its really starting to get to me...this boy who really was into me im not sure if he likes me anymore. I defitnitley like him. and i miss the things he used to do and say to me. he asked me to be his gf in fornt of everyone, but i totally ignored him and probably embrassed him. all of a sudden he stopped. i dont know if he doesnt think i like him b/c my friend and i were talking about boys we used to like and i guess he overheard. after that he startin tryin to make me jealous and is kinda ignoring me. he said hi to me today though. im kinda shy only around him, how can i show him i do wanna go out w/ him
2006-10-16 11:26:37 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
oh the reason i ignored was b/c he asked me in front of another boy i used to like at that time
2006-10-16 11:32:17 · update #1
You can try using one of human`s greatest achievments - language.
If you feel shy around him, this means that you are in love.
You have two options to consider:
1.Continue your childish and pointless game of I ignore you, than be hurt by your ignoration.
Or, just go and tell him that you like him and it was foolish of you to play the Unaproachable lady, and you wish that you meet each other somewhere else than the school yard.
Learn to express your feelings and listen to your heart.
Don`t be ignorant and hypocritical child of the communication-tarded modern society.
2006-10-16 11:35:04 · answer #1 · answered by Ateviel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the only option for you is to start being freindly with him and make him realise that he's special to you. You could even ask him out (but not in public) cos men have this inferioriry complex (believe me, i should know. Im a man too). Anyway, why did you ignore him and embaress him in front of everyone? Even id do the same thing that he's doing if I were him.
2006-10-16 18:30:03 · answer #2 · answered by ecosse1985 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
An interest in a woman can take on different shapes. Some guys lose sight of all else when 'hooked' on a peticular woman and will stop at nothing to 'get' her. In my point of view that is wrong in so many levels. Others accept that a certain amount of effort is required but that womans test can take on a manipulative quality that reveals a darker side to the woman in the longterm. From what you have said he would have liked to date you but your unwillingness to commit to him revealed a flakyness in you. I can appreaciate that from your vantage point it's nice to be chaced and awkward to be but on the spot infront of other desired suiters. But to him, he made his intentions clear and gave you a chance to act. You choose to turn him down in a public setting which is somewhat embarressing (he took that risk by asking where he did but that's logic and mainly we are talking about emotion).
So to get him to take up interest in you again I'd suggest doing something to show that you aren't sitting on the fence and trying to hedge your opertunities. What you do is up to you.
2006-10-16 18:51:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You embarrassed him by ignoring him when he asked you to be his gf. You could apologize for that for a start. Just admit your mistake and say, "I don't know WHAT I was thinking!" Maybe you were too nervous and didn't know what to say, admit that and that will be a big step.
Keep saying "hi" to him and make small talk. Then, if he really likes you maybe you two have a chance together.
2006-10-16 18:30:35 · answer #4 · answered by Stimpy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey well first of all dont do what you did, that is so immature, now you gotta talk to him, tell him why you did what you did and tell him you are shy, there was this dude that I really liked in hs and finally one day i was really shy but i asked him if i could talk to him and we ended up sitting and talking over a cold coffee drink for like three hours, those were some of the best spent hours of my life
2006-10-16 18:46:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Honey, you gotta be honest with him and don't play any games. Just tell him how you feel and everything should turn out fine. You'd be surprised how much time people waste that they could have spent with each other because they were too "shy" or "scared".
2006-10-16 18:29:15 · answer #6 · answered by Lolo 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
All that stuff you said you did - that's what you did.
Try doing the opposite of what you did. That's what someone who wanted to go out with the guy would do.
2006-10-16 18:29:16 · answer #7 · answered by John's Secret Identity™ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
to be shy doesn't mean to be roud if you did like him, you should show him a bit of respect if you want to go out with him send him a text message or email so you are not going to be so afraid.
2006-10-16 18:30:21 · answer #8 · answered by Ingrid D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to him and apologize for doing something that may have caused him discomfort. Let him take it from there.
2006-10-16 18:29:22 · answer #9 · answered by seeitmiway32 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well that wasn't nice to blow him off like that. but you should appoligize to him and tell him what your think about him.
IN A NICE WAY!
2006-10-16 18:29:59 · answer #10 · answered by miss swan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋