As a follow-up to a previous question about my man ex wanting him to travel out of state to bring her and her kids back to her original place of residence. Well anyway I saw on his phone that she text him saying thanks for trying to come get me and my family, her and the kids are now home. Originally she needed to come back because of a family emergency and needed assistance. Coincidently, when she called this was the same week he was wanting to go out of town. Was this all a set-up? What does she mean thanks for trying to get her home. Did he make up an excuse why he didn't do it instead of telling her that his wife would totally be pissed if he did? What's going on here?
2007-07-24 03:17:34 · 6 answers · asked by stella 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
her children are not his.
2007-07-24 03:32:18 · update #1
If he's showing signs of dishonesty and being "strange", making up reasons to leave, and never communicating with you, then yes...He probably has something to hide.
I'd say, maybe you should consider filing for divorce papers. He may never stop being dishonest.
2007-07-24 03:22:45 · answer #1 · answered by darkening_hope 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would have no idea if he is deceiving you, but one thing you may want to get used to is most anytime a woman and a man share children together there is always a special place in each of their hearts for the other. If they get along that is wonderful for the children. Can be rough on the new spouse though. But try to remember they will always mean something together because he will love his kids more than anything.
2007-07-24 10:30:53 · answer #2 · answered by Maria 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you understand that this man has children with this woman? Who cares if you're pissed? He's not going to forget about his kids and not help their mother because you'll be pissed! You're a pain in the butt and if you keep up this ridiculous behavior, you're going to be without a husband. You knew he had these children before you married him. You're absolutely nuts!
2007-07-24 10:38:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe he told her his wife would be pissed and she was just thanking him for atleast asking. Regardless, he didn't do it so get the F*ck over it.
2007-07-24 10:25:08 · answer #4 · answered by gypsy g 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no one here knows what he was thinking you'll have to ask him.
2007-07-24 10:25:01 · answer #5 · answered by golly geesh 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just ask him..
2007-07-24 10:21:10 · answer #6 · answered by samara 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋