Like I am tired of her doing things for me. I am 19 years old. She as well takes my money for no reason, Takes my cell phone for no freaken reason. Why is she doing that?
2006-10-16 11:24:04 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Take nude photos of her in a compromising situation and then threaten to post them on the Internet if your demands are not met. Worked for me, I got a puppy.
2006-10-16 11:27:37 · answer #1 · answered by neptune032701 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well from what i have seen and been in i can tell you and dont take it in a bad way .
she is bored for one she might be feeling that you are in the way between her and your father she is and seems like a greedy type person who only cares about her self and what you can do is when ever she does something to you just pretend she not there let her take away the cell why as long as you talk back to her she feels like she is winning so all you have to do is become stronger and dont let anyone come between you and your father. it sucks but you have to fight it and when she sees that you dont care she will stop making her self look like a jack*** if you stay talking back and all these things then it makes you look bad as well when she says something to you a yeah ok and walk around witha beautiful smile everyday and she will give up she might be one of those crazy ones but dont worry you cant make someone stop and look before they do something let her walk into the wall and have peace i wish you luck and if you get really mad or upset then chat with me im here so good luck
2006-10-16 11:37:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't get involved in your dad and stepmother's problems. It is easy to say and lot harder to do. First of all it takes two to have an argument. Don't let yourself be pulled in. Your stepmother is really pushing your buttons, but you don't have to respond or justify anything when she wants to make a scene. Don't disrespect her or your dad because it sounds like their life is a soap opera anyway and you are the scapegoat. You can set boundries also. You don't have to listen to a long distance tirade. Simply state that you don't want to listen to it and won't. Then if the drama continues hang up the phone. Your dad has to (?) live with this woman, so he is taking the easiest route. And try to find someone you can trust and vent to them about you problem ( Counselor, priest, paster, etc ). Good luck to you !!!!
2016-05-22 07:17:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would suggest you seriously consider getting a job and getting out of there....if talking to your father about it won't help. Where do you leave your money that she can get to it? Who pays for the cell phone? You've said very little about the interaction between the two of you. A little more info about the whole situation would help all those who would answer be able to give you more helpful advice.
2006-10-16 11:30:12 · answer #4 · answered by Nani 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could try talking to your father. Get a lock for your bedroom door. Keep your money in the bank or locked in the bedroom.
And if you are 19, you are legally old enough to move out. See if you have a friend that needs a roommate.
2006-10-16 11:27:24 · answer #5 · answered by Stimpy 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Of course your Dad first... if that doesn't work for some strange reason. Then confront her period.
I suspect that you are leaving some info out of the equation you are having...are there reasons on your part for her behavior.
Remind her that your money is your money and that what she is doing is stealing and that your are entertaining thoughts of calling the police.
2006-10-16 11:29:35 · answer #6 · answered by oldtimer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like one of two things or both...
She's feeling insecure about you growing up and becoming an adult
or
she's a control freak.
Either way she is crossing boundaries that she shouldn't. Is there anyone that is close to her that you could talk to (that you can trust) that can talk to her about this?
Good luck..
P
2006-10-16 11:29:20 · answer #7 · answered by phoenix 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best person to talk to would be your stepmom. Are you doing something to her to make her do these things to you?? Try to sit her down and talk calmly to her!
2006-10-16 11:27:26 · answer #8 · answered by SidTheKid 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you are 19 , get your own place too live , move out why are you still living with her ,
2006-10-16 11:28:42 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
she is tyin to b the perfect mom but then again secretly dont like you
2006-10-16 11:27:12 · answer #10 · answered by Carlin 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋