I have a problem, i'm going to be flying to P.R. tomorrow but i'm not to happy. My hubby is acting really weird. He was in a really bad mood yesterday and kind of trying to pick a fight with me. I usually just let him be when he's like that, but i was concern that something might of happened cuz there has been a lot of **** going on between his sister and his mom and he's very protective of his mom, and he knows that i'm completly on his side, anyways i'm not sure if the bad mood is cuz i'm leaving or something else, i invited him to come with me but he said he couldn't cuz of his job and i told him that i would not go without him, he insisted that i go and after thinking about it for a long time i decided to buy the ticket. I'm going to P.R. for my brohters wedding and he wants me to be there but i don't know if i should go now. i don't want to go leaving my hubby upset and not knowing what's going on. i will be back on sunday but to me it seems like a long time. what should i do?
2007-07-24 03:26:55 · 7 answers · asked by MISSYGIRL 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i would go..even though your husband is an important part of your life..so is your brother..and you will kick yourself later if you dont go..as far as your husband..he is a big boy and needs to be there for his mom...im sure things will be calmer when you get back..have fun ..and enjoy your family
2007-07-24 03:34:10 · answer #1 · answered by sunshine01 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm assuming that since you are married to each other that you are each adults. Make adult decisions and do what you desire. He is a big boy and can handle his family issues. You are a big girl and can go to your brothers wedding. You aren't going to fix your husband's problems. Go and have a great time. Come back and do some adult lovin' on your man.
2007-07-24 10:40:52 · answer #2 · answered by Brent 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By all means, GO to the wedding. It is a special family event and you will kick yourself if you miss it, despite your hubby assuring you that you should go. If he has a problem, iot will last until you're back and can devote all your attention to his situation.
2007-07-24 10:34:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound rather co-dependent to me.... Let your husband be in a bad mood or deal with his sister/mom without you obsessing about him. Focus on your life.... share this joy with your brother...
Get a life.
2007-07-24 10:38:51 · answer #4 · answered by Bentley 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it were me I would go. Maybe your husband needs this time to be alone to think. But call him to check on things. Your brothers wedding is important.
2007-07-24 10:33:20 · answer #5 · answered by mizzgrizz01 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look, let your husband have some time to think about everything that's going on... tell him if he needs to talk to call you... and you'll be back sunday if he needs you... you shouldn't miss your brothers wedding... your husband should be going with you.. but it's okay.. he probably doesn't want to ruin the wedding...
2007-07-24 10:32:56 · answer #6 · answered by Kevin c 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go, blood is thicker than water....if your marriage should disolve one day, you'll regret not being there for you brother who is still in your life, when your husband isn't.
2007-07-24 10:32:18 · answer #7 · answered by gypsy g 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋