He's 24 and has been living with me and my husband.
2006-10-16 06:36:10 · 25 answers · asked by Barbara T 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
People have a heart. I wouldn't of kicked him out. I would never do that to my kid. I would not have him arrested.
Why do he do this? Is he in between jobs? By kicking him out. You will never get the $120 back.
I always believe in helping your kid no matter how old he or she is.
2006-10-17 00:51:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know why your son is still living with you at 24 but maybe finances forced him too. The big thing is that he violated your trust when he stole your card and at 24 he knew exactly what he was doing telling me he has very little respect for what is yours. It's time for him to leave the nest and become responsible for himself he is years past needing mommy and daddy to supply a place to live and food to eat. You did absolutely right and I hope that what you meant by he's on his own is that he has a deadline to move out by.
2006-10-16 06:53:11 · answer #2 · answered by oldmomma 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you did the right thing, and at 24 living with you and stealing from you, you need to get him out and not offer him any help all your are doing is enabling his bad habits! You want a self sufficient son then cut him off if not he'll be dependant on others for the rest of his life and never amount to anything,
2006-10-16 06:39:40 · answer #3 · answered by DEE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ban him from the yoville internet site - if he's not mature adequate to play it responsibly, there isn't any choose for him to play it in any respect. i'm taken aback that he'd attempt and steal funds out of your debit card like that, and that i in my opinion wish he feels sorry for it. in case you have not already, i think of this could be a physically powerful time for a lesson on funds administration. Make him start up working for his own funds. Have him pay you $one hundred fifty. If he asks why - nicely, why is it ok for him to take $one hundred fifty from you in case you are able to not take funds from him? tell him that he needs to stop stealing, and which you will not take in any further funds from him if he keeps his promise.
2016-11-23 14:46:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea, you did right. He's a grown man...where im from you are considered lazy and lowdown if your not out by the age of 19! Girls 18 boys 19, 20 is pushing it. But he's stealing he cant get away with that!!
2006-10-16 06:39:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why did he do this? Communication is key, come to an understanding and let make his own way. He is 24, not a baby. Just let him now you are his mother and....
2006-10-16 06:44:51 · answer #6 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, confront him and get the quilty/not quilty plea. If hee took the money, explain to him that he is STEALING from his own family. Then, come up with a re-payment plan. If he can't live up to this, kick 'em to the curb!
2006-10-16 06:40:25 · answer #7 · answered by super.sweep 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you did right. My only question is , if hes 24 years old, why is he liveing at home unless he is in college ?
2006-10-16 06:40:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes! You totally did the right thing. My mom let my brother (38 years old) steal from her. He still lives with her and still takes things, but she still forgives him. Don't be like her because it sounds like it's only the beginning for you.
2006-10-16 06:49:26 · answer #9 · answered by toobusy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I kick him and if he pull this sh## again I call the cop. If he is back home living with you then he is weak and you need to tell this little boy to grow up.
Have him joint the army so something
2006-10-16 06:39:21 · answer #10 · answered by Kenshin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋