Other - Family & Relationships - 16 October 2006

my ex-wife had an affair and i caught her. so we divorced and now she has moved someone in to replace me and won't let me see my kids. i have missed 2 of their birthdays ands all the time in between. i dont know where she is or how to get ahold of her

2006-10-16 07:16:23 · 8 answers · asked by inshape261979 1

have u ever heard of these words..!!
most oftenly used by some-one tats todays topic to discuss :)

2006-10-16 07:11:17 · 3 answers · asked by Mickey 2

Say someone cheated on you and you knew about it but didn't break up with them. They ended the "affair" or whatnot and you're still together. I choose to believe that he will not do it again. Is it still possible to have a healthy relationship?

2006-10-16 07:06:31 · 10 answers · asked by Ally S 3

i saw her sitting on his lap and doing something
it was really disgusting

after someday she said she had bussiness tour so i left her
i didnt have any suspect on her
but i wished to follow her i saw she going to the nightclub
i didnt knew why did she go
so i entered the nightclub
i didnt see clothes on any ladies inside the club
i got shocked and thought why should she have come here without my notice
i had a photo of her and asked for assistance in the bar side of the nightclub
i got a guy and asked him why she comes here
the guy said she goes in the room to have sex so she is a prostitute
i really got shocked
what should i do?

advice please

2006-10-16 07:05:50 · 8 answers · asked by m and m 1

Ive got my dependency confused with love,
my underconfidence with my humility,
my needs with my nicecity,
my fear with my anger,
my weaknesses with my depth,
my selfishness with my bonding,
my skin is like a reptile's,
its dead from the outside,
Im waiting for it to shed,
but beneath is too soft and tender,
I dont want to reveal myself.
Im too sensitive for that.
I still have hope,
I still pray,
U laugh?
What else can I do?
I have to keep going,
although I khow,
Im only.... moving in a circle.

2006-10-16 07:00:38 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-16 07:00:18 · 9 answers · asked by gerald w 1

I have been racking my brain trying to think of something to get him for christmas. and since he's in the army i didn't see that things like cd's,dvds, ect would be that good of a present. I've decided to take photos from around the city we're from and other landscapes from the area and makea photo album for him.

is this a good idea and would a guy like it?

2006-10-16 06:59:34 · 8 answers · asked by ♥Brown Eyed Girl ♥ 5

Why are Asian women such sellouts that they'd point out to Asian male intollerance when the real intolerance exist with white guys when it comes to Asian interracial relationships?
Asian American females often assert that Asian males are intolerant of Asian female/white male interracial relationships yet the truth is that any intolerance with Asian interracial relationships exists with white males who support Asian female/White male relationships yet denounce Asian male/white female relationships or any relationship involving white females and nonwhite males in general. Not only do white males have a history of violence and prohibition against these kinds of relationships but they have shown their discontent of these relationships through violence, laws that inhibit these relationships and in modern times divergent depictions of support for white males in interracial relationships and disapproval of Asian males in relationships with white females and any relationships of nonwhite males with white females in general.

Asian females do not have the right to question Asian male tolerance towards Asian female interracial relationships with white males as Asian males have been more than tolerant with these kinds of relationships probably to a fault. The fact that there aren't news stories about Asian males acting disapprovingly towards Af/WM relationships by spitting, punching, verbally abusing or trying to physically or socially inhibit these relationships prove that Asian males are more decent guys than white guys when it comes to these kinds of relationships. White males have had a history of inhibiting their women from having relationships with nonwhite males even to this day through violence, passing of laws, social and media conditioning and other despicable acts of intolerance.

In modern times, white males are prevented from committing racist and hypocritical actions to prevent nonwhite male unions with white females by law, yet these racist and hypocritical sentiments are shown through social disapproval and media disapproval of nonwhite males with white females and support for white male/nonwhite female relationships. This includes violent and threatening actions shown to relationships between nonwhite males and white women.

If white males were given the power, they would make every effort to inhibit relationships between white women and nonwhite males. In modern times, the only real way the white male can control interracial relationships is to manipulate images in the media hoping that these images would shield white women from interracial relationships with nonwhite males and if possible promote nonwhite female relationships with white males.

It's difficult for white males to manipulate the black and Hispanic community in this regard because their population sizes are too large and because they have political and social influence that Asians do not have. Blacks in this country have the NAACP, Nation of Islam, Bloods and Crips street gangs to defend against white media denigration and manipulation of their people. If they can't influence the media to control their image through politics, they can thug their way to make sure that their images are portrayed correctly. Hispanic groups have a huge population base with bordering nations which minimizes them from the negative effects of the American media. A majority of them keep true to their identity which makes it hard for the media to control their social patterns.

Asian people neither have a large population size in this country nor do they have any prominent social or political groups that can defend against the negative manipulation of the white media which allows whites to divide and manipulate Asian Americans. They have made Asian female interracial relationships with white males acceptable yet denounce any unions between Asian males and white females. Though this hasn't stopped Asian male interracial relationships with white females, they are doing their best to make sure that Asian males have a hard time with these relationships.

Asian women are deserving of the "sell out" moniker not because they're in interracial relationship with white males but because even though they know that white males have a history of racist hypocritical patterns when it comes to Asian interracial relationships, they see no reason to question this hypocrisy yet finds it easy to blame Asian males to boaster their hypocritical behavior.

Asian females do not have the right to question Asian guys for questioning their interracial relationships when white males have had a history of making it illegal and in the present time denouncing Asian male relationships with white females. It is because of the Asian female's unquestionable acceptance of white male hypocrisy and racist pattern which includes constant deriding of Asian males to support their relationships that they are worthy of the sell out moniker from Asian males and everybody else who’s familiar the meaning of word "decency."

2006-10-16 06:55:19 · 8 answers · asked by sidewinder45 2

Hi my birthday is approaching soon, but i always dread it as i feel guilty all the time when i get presents. I dont know why i feel this way but i do, I think its because my birthday is near xmas and i get presents also then and its like i think i dont deserve presents or something, I just feel guilty does anyone elsefeel this way and why ?

2006-10-16 06:48:40 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-16 06:48:09 · 4 answers · asked by Trina 1

when you ask a question and people are nasty or say they are glad you did something and hope you get punished for it.

Or they are really patronising - there isnt any need for it and frankly if that is how you are going to be rather than helpful i dont want to hear from you

2006-10-16 06:45:28 · 54 answers · asked by Scottish Fee 2

He's 24 and has been living with me and my husband.

2006-10-16 06:36:10 · 25 answers · asked by Barbara T 2

2006-10-16 06:32:59 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

like how do i know that i'v been raped? and what happens? is it sex against your will or what do the they do

2006-10-16 06:31:45 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

Why do woman like to show cleavage and that they are wearing thongs or small underwear that go between the cheeks?

2006-10-16 06:31:32 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

Just last week I made the final decision to dump my boyfriend of 1 year because he has a drinking problem. I told him he needs to get help and if not, iam leaving. Well last week he slipped and drank and I just dumped him like that. Now iam thinking I made the wrong choice because I should have given him one more chance and if you love someone you should stick it out. Right? A ll I do is cry and I can’t eat or sleep thinking I threw away the love of my life because of me not wanting to hurt anymore. Did I do the right thing and if so how do I get over it?

2006-10-16 06:29:59 · 27 answers · asked by :::Rae::: 2

my boyfriend is always telling me he dont like it when i where shorts...so i banded my self from wearing shorts out in public he gets mad if i talk about other guys.... like my male friends he thinks they be felling on me sometimes

2006-10-16 06:27:55 · 4 answers · asked by C...R 1

This concerns Asian Female/white male hypocrisy:

Asian American females often assert that Asian males are intolerant of Asian female/white male interracial relationships yet the truth is that any intolerance with Asian interracial relationships exists with white males who support Asian female/White male relationships yet denounce Asian male/white female relationships or any relationship involving white females and nonwhite males in general. Not only do white males have a history of violence and prohibition against these kinds of relationships but they have shown their discontent of these relationships through violence, laws that inhibit these relationships and in modern times divergent depictions of support for white males in interracial relationships and disapproval of Asian males in relationships with white females and any relationships of nonwhite males with white females in general.

Asian females do not have the right to question Asian male tolerance towards Asian female interracial relationships with white males as Asian males have been more than tolerant with these kinds of relationships probably to a fault. The fact that there aren't news stories about Asian males acting disapprovingly towards Af/WM relationships by spitting, punching, verbally abusing or trying to physically or socially inhibit these relationships prove that Asian males are more decent guys than white guys when it comes to these kinds of relationships. White males have had a history of inhibiting their women from having relationships with nonwhite males even to this day through violence, passing of laws, social and media conditioning and other despicable acts of intolerance.

In modern times, white males are prevented from committing racist and hypocritical actions to prevent nonwhite male unions with white females by law, yet these racist and hypocritical sentiments are shown through social disapproval and media disapproval of nonwhite males with white females and support for white male/nonwhite female relationships. This includes violent and threatening actions shown to relationships between nonwhite males and white women.

If white males were given the power, they would make every effort to inhibit relationships between white women and nonwhite males. In modern times, the only real way the white male can control interracial relationships is to manipulate images in the media hoping that these images would shield white women from interracial relationships with nonwhite males and if possible promote nonwhite female relationships with white males.

It's difficult for white males to manipulate the black and Hispanic community in this regard because their population sizes are too large and because they have political and social influence that Asians do not have. Blacks in this country have the NAACP, Nation of Islam, Bloods and Crips street gangs to defend against white media denigration and manipulation of their people. If they can't influence the media to control their image through politics, they can thug their way to make sure that their images are portrayed correctly. Hispanic groups have a huge population base with bordering nations which minimizes them from the negative effects of the American media. A majority of them keep true to their identity which makes it hard for the media to control their social patterns.

Asian people neither have a large population size in this country nor do they have any prominent social or political groups that can defend against the negative manipulation of the white media which allows whites to divide and manipulate Asian Americans. They have made Asian female interracial relationships with white males acceptable yet denounce any unions between Asian males and white females. Though this hasn't stopped Asian male interracial relationships with white females, they are doing their best to make sure that Asian males have a hard time with these relationships.

Asian women are deserving of the "sell out" moniker not because they're in interracial relationship with white males but because even though they know that white males have a history of racist hypocritical patterns when it comes to Asian interracial relationships, they see no reason to question this hypocrisy yet finds it easy to blame Asian males to boaster their hypocritical behavior.

Asian females do not have the right to question Asian guys for questioning their interracial relationships when white males have had a history of making it illegal and in the present time denouncing Asian male relationships with white females. It is because of the Asian female's unquestionable acceptance of white male hypocrisy and racist pattern which includes constant deriding of Asian males to support their relationships that they are worthy of the sell out moniker from Asian males and everybody else who’s familiar the meaning of word "decency."

2006-10-16 06:24:14 · 9 answers · asked by sidewinder45 2

2006-10-16 06:22:38 · 11 answers · asked by ABCD 1

How do you feel about people that post situations about others that deal with private issues, just because someone works in the healthcare field does not give them the right to post details, they should have the common decency not to post the particulars about the patients they deal with...

2006-10-16 06:21:54 · 13 answers · asked by Pale 3

My problems are my dad walked in on me making out with my girlfriend my best friend hates that i got the girl he liked and my dad said he hate me what should i do

2006-10-16 06:14:15 · 6 answers · asked by Tyler 1

I Know His Name And His Wifes. Please HELP
Thanks

2006-10-16 06:13:03 · 13 answers · asked by derren_sally 2

What would you prefer for christmas..
a top digital camera or a mp3 player??
what would you prefer??
i have narrowed it down to these 2 for my boyfriend, and help will be appreciated! :o)
Thanks alot ;o)
xXx

2006-10-16 06:12:46 · 11 answers · asked by Fader's Girl 6

My partner & I go to counceling to try & get over past issues & get back together, She moved out over 6 months ago, Yesterday she sent me a real nice Secret Love Letter greeting card over the internet & then turned around & put her profile on the internet. What do you make of this? I fell like counceling is a game & she is not honest or sincere about it.

2006-10-16 06:12:04 · 3 answers · asked by J.J. 1

and they freaked out about it? Or how did they respond?

2006-10-16 06:09:31 · 9 answers · asked by MiZmeL 4

My bf (in the beginning) was always kissing me, we had sex all the time (twice a day smtimes) and slowly his interest has peetered (pardon the pun) off to the extent of null & void.I bring it up occasionally and we'll talk, but it always seems to be something. His extra pounds, he's tired, sick...I know he loves me tremendously (that's NOT the issue).He's NOT having an affair (I'd wager my first born on that truth).If he's depressed, but not to the point of sleeping all day and not curled up in a ball in the corner(you've heard of walking pneumonia, right?) I guess I need encouragment to hang in there. I have already walked away from my last two marriages when in hinds-sight, I could've stuck it out. I want to see the rewards for standing by someone thru their troubles without my own needs causing me to run into the arms of someone else who won't meet them all either. I've never had a bf or hubby who did not think I was all that & a bag of chips!This is new for me.

2006-10-16 06:09:04 · 18 answers · asked by Barbie 2

I'm really having a difficult time dealing with the end of a relationship and i NEED to move on so badly. What do you do that helps?

2006-10-16 06:08:59 · 16 answers · asked by goddess1 2

I have just enrolled my children (one and four )in a franchise daycare facility, and will be going back to work soon. My one year old needs more attention and love, and I'm not feeling quite right about this placement. Please help!

2006-10-16 06:08:47 · 1 answers · asked by nicole f 1

we've been dating for 5 months..and we just recently broke up..we remained good friends but this randomGUY is saying i selpt with him, while i was with my ex...now he didnt beliveme n said all this crap..about loving me when it was a lie n bringing me into his life n family...he hasnt found out it was a lie yet..but trust it is and he is already sorry, because i havent been talking to him at all.. he came over my house last night when my father was at work, and said he was going to do somthign stupid n hurtful to himself when he left...so i had him spend the night..when my dad came homehe found him hiding and now im kicked out of my house n i dont know what to say to anyone.i dont have a mom..she lives in FL and we dont talk..the only person i do have is my dad..but he doesntwant me? should i stop talking to my ex altogether.because with him around in total i have made some pretty bad decisions im in my senior year..2nd month n i missed 4days of school, and my father is not happy @all

2006-10-16 06:02:27 · 11 answers · asked by Sami 1

people have been telling me that they have heard stuff about my boyfriend and i just wanted know if i should believe them or wait and find out myself?

2006-10-16 05:56:22 · 9 answers · asked by ? 2