why is it that men can go around messing with gurls and yet when we gurls do it we're sluts? its ok for a man to cheat on his wife yet when his wife does it, its like she commited death penalty? is this our punishment because of eve??? no offence but i thought God loves us all...i love Him and all but it just seems so unfair..even now that theres "equality" between men and women there is still inequality. yes we were made out of a rib of men but does that mean doesnt mean that we are servants of men does it?
2007-07-24 03:22:19 · 15 answers · asked by swit_babyangel 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
my love,I am going to revel TRUTH to you.It may very well contradict what you've been taught all your life,But God does not recognize us as male or female,Only as
spirit.Does the bible not teach us that God is Spirit and must be worshiped in Spirit and in TRUTH.Well he created us in his own image so we are Spirit.This male female thing is a human invention not of God. Truth be told God sees love and only love.That people make mistakes and we Forgive them is the absolute that God expects of us.Because forgiveness is the strongest expression of Love.
BE still my Darling child be still gentle soul,God's love awaits in the end.Be at peace.
2007-07-24 04:00:06 · answer #1 · answered by miraclehand2020 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GOD IS AN EXCUSE FOR A PUNK. Understanding the bible is key not listening to word of mouth is key to the real situation. First and foremost the men who say a woman should do this and do that are this. If you ain't a man of GOD you cannot use the scriptures to support you. A man of GOD fears GOD and therefore will not and cannot cheat on his wife not because he fears what she will do but he fears what GOD will do. Eve aint' nothing to do with nothing. And because men been using some of the same excuses for decades they think they are right. MY ADVICE IS TO READ THE BOOK OF CORNITHIANS 1&2. Their you will find how women are supposed to be treated. The bible says" That a man should love his wife like GOD loves the church" Eph 5:5
You must learn to not be so gullible to this lying, unloyal, and dishonest men who try to twist the word GOD to accomdate their sins. The bible is not a spare tire nor is it a guide to keep women in servant mindset. It is an empowering guide to MAN,WOMAN, BOY AND GIRL to live long,happy and fulfilling lifes through GOD.
2007-07-24 10:41:13 · answer #2 · answered by Deneice C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not ok for a man to cheat, and anyone who says so is trying to get away with something...that has nothing to do with EVE, that has to do with violating the trust of a wife and ruining a good family.
2007-07-24 10:27:01 · answer #3 · answered by melouofs 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yet another victim of religion?
The words in the bible are interpretations by man...how do we not know that man wasn't really a raving lunatic?
The confusion sucks. Just keep God in your heart and you won't have to worry about wrong or right.
2007-07-24 10:30:00 · answer #4 · answered by gypsy g 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I hear you, and yes, you're right. But the double standard has a flip side.
Have you ever noticed that when a couple divorces, it always seems to be the guy's fault? It's like.....he's a creep for divorcing you!.......or.........you must have divorced him because he's a creep!
So yes, you're right. But the double standard has a way of evening out when you look at it from all the possible angles.
2007-07-24 10:27:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You do realize that it is 2007 right?
I am not sure where you come from or who taught you these things but it's NOT ok for a man to cheat, or a women, and it's the same either way.
2007-07-24 10:26:47 · answer #6 · answered by Cantor2002 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
it's not acceptable for any married person to cheat. As for the sl*t thing yeah that happens it's wrong. This has nothing to do with God it's not God who's judging it's MAN.
2007-07-24 10:28:15 · answer #7 · answered by golly geesh 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's not fair and not right. Men or women should not cheat. Husbands and wives should remain loyal and loving.
If you read these questions and answers too long you will end up depressed and believe that relationships are futile.
2007-07-24 10:43:19 · answer #8 · answered by Big Red 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're blaming God because people call women sluts if they mess around a lot??? God's not the one who calls women sluts, so I'm not totally sure why you're blaming him. Do you also blame him if people call others fat or ugly?
2007-07-24 10:27:32 · answer #9 · answered by greeneyes_bjb 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Good lordy!
Wake up and realize that you're not made from any man's rib. How ridiculous.
Grow up and read some biology books.
2007-07-24 10:28:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋