Say someone cheated on you and you knew about it but didn't break up with them. They ended the "affair" or whatnot and you're still together. I choose to believe that he will not do it again. Is it still possible to have a healthy relationship?
2006-10-16 07:06:31 · 10 answers · asked by Ally S 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Yes, it is possible to still love that person. However, the issue here is not about love, it is about fidelity and trust. Can you truly trust this person after he/she has cheated on you with another person? What was the reason for the infidelity? Is this person really worth it? You need to think about what you are looking for in the relationship.
I have seen and experienced relationships that have survived infidelity, but it always takes work and a re-establishment of trust.
2006-10-16 07:11:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes it is possible to still have a healthy relationship. It all depends on how he cheated on you. If it was a kiss or making out or something like that, i don't think i'd leave the guy i was in love with, because i'm sure you do trust him enough to believe that he wouldnt do it again, and i'm sure he wouldnt. And although it may always be in the back of your mind, you'll always love him. Love doesnt go away, no matter what. Now, on the contrary, if he cheated by them touching his dick in anyway, or him to her, then i'd leave him, because that's preventable, and wrong. If you get back together and he truely is sorry for what he did, then thats something else, but you can let him slide, just thinking he can get away with whatever.
2006-10-16 07:17:27 · answer #2 · answered by April Lynn 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, I am in the exact situation. My bf cheated on me with someone from work, and he ended it with her and realize what he would be missing if we broke up. its really hard for me to trust him, but its been going okay. So yes i think that you can still have a healthy relationship, just don't bring the cheating thing up because it can get in the way and you'll fight. If you get suspicious again, just dont bring it up to him, find out from sources.
2006-10-16 08:02:27 · answer #3 · answered by x_victoriamae_x 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Mistake #1: He cheated on you but you didn't break up with him.
Mistake #2: You're still together.
Mistake #3. You think he won't do it again.
Mistake #4. You think you can still have a healthy relationship.
Does LIVING IN A FANTASY WORLD mean anything to you?
2006-10-16 07:12:36 · answer #4 · answered by backinbowl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Y would u love someone that has betrayed u ? Do you like to be disrepected and crapped on? Good luck with your loser bf or husband and your loser life. He isn't workthy of your love if he cheated. Period. When more men get the idea that they can't just and come back, they will stop cheating. ZERO TOLERANCE.
2006-10-16 07:18:31 · answer #5 · answered by Kelli T 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can always love someone without liking them
2006-10-16 07:09:13 · answer #6 · answered by brunette 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yep, but you have to learn to trust him....Love is nothing in a relationship without trust...
2006-10-16 07:11:43 · answer #7 · answered by only me 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
yes
2006-10-16 07:43:49 · answer #8 · answered by sotolokun 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's possible, but your love for that person won't be the same...
2006-10-16 07:11:38 · answer #9 · answered by aemi 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
kwite simply no its over, finished ,dead.
2006-10-16 07:23:32 · answer #10 · answered by fredi b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋