Marriage & Divorce - 27 October 2007

the future and dreams that you once were headed towards?

2007-10-27 16:57:43 · 15 answers · asked by greenwich 4

I got flowers today. It wasn't my birthday or any other special day. We had our first argument last night. He said a lot of really cruel things that really hurt me. I know he is sorry and didn't mean the things he said because he sent me flowers today.

I got flowers today. It wasn't our anniversary or any other special day. Last night he threw me into a wall and started to choke me. It seemed like a nightmare. I couldn't believe it was real. I woke up this morning sore & bruised all over.I know he must be sorry because he sent me flowers today.

I got flowers today and it wasn't Mother's Day or any other special day. Last night he beat me again. It was much worse than all the other times. If I leave him, what will I do? How will I take care of my kids? What about money? I'm afraid of him & scared to leave. But I know he must be sorry because he sent me flowers today.

I got flowers today. Today was a very special day. It was the day of my funeral. Last night he finally killed me

2007-10-27 16:50:34 · 14 answers · asked by shermynewstart 7

aman was staying in rajpura nw he has moved to some other place and i want to find out tht place and his cell no..can u pls let me know if poss.?

2007-10-27 16:36:19 · 4 answers · asked by RUBY 1

2007-10-27 16:33:40 · 14 answers · asked by Bratty T 2

I have a friend who is in desperate need of an answer. She is confused about ending her marriage, her husband has been physically abusive to her in the past. They have 2 young children. Her husband is very jealous and selfish. She recently became involved with someone else because he gives her that emotional and physical connection her husband was and is incapable of doing. In order for her to decide one way or the other, do you think she needs to tell her husband?

2007-10-27 16:33:05 · 16 answers · asked by Ali Cat 2

if your mother cheated and your dad is very sick. what would you do? say? please advise me!!!

2007-10-27 16:28:47 · 12 answers · asked by dmx 1

2007-10-27 16:15:20 · 15 answers · asked by Emma J 2

I got beaten up last nite and now my face is swollen and bruised purple and red. I have to be at work tomorrow. Does anyone know any quick home remedy so I can look normal in about 20 hours?

2007-10-27 16:14:31 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

Is this an abusive relationship?


I've been with my husband for 4 years. I'm 27 and he is 60 and we have a 3 year old son. We fight almost everyday over anything, up to the point that if he cooks and I add something to the meal he'll get an attitude and make a big deal out of it. He's constantly telling me what to do or how to do everything, and every time I talk to him about any issue, personal or work-related, he expects me to do and say exactly what he wants me to say. He hates it when I speak my mind out, especially if it has something to do with him. He's hardly ever in a good mood and when he is, he is a good person, he looks like he really cares, but that only happens when I obey him and do what he wants me to do. I've noticed that he feels some type of satisfaction when he makes me cry... well, sometimes, because there's been a few times when he tells me I cry over anything, which is completely false. Even though I have a fulltime job and pretty much cover all of our living expenses, I am not free to invite any relatives or friends over to my house without his permission. He keeps me away from my family most of the time, maybe because he likes having total control over me? I am most of the time afraid of him and his reactions, which is why I am always sucking up to him or pretend to be happy when I'm not, 'cause otherwise it would be complete hell. On top of that, I hardly know his family and friends; I really feel he's ashamed of me because I'm overweight. Every time we visit his hometown he makes up excuses about he's friends and family being out of the country or so, not to mention he always walks away when he gets phone calls from his relatives just so I won't hear his conversations. I know that his son and daughters from his previous marriage hate me and don't like the idea that we have a son together, but if he really loved me the why he says, wouldn't he stand up to them? Especially if they haven't even met me or our son.

One of the reasons I'm still with him is my son. It might sound untrue, but he really is a good father. He takes care of my son when I'm at work and my son adores him. I've thought about leaving him sometimes but the truth is I don't my son to grow up without his father, just like I did. He often tells me that I'm crazy and that I'm the one with issues and I am starting to believe that I really am crazy. I often think that I deserve more than this, I've already been through many horrible things since my childhood and I wish with all my heart that someday I will really find happiness. I just don't want to wind up in a mental hospital or worse. Deep down inside I feel I still love him, but I am uncertain that he loves me, I just hope that with a little from his part, and maybe a miracle, this will work out. I maybe stuck with him until one of us dies, but I don’t want to live that way. I want to have a happy life together. Would it be possible that things will get better? Or am I drowning in a glass of water? I'm in desperate need of advice, I don't know what to do and I really don't have anyone to confide in. Please help.

2007-10-27 15:32:05 · 18 answers · asked by delkings 1

after divorce proceedings has been completed. how long do the court gives for maintenance of ex-wife and child support

2007-10-27 15:25:32 · 10 answers · asked by tiger 2

MEN: If you were in a bar, out with the guys, etc., and you saw an attractive woman wearing something that appealed to you, say, fishnet stockings... Would you phone your wife or girlfriend and explain what you saw, how much that woman's stockings turn you on and ask her to wear the same thing when you arrived home? (In this scenario, the wife/girlfriend has had a very stressful day, she has received an insult that was particularly rude from a coworker; same day, she also almost quit her job, she's very stressed and overtired. In this scenario you are also aware of her very, very bad day. She very, very sweetly agrees to wear the blasted fishnets.) Would you have done this? Why or why not? Please be as expressive as you care to be.

2007-10-27 15:19:18 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

My Husband (then fiance) had an affair a few years ago, but then lied about it saying that he didnt. He finally fessed up to it about a year later, and we just started going to counseling to deal with it. My Husband refuses to talk to me after the counseling. I tried to talk to him today in a calm manner to discuss what we learned in counseling, and all he always does is run away from me. He literally runs out of the house and cuts me off midsentence just so he does not have to face the problem. I just dont know what to do anymore.

2007-10-27 15:16:23 · 40 answers · asked by eliza l 3

My wife has a stronger sex drive than me- she seems to want sex every day- once every 2 weeks is enough for me, but could without it. Why risk having an unwanted pregnancy? I told her we should only have sex if and when we want to have kids-
Plus Im not interested in some of the perverted activities like giving or getting oral sex, and lay that law down, and she seems all bent out of shape..
I think she'd being really immature and selfish-How can i get her to tackle her sex drive? I suggested she go to therapy...any advice?

2007-10-27 15:10:56 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband has his own studio about 30 minutes from our house. He has been working nights and weekends lately because he is holding down two jobs. Decided to stop by one evening. The door was locked so I opened with my key. He was sitting on the sofa with a woman drinking liquor. She jumped up and left. I waited about 20 minutes, then took his phone and called her. She picked up the phone and said "What the _ ___ is going on!" He has also been talking to his ex-wife but lied about it. Saw the calls on the cellphone bill. How can I believe anything he says?

2007-10-27 15:08:16 · 43 answers · asked by Christine B 2

mother was. I don't think she liked our style of living. we are a very slow paced town.Nothing like Cal.

2007-10-27 15:04:56 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

and he asked me to marry him.. but he did not wan't to tell his family ..not even his twin.. it was just like his last 2 gf.. who he later told he did not want to marry them.. so i told him first.9( that i did not want to marry ).but said i wanted to stay the same.. bf and gf.. which we did.. but i am so mad at my self because i said yes to him..//and when i drink i get madder... dont tell me not to drink.. he drinks more than i do,,, and yes i told him why i am mad ...i can not help how i feel .. i am mad. i said to yes someone who did not mean it.. what do i do?

2007-10-27 14:41:36 · 13 answers · asked by vis 7

2007-10-27 14:40:37 · 26 answers · asked by Billy Hughes 1

2007-10-27 14:37:54 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

What would you say and do?

2007-10-27 14:35:53 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband and I have been married for 5 years and we hardly ever have sex. Maybe once or twice a month. I always find p0rn on our computer though. He says he just wants to have sex during the day and just wants to go to sleep at night, but I want to have sex at night. I work 10 hours a day and get home about 6pm he gets off work at 3:30pm. So he has time to unwind where is I am "unwound" by bed time. I am the only person he has ever been with, but he has never really had much of a sex drive. I am 24 and he is 26. I dont know how to fix this problem and to be honest I am getting tired of it. Thanks for your help.

2007-10-27 14:28:27 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am getting married to my boyfriend whom I love so much. I know i have a lot of bad habits and I know I have an attitude and he has a lot of bad habits too. When we get married, how can I I make it work? How can we tolerate each other? How ca we make this work?

2007-10-27 14:19:44 · 9 answers · asked by Little Older, Much Wiser 2

my marriage failed coz my ex took a whore mistress and impregnated her..i tired to save the marriage for 6 years to no avail till i HAD ENOUGH!!! anyway that was 7 yrs ago...we are on speaking terms now and MIRACLE he send some allowance for my kids after 6 long years. then last saturday he admitted to me he regretted what he did and suffered for years for it then yesterday he was back to blaming me saying I'M the cause he is the PRODUCT!!! whew a self centered guy would always be that and would never change just hope noone among my 2 kids will get his HIGH and MIGHTY attitude......can attitude be inherited too? hope NOT!!! i raised my kids so differently from the way his parents raised him....i dont want my son to end up breaking a solemn vow when he get married someday...and i dont want my daughter to go through what thier dad did to me too....:-(

2007-10-27 14:14:58 · 5 answers · asked by silly me 2

So your family doesn't have to make difficult decisions?

2007-10-27 14:14:33 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband is a working hard man. He works from 4am and finishs around 10pm or later. He makes around $20K/m. We don't have problem with financial but we don't have happiness in our marriage life neither. He just can't give up drinking habits. He doesn't like to go out. We never spend a vacation together. He always working almost 24/7. I asked him to get away for just a few days, he refused. Talk about our sex life is very bad. In two years, we have sex about 8 times with unsatified. He likes watching Adult Movie when he drinks. I want to leave him but I feel guilty becuase he's not cheating on me but I'm not happy. I'm getting stress and loosing a lot of weight becuase of his action. What should I do? Please help me....

2007-10-27 13:54:03 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-27 13:51:50 · 16 answers · asked by casheye 2

2007-10-27 13:48:27 · 12 answers · asked by Rowena S 1

I realize both are important but if you had to pick one which would you decide upon and why?

2007-10-27 13:41:00 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous

My wife hates going to Las Vegas. Whenever the chance comes up for the two of us to go, she reluctantly goes and complains about it the entire time. 3 months ago, I was activated and deployed to the Middle East. My wife recently decided to go to Las Vegas with friends for a bachelorette party. She even took 1/2 day off work to do it. Should I be worried? I can't stop thinking about what is going on and how I can keep myself sane!!! HELP!!!!

2007-10-27 13:39:11 · 16 answers · asked by Worried in Middle East 1

What has made ur marriage good. tips that i should know.

2007-10-27 13:35:41 · 27 answers · asked by Katie 1

by the way her husband is also your husband's friend.The 3 of them are friends before you enter your husband's life.

2007-10-27 13:34:31 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous