Marriage & Divorce - 15 April 2007

2007-04-15 16:55:59 · 18 answers · asked by Hero 2

2007-04-15 16:43:19 · 15 answers · asked by lily 1

tim does not mind spending $800 on toys for his car or $400 on concert tickets for his son. but when it comes to doing something with me(ex vaction) we allways have to go as cheap as possible and he complains how much this is costing him.even eating out is a big deal on valintines day we went dutch.

2007-04-15 16:36:13 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I bought him Sominex but doesn't really work well, maybe there is a different type of sleep aid I dont know of that might help?

2007-04-15 16:25:33 · 9 answers · asked by cruz o 1

This question is specifically for ladies. I recently brought my wife a product called an orgasm butten. What this product does; placed in the middle of the woman's back; you simply tap it and instantly causes orgasm. You can use it up to 15 times in 3 minutes at the most.
No side effects, and perfectly safe. Even though I have researched this item thoroughly; I have found no side effects yet my wife objects and disagrees with the product. I recently purchased it for my wife. We have a 2 year old toddler that usually wakes up right after my wife has gotten hers. I usually allow her to orgasm first in foreplay. We often do intercourse late at night because I work and train in the day, and we also wait and stall for our son to fall asleep.
Many nights my wife gets the chance to orgasm but I do not. I think the orgasm button will work better in my situation although my wife disagrees. She says she feels awkward and uncomfortable using such objects. What should I do?

2007-04-15 16:24:51 · 10 answers · asked by Jman 1

I will be filing for divorce from my husband in a couple of months. We live separate now and I have my own car and he has a truck. Both of our cars are in my name only.(his credit isn't so hot and he couldn't get one in his own name) My car is a lease and he still owes about $32,000 on his truck. He always makes the truck payment but now that we aren't together anymore I want him to get it in his own name. I know I will have to speak to an attorney but I was just wondering if anyone else has gone thru something like this. I am worried because I don't want him to mess up my credit by not paying it or something. I couldn't afford it if I was to take it for myself. I don't want him to say that I can just have it because he doesn't want it anymore. Do you think there is going to be any way that they can make it in the divorce agreement that he has to continue paying and to get the truck out of my name and into his?

2007-04-15 16:21:01 · 6 answers · asked by love my life 2

we both work full-time and split the household bills 50/50.plus since we live in an apartment he has no outside "man" jobs to do(ex mowing,painting,fixing things)but i have a hard time just getting him to take the trash out.he will say things like "we dont have any clean dishes?" where i would just clean a dish if i needed one.

2007-04-15 16:15:15 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

does anyone know of a great gift that i could get my hubby for his birtday? not going over $75.00. he deserves something nice. he is a very hard worker, loving husband, and dad. i want to do something really special for him. he has had a really rough childhood and he says that his birthday was never a big deal. i just want to make him feel very special, appreciated and loved. we already have a babysitter for the night but we do not want to go to any clubs because im on medication and he has to work the next day. he likes to fish and play with gadgets. any suggestion.

the best answer will be picked for best answer!!!

2007-04-15 16:13:11 · 5 answers · asked by Summer 3

A marriage is a joining of two people, but where does individuality begin and end?

For instance:

Is it acceptable to have separate e-mails and private access?
Does this promote the idea that another's activity is questionable?

He tends to look at what I am opening and he peeks out of the corner of his eye to see who has sent me messages. Is this possesive or normal posessive tendencies in a relationship?

Separate e-bay accounts?

Right now, he has access to my account, but I may not want him to see what I am buying; especially if it is for him. Should he be offended if I change my password? How do I word it to him?

Myspace: good or bad idea?

2007-04-15 16:11:42 · 12 answers · asked by Sha-na-na 2

i am trying this really funny nice hot guy and some other ones the same but hes the hottest and the funniest and nicest guy there he loves me and i love him but he doesnt know i am ingaged and next week i am getting married and he asked lets get married next week and i am like know i can't and hes like oh ok and im like how about the week after that and he said ok what ever you want and i said thanks and when he finds out i am married and we get married he week after that he will devorce or something and say i hate you or soimething even though he said i love you please just help?!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-04-15 16:10:57 · 4 answers · asked by Meg P 1

My husband just started a new job, and I just about passed out when I found out what he will be making. I want to make sure that next year we don't end up owing taxes because we didn't have enough taken out of his check. I already told him to fill out his W-4 listing no dependents and also to have an extra $50-100 a week taken out in taxes. Is there anything else that we need to do in order to avoid not having enough taken out?

2007-04-15 16:05:18 · 2 answers · asked by LittleMermaid 5

Sometimes I feel like I want a divorce but I love my husband very much. He has no communication skills, he just walks away when we begin to fight and we are not even yelling. Sometimes I think we are 2 way different people and I just don't know sometimes?

2007-04-15 16:04:47 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

if you do or are suposse 2 get him a gift when we coplete 6monthz what is something i should get him?

2007-04-15 15:58:38 · 11 answers · asked by SofaKingBored23 2

my ex left me for another woman 10 months ago, his best friend started to contact me through the phone a couple of times then he asked me out for lunch it felt very nice, then we after that we went dancing adn he started hugging me and kissing me that felt very nice, the thing is that they work together and I'm afraid he is telling all of this to my ex I already asked if he did but he said no what should I do?

2007-04-15 15:58:02 · 15 answers · asked by cherry 1

2007-04-15 15:54:30 · 44 answers · asked by Mike M 1

Should I move to another state with my children to have support from my parents to finish my career and leave my partner of 12 yrs behind, he is currently persuing his career but we both cannot afford to do it together, I dont feel is fair since I have waited so long to retake my career and he finish school and did not like what he did and now is going for something else?

2007-04-15 15:50:14 · 7 answers · asked by Proud Mama of 2 2

if it doesn't pretain to u don't take offensive. I myself am an ex-wife. Anyway, my boyfriend is completley blind to what his ex-wife is doing. (He really is naive about people being mean and vengeful, he is a really nice guy and always wants to help everyone.) Anyway, my bf ex-wife has never dated anyone since their divorce 4 yrs ago. She calls him about stupid stuff about the kids when she knows he is with me. (He is an excellent father). Showed up at his mom's bday party that she was not invited to....his family is glad she's gone. Wants him to fix her car or unload a lawn mower from the truck "that she borrowed from him". If ur wondering, I love him, thats why I stay with him. I just wish there was something I could do to get him to see her real motives. everyone but him sees it. Is there anything I can do to open his eyes. His daughter voluntarily out of no where told me when we first started dated that her mom runs his gfs off. How can I show her, I'm not going anywhere?

2007-04-15 15:49:52 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Me and my boyfriend have been together for 2 1/2 years and he is talking about proposing to me. Now, the problem is I am only a freshman in college but he is a junior so what should I do. I have already went through the "Im young and want to be free" thing and I came right back to him. I realized that he is the only one I want to be with. So please no answers like, "well you are young and your mind can change" because I already went throught that. I dont plan on getting married until I graduate but is it wrong to be engaged at this point?

2007-04-15 15:35:20 · 16 answers · asked by expecting mommy 1

My husband and I are best friends, we just aren't in love anymore. We have a little girl together whom we both love more than life. I would like to get a divorce kit from Office Depot and file myself since I cannot afford an attorney. The house we live in is his. It is my daughter's home and I do not want to sell it. I would like to continue living together (we've slept in separate bedrooms for 7 yrs) as roommates. I think it will be less expensive for him than paying alimony and child support, and I definitely cannot afford an apt alone. I am not seeing anyone, neither is he, we just aren't happy together. How can I approach the situation with him and explain that I'm trying to help us both financially, and it will be better for our daughter to have Mom and Dad together under the same roof, even though we're not married any more?

2007-04-15 15:30:14 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-04-15 15:19:19 · 10 answers · asked by nisey0069 2

when Oprah was young and rich she could have had a lot of men want her so whats up is she cold to men becase she is rich or maybe she cant have kids did any one ask her this or am i the only one that sees this . I have heard she loves to help young girls and she had a boy friend thats all they said some one as big a tv person as Oprah how is it she able to keep so much" hush""hush."

2007-04-15 15:12:05 · 22 answers · asked by sehoy 3

How many people are married and feel more lonely then they ever felt when they were single?

2007-04-15 15:06:33 · 14 answers · asked by Amy M 5

My ex-husband is dating a woman with the same name as mine, who is 10 years older (she's 47, ex is same age as me) who looks like an older version of me with the same features, dark hair and blue eyes. Doesn't this sound a little disturbing? He says older women are more secure. He says he doesn't want to be with me, yet almost every woman he's dated since he left has some similarity to me, be it looks, hair or personality. It's like he's looking for me, but in someone else. We still talk, and whenever he visits he tells me he still loves me and he always talks about me when he's with other women because he can't get me out of his thoughts. A friend of his asked him in front of me why did he leave me if he can't forget me? She told him he's stupid for leaving me, that he doesn't know what he gave up and we should get back together! I just don't know. Am I wrong in assuming he still wants to be with me? It seems like he does. We were together for 20 years and we have a teenage daughter.

2007-04-15 15:00:20 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-04-15 14:58:45 · 12 answers · asked by lala 2

She moved in with her husband, 2 kids and said she needed time to get out of financial trouble. She lived for free which is fine with me, except she didnt do the dishes, take out the trash, clean house or even throw her dirty diapers in the trash. She was filthy and after a year of her screaming undisciplined children and her laziness, she managed to buy a house, new van and new appliances for her new house. Today she came over to her dads and said she thought she would drop in and do his dishes, which really means she plans to borrow more money. We left and when we came back home there were about 10 glasses washed and she left the rest. of the dirty dishes all over the counter. I think she was trying to get money, but her plan failed when her dad left with me.
She makes me want to vomit and I feel like I need to tell her save it "*****". I will take care of the dishes! Get to the point.
How can I get past this feeling of wanting to just tell her off.?

2007-04-15 14:52:36 · 2 answers · asked by happydawg 6

Have you ever been "caught in the act" by your parents, kids, etc.?

My husband and I have been walked in on by my mom, my dad, my brothers, and his parents...lol...sad thing is, we lock our doors! Let's just say they've all learned a lesson to knock first!

How about you?

2007-04-15 14:43:16 · 11 answers · asked by I Have Answers 2

i was recently married at the court house and a friend said that as a catholic, i am not considered married by the catholic church and that i will still have to go in front of a priest in order to have my marriage recognized by the catholic church. also my husband is not a catholic.

2007-04-15 14:42:12 · 8 answers · asked by jumpyjump44 2

He tells me he is a private person andthat he just doesn't like sharing his personal life with them because they are always judging him. As well, he only has a cousin here whom he lived with prior to me. The rest of his family live in there country, however they don't know about me either.

2007-04-15 14:36:22 · 21 answers · asked by Mari 5

I used to NEVER turn him down even when I wasn't in the mood but I started to resent sex and never enjoyed it. Now I try to mostly have it when I want it to. We are now having sex 3 times a week as opposed to 5 times a week. I know he would like to have it more, but it stresses me out and causes me to not enjoy it if I feel like I HAVE to have sex. Am I wrong? Is 3 times a week enough?

2007-04-15 14:07:58 · 37 answers · asked by stripedbook 5

2007-04-15 13:54:49 · 30 answers · asked by airbear_6493 2