Were on a break in our realtionship and its got to be comming up to 3 weeks since i last seen him properly.He txted me saying that the time apart is helping. I seriously want this to work as i love him so much.
Do you think after 2 and a half weeks he would know if he wanted this realtionship to work as much as i do or not?
Shall i give him more time?
tell me what you think.
2006-10-16 04:49:43 · 13 answers · asked by Gemma M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Love doesn't need breaks and neither does honesty-remember this when the drama starts.
2006-10-16 04:52:52 · answer #1 · answered by moontreefairy76 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wow, i am almost in the same situation. This is peoples advice to me...give it time, if its suppose to happen it'll happen naturally. Men do not mature as fast as we do and don't always know what they want. Time will tell. Just give him the time he needs, be your own person, have fun with your friends and when he is ready he will come, if you feel like you can't wait anymore on him, then don't. I havent seen him either in a while, but it's gettin better as time goes along...let it happen :) Good luck to you and I hope it works out for the best.
2006-10-16 11:54:42 · answer #2 · answered by ConfusedK 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Was the break mutual? You shouldn't be left in the dark about what's up. What do you think he's doing during this time without you? If it was me, I'd respect myself and bow out gracefully. I sure wouldn't wait 2 weeks for a guy to figure out if he wants me in his life. I'd change my perspective and lower my respect level for him down a notch or two for playing such disrespectful headgames I wouldn't want someone like that in my life. "Working things out" means coming together to figure out the issues and ways to resolve them, even compromising, but not growing apart.
2006-10-16 11:58:52 · answer #3 · answered by Laura Renee 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i am going through the same thing except are breaks never work she always calls me up a day or 2 later and tells me she loves me. i dont know just keep waiting if you love him. Im waiting it out for my Girl. we have dated three years now she thinksh she dosnt know anymore whats she wants. email me sometime maybe we can talk and help each other thru this rough time.
2006-10-16 11:53:32 · answer #4 · answered by lilpimptk101 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm in the same situation. except that my gf had her one month break and she asked for another 3 months!!! Does having break helps? I dun think so... they just dun wan to face the problem....
2006-10-17 11:46:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He texted you to say the time apart is helping??? omg he couldnt even call you? Honey it seems to me he already found someone else to spend that time with. Find someone worth your time!!
2006-10-16 12:00:49 · answer #6 · answered by treez1976 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Any person who says they want a break...is gently letting you down. Why wait around for this person?
2006-10-16 11:52:52 · answer #7 · answered by blueeyeskenai 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes. don't try to urge him into doing something hes not ready for. that may push him away. just give him time, he'll come to you when hes ready.
2006-10-16 11:53:29 · answer #8 · answered by *HEiDi!* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope, hes seeing someone else already.
2006-10-16 11:52:11 · answer #9 · answered by FF Geek 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give him all the time he needs
2006-10-16 11:52:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋