i am 20 years old and When i was about 10 weeks pregnant i came home from a night at my sisters house. When me and my friend got to my house there was a strange car in the driveway. i went into the house and my b/f jumped out of the bedroom zipping up his pants. his *friend* which i have met before came out of the bedroom.. did i mention her pantys were on my couch? anyway so he said he was sorry and he just wasnt ready to have a baby blah blah blah. anyway that has been almost a year ago and we are still together. since then he has quit his cocaine use and spends all of his time with me and our baby. he supports us both and is a great father but i still cant get over it. i still think about it all the time afraid he is going to do it again, i cant go through that again! am i stupid for staying with him? how do i get over this?? help!
2006-10-16 10:21:13 · 4 answers · asked by smule1985 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
THERE ARE TWO THINGS AGAINST YOU RIGHT NOW THE FACT THAT YOU ARE PREGNANT WITCH MAKES YOU VERY EMOTIONAL SECOND YOU ARE 20 AND THAT COULD MAKE YOU EMOTIONAL ALSO !! I SAY F.U.C.K HIM BE A SINGLE MOM YOU WILL PROBLY DO A LOT BETTER WITHOUT THAT F.U.C.K.ING. CHEATING BASTARD!! AND YOU MIGHT JUST MEET A NEW OHNEST GUY WHILE YOU ARE PREGNANT I DID AND WE HAVE BEEN MARRIED GOING ON FIVE YEARS AND HE LOVES MY SON AS IF HE WERE HIS OWN!!
2006-10-16 10:25:47 · answer #1 · answered by notyochic 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
for the sake of the baby
please get over it.
and if he is doing good by you now, and your baby.
then just be glad you get to stay home w/ your baby and not have some one else taking care of ur baby.
just get all of the bad thoughts and put them in to a balloon and let them go it is better 4 baby
2006-10-16 18:25:10 · answer #2 · answered by ez-goin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't give him a reason to cheat! Be loving, kind, thoughtful and appreciative to him, and proud of him for getting off of drugs and for getting a job and supporting you. Make him happy that he is staying with you and his child. You can work it out...sounds like it is working if you stop letting your mind work overtime. Don't be so insecure, and change your attitude.
2006-10-16 18:39:55 · answer #3 · answered by Nisey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Really depends on can you trust him and does he really want to be forgiven.Usually when one cheats it will happen again History usually repeats itself.Good luck maybe talk to a good reliable friend for some good advise
2006-10-16 17:28:22 · answer #4 · answered by xlhdrider 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋