Marriage & Divorce - 24 July 2007

those affairs always end up hurting somebody and can sometimes destroy lives.

2007-07-24 05:36:34 · 13 answers · asked by freebird 4

2007-07-24 05:35:46 · 3 answers · asked by tekla 1

2007-07-24 05:33:49 · 18 answers · asked by Judy 1

Have any of you played secret sex games with your brother or sister when you were growing up? My wife told me she did it with her brother starting at the age of eight, and they kept it up well into their late teens. And my wife is one of the most well adjusted (and tremendously sexy) people I have ever known. I know that a bunch of you are going to say, "eeeew!" And I am going to hear you say I am sick, because I think it was ok for them to do it. But if any of you have had a similar relationship with a sibling, please let me know about it and how it turned out. My wife said they quit doing it when they were about 18 because they moved out into their respective lives, but she said she still finds him sexy, and that neither one of them were harmed by it. So what do you think? Anyone else done this? And how did it turn out for you?

2007-07-24 05:32:11 · 33 answers · asked by John Timothy 5

like if she's wearing a scooped neck or lowcut blouse. and if it is an accident when it happens, and she doesn't notice it.

2007-07-24 05:25:29 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

to think this money could straigten Donny and Molly's beaver teeth, replace the windows in the house my husband said my brother did a poor job on and perhaps let me have a bedroom set that is NOT from a 1984 garage sale........
Help, I feel like having a hissy fit. I don't want to ruin vacation (we leave next week for the first time in 3 years) but I am really mad that he feels like this is his money to spend without any imput from me (his company closed and the funds were available)
Thanks and I will hear from you truck lovin men too (:

2007-07-24 05:23:33 · 16 answers · asked by donny_mollysmom 3

I am really laid back,and have few issues with my wife, but when I try to talk to her about things her temper gets in the way and she refuses to talk about the issues because she gets frustrated easily. She does not want to talk, and she later forgets about my concerns. She has developed this over the last 2 years.

Contrasting, her issues are bumped to the front and we must address them immediately. Many of her problems stem from her family. They do not fix the issues, but they let them hang around to cause more problems and tension. I give much attention to her issues, but whenever I have something it usually ends with a verbal fight.

In my opinion, our marriage is rocky and needs much work, and I would like to address this before it gets more out of hand.

How do I handle this?

2007-07-24 05:23:07 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

to think this money could straigten Donny and Molly's beaver teeth, replace the windows in the house my husband said my brother did a poor job on and perhaps let me have a bedroom set that is NOT from a 1984 garage sale........
Help, I feel like having a hissy fit. I don't want to ruin vacation (we leave next week for the first time in 3 years) but I am really mad that he feels like this is his money to spend without any impu from me (his company closed and the funds were available)
Thanks and I will hear from you truck lovin men too (:

2007-07-24 05:21:29 · 38 answers · asked by donny_mollysmom 3

Before my husband and I got married we talked about having children. I told him that I would prefer to stay at home with my child until they are least in school. He was fine with that then. Once we got married he suddenly started saying everything had to be 50/50. (however what he really meant was that I had to always have at least a 40 hour a week job) I have stopped working a couple of times during our marriage because I needed to take care of my parents. The entire time I wasn't working he made me feel horrible. He has this "thing" about being the only one working. I just found out that I am pregnant and we are both really excited. However the first thing he said to me was "your not going to stop working, are you?". I don't know what to do. I can't imagine not being at home full time with my first child! I'm so depressed because I feel my husband is being unreasonable. This isn't how I want my life to be.

2007-07-24 05:21:04 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

My wife and I have been married for two years now. She also has an eleven year old son.
We both have good jobs but the issue is that she makes 35k more per year than I do and expects me to still pay half the bills. I consider myself to be exceptionally mechanically inclined and complete all of our projects around the house. She cooks, cleans, and does day-to-day things which I also help with.

2007-07-24 05:12:50 · 22 answers · asked by Katmando 3

2007-07-24 05:08:48 · 30 answers · asked by Gypsy Gal 6

2007-07-24 05:08:14 · 33 answers · asked by cave man 6

If you're married, how long have you been married and how many times do you have sex in a week on average?

And if it isn't very often, is that because of the man or the woman? Do things like lack of affection, changing looks/weight or other factors have the most impact?

2007-07-24 05:06:38 · 20 answers · asked by Random_Girl 3

We have bee together for 3 years he is 25 and i just turned 20 i am 6 months pregnant i was currently a dancer until i learned of my preganacy i had been paying all bills and expenses, then. No wi have got a recep job wrkin 40 hrs and we have gotten a smaller place something he could afford with his check.. He is slacking on all bills and has reall y no intrest in this baby until he arrives he says. I recieve food stamps thank god. i make 7.00 an hr and would be hard for me to pay for my own place especially when i have the baby i will be unemployed shortly.. i love him but signs are pointing to he may not want to grow up yet or ever i wnat the best for my baby and myself how many chances doi giv e and how long to i wait until it's not too late...please help anyone who has been in this before im young but not dumb....

2007-07-24 05:03:13 · 16 answers · asked by Tiff 1

My husband went on a week trip to training for his job 1 month ago. He has this father who is a bum. He owns 0 and lives off of everyone else. He has moved in with us in the pass and It did not work at all. It was like I was his wife.

We have been married over a yr together for 2 1/2 yrs. We are both in our mid 30s & 1st marrage. I truly love my husband but he has chatted online with other women the whole time we have been together. I do not know if he has cheated, he promises me he has never cheated. We have just about stopped communicating with each other. He is aways short with me and just mean answers.

The day after his trip from training his father shows up at the house. He is there by 9 am. Dad shows up I do not exist. So, about 1 pm I fixed me something to eat. He was really mad & would not talk to me the rest of the day.
Now he saids he loves me wants to come home. We both filed for divorce. We have been so mean to each other for the month. HELP?

2007-07-24 04:56:48 · 14 answers · asked by Sweet_as_pie 1

If a man doesnt need sex everyday then there is something seriously wrong with him and needs professional help.

2007-07-24 04:56:09 · 67 answers · asked by megan c 1

like a woman at work or a random woman walking down the street. like if she's wearing tight pants and her pantyline is showing.

2007-07-24 04:55:58 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

How do I get my husband to stop talking after we have mad mind boggling passionate sex. It drives me crazy, he babbles on and on. I don’t want to tell him to shut up as we just experienced a great moment together, sometimes the stuff he talks about is crazy non-sense, and he must think it is funny, and I say to him he is tripping on endorphins, is that possible? I laugh lots of time, and we got into fits of laughter, honestly could this be a chemical reaction in our brains from mind boggling sex? We live with his adult sons, and they must think we are crazy in the middle of the night laughing like crazed people. Does this happen to anyone else.

2007-07-24 04:46:30 · 32 answers · asked by Maria A. 3

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some of these other answers. My response was that she was a homewrecker and of course his marriage wouldn't be going well if he cheats. Why should I be reported for telling the truth?

2007-07-24 04:44:52 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

Do you think it is important to tell your husband or wife where you are going out of the house? Explain please!!!

2007-07-24 04:39:53 · 24 answers · asked by ? 1

I am 28 years old. I have never been married. I am for the most part afraid of it. I am not afraid of committing, but I am afraid that I will end up like the husband and wife that are miserable. You know the people Im talking about. The two that are never smiling and just seem unhappy. The majority of people I know who are married give me the same advice: "wait as long as you can".

My question is, why stay together?

Exception "for the kids"

2007-07-24 04:35:41 · 12 answers · asked by Stuey 6

As I've said before when I'm home everything is just normal or my husband is in and out. I went out of town to help with my class reunions fund raiser: he complained to his friend it was a waste of gas, I went to visit my mom and old friends: he complained it was a wasted trip, I flew to MD to be in a friend's wedding (he decided not to go): he complained about things that went wrong at home andhad an attitude with me, but he goes out of town almost every month with his friends without me. Why is it a problem for ME to go, and I'm ok with him going and never have an attitude or say anything petty behind his back about it? I barely go anywhere, but when I do it's a problem unless it's work related. What's the deal?

2007-07-24 04:33:19 · 16 answers · asked by Kisses 2

Ive had it with his yelling. I know he yells and freaks out over stupid things but Im scared to be alone. I dont have a job so financially I dont know what to do. I have a son who is 17 and I really dont want him to be that way. Im not predjudiced at all but hes short, bald, and Polish. He complains about such trivial things. Im sick to death of it. Help. Im scared of him. He hasnt hit me yet and I dont think he would, but his spazzing out hurts. I dont love him any more. What to do?

2007-07-24 04:28:40 · 26 answers · asked by kel2us 1

2007-07-24 04:17:33 · 8 answers · asked by JACQUELINE J 1

I read a question from a guy who claimed he accidentally cheated on his wife ....What the hell?
I'm sorry an accident is getting in a car crash, falling down the stairs, getting hit with a ball etc.
How in the world does a man claim he accidentally fell into a vagina? "Whoops I was walking along and damn I fell and low and behold it was a vagina" (this part is a joke from the Def Comedy Jam, just cleaned it up some). Sounds funny, it's even hilarious!
But for real what will the next excuse be from a cheater???? I can't wait to read to next ridiculous question from a cheater. How about the rest of you out there?

2007-07-24 04:17:10 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

My terrible wife hired a private investigator to follow me around (WITH MY MONEY!) How can I lose him. He is following me around all day and it is really cramping my style. I can't hang out in any of my old haunts. Have you ever had one of these jerks following you around? He's Asian.

2007-07-24 04:15:07 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous

I want a truthful answer ... did anyone marry someone they like a lot, respect, don't mind being with and are attracted to ... but who they are NOT in "love" (that ethereal super-deep bond and desire beyond lust that people talk about) with?

Did you maybe marry when you were not in love but grow to love them? Or did the "like" degenerate into "dislike"?

Any feedback along these lines would be appreciated.

2007-07-24 04:09:34 · 10 answers · asked by Random_Girl 3

Ex husband is harrassing our daughter to emancepete herself so he does not have to pay support for her any more. She is staying with my mom and working, but still has to go to school and we, current husband and I, are still providing insurance on her, and food, and clothes, and all needs. This man is supposed to provide both his daughter's with insurance, which he never has, and help with school expenses and other bills. He has not paid any thing other than his support, $158 twice a month, since at least 2001 or 2002. He just called her at her job and told her to do it and he is getting a lawyer. What is your advice?

2007-07-24 04:09:21 · 26 answers · asked by ? 7

He gets mad over stupid things like the food in our pantry isnt lined up according to te food eg. mushrooms, soup etc...All the tupperware doesn't have lids. They are put in a seperate box? Im at my wits end. My son doesnt even like why he yells all the time. Help !!! I need some help !!

2007-07-24 03:46:01 · 32 answers · asked by kel2us 1

im having lessons and im doing really well with my instructor but it seems everytime i get in the car with my husband i go to peices im like a nervous wreck honest ive tried to stay calm and not make mistakes but i just cant seem to do right by him when it comes to driving

does everyone have this problem when learning to drive with a relative or is it just me

should i stop having lessons with him b4 i ruin my confidence or just grin and bear it and think of the experience im getting even if it is like driving in a war zone lol

i love my hubby to bits but he cant seem to grasp the fact that im not a child and he doesnt need to shout i swear he makes my heart pound when were driving along i have to remind him that im trying my best and im not a formula one driver and think that sticking to a safe speed is ok

2007-07-24 03:42:01 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous