Marriage & Divorce - 25 August 2006

Is sex still passionate and spontaneous? Is the touching, kissing and grinding still there? Discuss!!!

2006-08-25 04:43:22 · 25 answers · asked by Denver R 1

2006-08-25 04:30:58 · 52 answers · asked by LaShawn S 1

for the first 2 and half years with my husband he talked about his ex at least twice a week .when anything happened that reminded him of her he would go into a long story about her.i even know when and were they had sex what positions how often they had sex.he only stopped talking about her when i threatened to leave him.is that normal.is that what all divorced men do.he had to move to another country and he carried lots of photos of him and her ,

2006-08-25 04:28:47 · 10 answers · asked by hieandbye 2

she has not done it but says she will not wait another year for us to be together. we have courted now for 8 years and says to wait it will happen for us. i really love this women. im i being played for a fool here i am single and a widow and we have been together even when my wife was a live. i fell in love with this women and she lives 700 miles from me.should i dump her i have tryed in the past to do so but i still keep hoping it will work one day. we have fought on here about her getting the divorce and serve papers on him and get him out of there she wants to do this but keeps telling me she don't have the money he is on social security and she works every day. but she says she is a scared of him because he does get mean.but yet she keeps telling me she will do it but she don't. but keeps saying she love me and don't love him and she says they do not have any sex together for the last 4 years. what do you think will this happen or not. i keep hoping it will one day soon.

2006-08-25 04:25:07 · 17 answers · asked by woodburner_229 1

It has been years. She used to, but not any more. How can I get her to give me head again? I need some words and terms, because i'm sure she isn't going to like me using words like "B*** Job" and "head" or "s**k me". I may need to resort to crying or begging - LOL. I'm sure I will need to promise not to "go too far" although she used to do that also. I have always pleased her orally.

2006-08-25 04:24:58 · 27 answers · asked by Midnight_Rider 1

or when do you orgasm faster/easier during intercourse or masturbation

2006-08-25 04:21:49 · 15 answers · asked by hieandbye 2

So 7 of my closest friends will be going to Vegas to celebrate a bachelorette party (that I organized) and I don’t get to go because my husband who is usually cool about me hanging with the girls thought this was over the limit. He is taking me on vacation instead and I’m happy with that..Since in the back of my mind, I know the Vegas trip would have been over the top and caused problems. BUT a little part of me feels like I’m missing out on something. These girls were my sorority sisters and we have done everything together for the past 6 years. I feel that they may start considering me the boring married girl now. Somewhat of an outcast. Does this eventually happen after getting married? Should just accept it?

2006-08-25 04:21:29 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband married his ex-wife becuase she threatened to prevent him from seeing his son. The son passed away as a baby, and basically the woman trapped him with another kid. Of course, she lives in another country, and refused to move here with him at any point, so they never lived together. She uses the kid against him, to force money out of him. She only lets the child speak to him when she hears about money. My hubby and I were just friends when I saw her plot, and tried to show him what I saw. She refuses to allow the child to visit him, and whenever she called to speak to him, she called him all kinds of bad names, including worthless, especially if he told her she'd have to wait. He couldn't have a decent conversation with her, even when it was about the child. So my husband stopped calling ever cause he cannot call to speak to his child without the ex-wife or the ex-wife's mother demanding money. I have now stepped in as the middle person, but I want a solution. Can't stand her

2006-08-25 04:20:20 · 10 answers · asked by Blessed B 2

I found out my husband lied about how many times he had been married before me, he also lied about his daughter having an illness she does not have and told me he had adopted 2 children with one of his wives and they are really his, not adopted. He is now telling me what a piece of garbage I am for digging into his past when it has no relevance to our relationship.
Do you think I should have left it alone?

2006-08-25 04:20:00 · 21 answers · asked by Andrea T 2

2006-08-25 04:18:29 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-08-25 04:18:23 · 17 answers · asked by LaShawn S 1

2006-08-25 04:14:41 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

Seems that they only want men with no kids to help them raise their kids...

Just voicing a opinion lol thanks for listing and if so responding

2006-08-25 04:12:26 · 14 answers · asked by Common Sense 5

He'll ask me for money but I tell him I don't have none because if I give him money he'll keep coming back until all my money is gone. I never get to have spending money in my pockets.

2006-08-25 04:12:10 · 12 answers · asked by Coco 5

Honestly, in the history of the world, has anyone EVER died from lack of sex? No,......so then why do all these stupid f*ckers keep saying dumb sh*t like "he's got to have it" or "he *NEEDS* it"? You can not compare it to food, water, and air. It is not necessary for a persons suvival.

I JUST WANT TO ADD, THAT MOST MEN WOULD GET LAID A HELL OF A LOT MORE IF THEY WERE NOT @SSHOLES!!! ...be nice, get p*ssy. how hard is that to understand? idiots.

2006-08-25 04:09:26 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

What sexual fantasies do you have that you'd never tell your hubby about?

2006-08-25 04:06:52 · 32 answers · asked by whudda 1

life is grand!!!!! Anyone esle madly in love? l've been with my man for 16 years!

2006-08-25 04:06:20 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

Buying a random female a house and giving them £1000 a month would save all the inbetween bit of actually getting married to someone and ultimately facing the same result. True love - chemically no different to large quantities of chocolate?

2006-08-25 04:01:15 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

For those who want to know what nice, sweet or romantic thing they can do for the other:

Men's answer:
Leave me alone, let me watch t.v without interruption
Make wings and buy beer for me and my friends, let us drink, scratch our balls and watch the game without another word out of you, in fact, go hang out with your sister for the night.
Give me a massage, then head, then let me go straight to sleep without pillow talk or spooning.
Clean the house, do the laundry and cook dinner without whining about how much you have to do and how little I do. Then do the dishes while I go watch tv, in silence.

Womens answer:
Send me flowers at work for no reason
Clean the house, do the laundry and take me out for a romantic dinner, Arbys does not cut it
Suprise me with a weekend away in a bed and breakfast by the ocean.
Say "tonight is all about you honey, take the phone aff the hook (thats after you clean the house and take her out)

2006-08-25 03:59:52 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I want to feel that first kiss again, I missed it so much!!! Idon't care about sex, just for that breathtaking first kiss.
Am I the only one?

I know I'm the worst person alive thinking stuff like that while married, but I really need that kiss so much.....

2006-08-25 03:58:44 · 25 answers · asked by Its my ass 1

Do you ever read/answer these questions to heighten arrousal?

And YES, smartypants', I DO! And my wife is happier for it!

2006-08-25 03:56:28 · 2 answers · asked by whudda 1

My love, my dream come true, my baby!

2006-08-25 03:55:56 · 25 answers · asked by Tina Zecca 3

i am 30 and was staying seperately with my wife. My inlaws are illtreating me with low self esteem and insult me and my parents too on several occassions,even though i am a doctor, my wife too misuses my true love for her and keeps mum on such issues and silently supports her parents by her silence,which only encourages my inlaws and she has left me staying now in her parents house since past 4 months,as i didnt approve of her parents behaviour and attitude towards me, these has been happening since our marriage.we r married since 1 1/2 yrs, though i truely love her, i am not able to come to terms when it comes to my self respect, wat should i do now? desert her? i have 2 good proposals from other suitable alliances, shall i remarry? i have tried to solve the issues by getting elders tof either side together on two occassions but nothing came of it. i have lost hope in everything pls help by sincere advice as i am not able to concentrate on anything..

2006-08-25 03:47:51 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

my boyfriend dat that stop me from coming to his house is now begging me to send him recharge card and money to buy some food stuff,he called me on monday that he have some things to say so i went there but the things did not make sense after all he did not allow me to go home that day after all we both have sex so since then he has been calling me and i still send him d recharge card so he call me to thank me and he ask me when are we going to see again so i told him on sunday.after dat he call me yesterday dat if we have soup,stew or fish dat i shd bring for him 2day some i told we don't have any, so he said i shd pls buy fish for him to cook so i told i don't have so he was begging so dis morning he called me back again so i actually went there to give him some money and he was very happy.pls i need some advice on what to do right now becos am very confuse right now,pls i need some steps on how to move wit him right now becos i don't wat will make me regret again or have any fault.

2006-08-25 03:46:24 · 7 answers · asked by temi aj 1

2006-08-25 03:45:01 · 2 answers · asked by cannonball 1

i need some fab ideas on little surprises or things i can do for him once in awhile to remind him that i am thinking of him and i care....

2006-08-25 03:39:11 · 41 answers · asked by ***jenn*** 2

I separated from my husband because he couldn't understand that I wanted sex every 2-3 weeks.. I mean how bad can that really be?? I wake up at 4 am and go to work at 6 am.. I am a mother of two and have been with him for 5 years. He literally packed up and took off taking all his belongings. I know a man like that isn't worth it but why take it to the extreme like that? I don't plan to take him back after a scene like that. I also don't believe in that counseling crap. Is there really a man out there that understands a hard working woman like me?

I know all the mothers out there understand me.

2006-08-25 03:38:43 · 20 answers · asked by Rodriguez #57 2

just bought a new pressure cooker

2006-08-25 03:33:23 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

of the water from boiled vegetables? My wife wants us to eat healthier, but I ain't drinking this crap until I know it's really worth it?
Please settle our dispute.

2006-08-25 03:22:50 · 17 answers · asked by Sausage Fingers™ 3

my husband will not come back to me, until my 20 year old has left home, they dont get on.dont know what to do. love them both.

2006-08-25 03:22:37 · 16 answers · asked by jayne g 1