Marriage & Divorce - 24 July 2007

My husband and I are trying to get our son into a very good private school. We found the best school in the area and went last week to interview and see what the school was all about. We were both very impressed with the school's reputation and quality education that it gives to its students. Yesterday the princpal called to tell us that we would be able to enroll our son into the school on one condition. He says that I must sleep with him every weekend from now until Christmas break.
The princpal says that he finds my beauty stunning, and that he wants to be with me romantically for a couple of months. He says that I do not have to do this but it would guarantee my son would be enrolled in the school for the next 4 years.
My husband doesn't have a problem with this. He says that as parents we should do whatever it takes to get our kids the best education and if sleeping with the princpal is what it takes then so be it. Is he right? Should I have to sleep with him?

2007-07-24 03:30:18 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have a problem, i'm going to be flying to P.R. tomorrow but i'm not to happy. My hubby is acting really weird. He was in a really bad mood yesterday and kind of trying to pick a fight with me. I usually just let him be when he's like that, but i was concern that something might of happened cuz there has been a lot of **** going on between his sister and his mom and he's very protective of his mom, and he knows that i'm completly on his side, anyways i'm not sure if the bad mood is cuz i'm leaving or something else, i invited him to come with me but he said he couldn't cuz of his job and i told him that i would not go without him, he insisted that i go and after thinking about it for a long time i decided to buy the ticket. I'm going to P.R. for my brohters wedding and he wants me to be there but i don't know if i should go now. i don't want to go leaving my hubby upset and not knowing what's going on. i will be back on sunday but to me it seems like a long time. what should i do?

2007-07-24 03:26:55 · 7 answers · asked by MISSYGIRL 2

why is it that men can go around messing with gurls and yet when we gurls do it we're sluts? its ok for a man to cheat on his wife yet when his wife does it, its like she commited death penalty? is this our punishment because of eve??? no offence but i thought God loves us all...i love Him and all but it just seems so unfair..even now that theres "equality" between men and women there is still inequality. yes we were made out of a rib of men but does that mean doesnt mean that we are servants of men does it?

2007-07-24 03:22:19 · 15 answers · asked by swit_babyangel 2

As a follow-up to a previous question about my man ex wanting him to travel out of state to bring her and her kids back to her original place of residence. Well anyway I saw on his phone that she text him saying thanks for trying to come get me and my family, her and the kids are now home. Originally she needed to come back because of a family emergency and needed assistance. Coincidently, when she called this was the same week he was wanting to go out of town. Was this all a set-up? What does she mean thanks for trying to get her home. Did he make up an excuse why he didn't do it instead of telling her that his wife would totally be pissed if he did? What's going on here?

2007-07-24 03:17:34 · 6 answers · asked by stella 2

2007-07-24 03:12:15 · 28 answers · asked by melissa f 1

if yes, would you recommend them...was it as easy as they say? and what company?
Thanks Damsel in distress..short of cash too :-(

2007-07-24 03:07:06 · 9 answers · asked by ? 6

I'm on depo provera. It's the one where you take a shot every 3 months.

I'm a month late on taking the shot and I'm already enjoying sex again. During the times that I have taken this (on and off for the past 3 years), my sex drive has disappeared as a side effect. My fiance is ecstatic that I'm back to normal, but what should I do?

Any advice?

2007-07-24 02:48:12 · 23 answers · asked by PlasticTrees 2

They start to act weird and pretend they never looked at you once.

Please don’t say maybe the approach is not well presented; I can break the ice pretty well and act myself.

Then they say *WHERE ARE ALL THE REAL MEN HIDING*

2007-07-24 02:47:35 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

is it ok for women to make up with there husband after she has been bitten?

2007-07-24 02:45:31 · 7 answers · asked by marj 1

After watching the YouTube Democratic debate last night, I really started to wonder why some of you out there feel so strongly about being against gay marriage? Honestly, tell me, how does it affect you? Do you lose sleep at night? If Bill and John are down the street from you and they happen to be married, how does that change your life? It seems to me that people that are against gay marriage are either homophobes or are too insecure with their own beliefs. I just wish some of you would stop trying to convert everyone and stop interfering with people's happiness because your faith has a different view than other people. Do you honestly think it's God's top priority to keep gays from being happy and married? It's nonsense if you ask me!

2007-07-24 02:42:18 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

what is the importance of maturity in a marriage??

2007-07-24 02:39:47 · 11 answers · asked by emi 3

Okay i have been married 2.5 yrs had many problems.My husband cheated on me and we seperated for 3 months.During those 3 months i had a fling with my ex.bf who had been my first bf, kiss, and everything else.I ended the fling when my husband wanted to try make things work.Recent DNA test showed my husband not be my sons father so the only option is my ex.bf the only other person i was intimate with.My son is only 1 month old has been in/out of hospital doctors cant figure out what problem is.
I found out my ex.bf’s on and off live in gf was pregnant about same time i was about month ahead of me .But their child died shortly after birth from unknown complications.So i called my ex.bf cell phone leaving a message explaining everything telling him to get call me ASAP.
Well now i have her the live in on/off gf who is now his wife of 6 months calling my cell harrassing me for the last 2 days or so.
She thinks i know where he is but i dont!Do i try to reason with her another option..?

2007-07-24 02:36:24 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

i have 3 boys and i really want another child. not just because i want a girl before anyone says that although that would be nice. what do you suggest? i am dreaming of leaving him to have another one. help.

2007-07-24 02:30:35 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

IF you were gettig physically and emotionaly abuse but you didn't feel you had any friends or family that could help you out of the situation. YOu love them and have a baby by them but enough is enough. I just feel stuck I really live paycheck to paycheck. I just need some advice.

2007-07-24 02:27:27 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

I went off for a weekend with old friends,just hung out,laughed ,caught up ,did a little drinking and did some dancing.Just innocent fun,but she's upset because I didn't call and check in at night ,we were out pretty late,and that I danced with other women.
The danceing was just friends,just beacuse we did some slow dances and fun dancing where you kind of rub up against each other,it meant nothing,nothing romantic or sexual at all.I love my wife and only her,I've never cheated and never will,but she feels like I did her wrong.

2007-07-24 02:25:24 · 25 answers · asked by sch1 1

2007-07-24 02:01:22 · 12 answers · asked by bulbul r 1

i live in illinois i pay the standard % of day care for my son. even though its not stated in the divorce papers (i dont know if that matters) i pay what i belive is 1/2 for day care/baby sitter. my problome is that the ex-wife keeps moving him from day care to privet baby sitter back to day care. each time she does this my cost goes up. i now pay the same amount for day care as i do in child suport. in the past couple years my day care cost have doubled. is there anything i can do about this. my son is curently in a privet home day care that cost about 30% more then a reagulr public day care. dose the father have any say in this or are we at the mercy of the mother?

2007-07-24 01:53:03 · 6 answers · asked by jedidiaha 3

I'v been telling him how important it is to me and that I need to hear that from him. We've talked and he has agreed to start trying but hasn't done it. Last night we were watching tv and he pointed out a singer he likes and said he thinks she is really pretty, I felt hurt. If he can tell me she is pretty why can't he tell me that I'm pretty. I'm not insecure, I don't need to get compliments from men, I just want to hear it from my husband once in a while. Who wants to live the rest of their life never being told that they are beautiful ever again.

2007-07-24 00:09:06 · 16 answers · asked by kc 3

2007-07-24 00:05:03 · 18 answers · asked by Eloïsha 1