEND, BOYFRIEND OR WHO EVER ELSE, YOU NEED TO THINK FOR YOU AND GET YOUR LIFE ON TRACK AND QUIT WORRYING ABOUT WHAT THESE "SO CALLED" MEN HAVE TO OFFER YOU...DEPENDING ON YOUR AGE, I WOULD GO TO SCHOOL, GET A PART/FULL TIME JOB AND WORK IT FROM THERE....DON'T WORRY THERE IS SOMEBODY OUT THERE FOR EVERYBODY.... GOOD LUCK!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 5

I think you should move on with your life, he broke with not think about how it would affect your grades. So let him have all the time he needs, just with someone else.

Answer 6

I think he's just yanking your chain. Get on with your life. Work on getting YOUR grades up (if they aren't already) and get involved with other people so you can meet a new guy. It's your future and he probably won't even be there, at this rate.

Answer 7

i dont understand your question.. bc you said your broken back and he wants you back and now he wants to take a break??? hmmm lets see ... well imma tell you this, if you like him nenough to take him back then go for it, and if you feel as if its gonna be a waste of time and space then 4get it... but if he broke up with you and wants you back and now wants to take a break, i think he got bored without you for a second .... but i dont know listen your heart not your mind

Answer 8

Finish up school...get a decent job....get a new wardrobe new hairstyle manicure pedicure and be diva in every aspect of the word.....intellectually, physically and spiritually. And there nothing wrong being by yourself.....enjoy your friends, your family, don't rotate your life around your boyfriend....rotate it around you....

Answer 9

Dump him, move on. Remember there was a reason why he broke up with you in the first place

Answer 10

Well it depends on how u personally feel! If u still like him a lot then u should probably give him another chance! but it really all depends on how u personally feel!