she has not done it but says she will not wait another year for us to be together. we have courted now for 8 years and says to wait it will happen for us. i really love this women. im i being played for a fool here i am single and a widow and we have been together even when my wife was a live. i fell in love with this women and she lives 700 miles from me.should i dump her i have tryed in the past to do so but i still keep hoping it will work one day. we have fought on here about her getting the divorce and serve papers on him and get him out of there she wants to do this but keeps telling me she don't have the money he is on social security and she works every day. but she says she is a scared of him because he does get mean.but yet she keeps telling me she will do it but she don't. but keeps saying she love me and don't love him and she says they do not have any sex together for the last 4 years. what do you think will this happen or not. i keep hoping it will one day soon.
2006-08-25 04:25:07 · 17 answers · asked by woodburner_229 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Well you got caught up in this mess knowing she was a married lady. She sounds like she is playing you and telling you what you want to hear. If she was so scared of this man and he is mean then why is she going on the internet and chatting with other males and having sex with them. If she has time to meet up with you and see you then she has time to go and file for divorce papers. Sorry to hear about the loss of your wife but you should be ashamed of yourself having an affair on her while you were married to her. How can you live with youself knowing that. Two people get married so they can live their lives with with just the two of them. I don't remember my wedding vows saying "I will be able to see and have sex with others" There are so many women out there stop wasting your time and find someone that is not married.
2006-08-25 04:35:26 · answer #1 · answered by luvlisteningtomusic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd get over her. It sounds like she's playin with you. After 8 years and nothin, what are you waiting for. You still have a life, go find someone else. My guess is that she has no plans to leave her husband. She prolly just likes the attention from you that she's prolly lacking at home. As for not having sex for 4 years...come on now, you know better than that. Forget about her and find someone else who really loves you and wants to be with you.
2006-08-25 11:47:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My friend you better get on with your life.First if she is 700 miles away who's too say she does not have a b/f in her home town.Second 8 years come on i meet my current wife on line.We were both married and in less then a year she had moved to be with me here in mich and she was in Minnesota.And if he's so mean why don't you open your door too her ?
2006-08-25 13:35:14 · answer #3 · answered by stevens_monroe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, do not mess with a married women, even if she is getting a divorce. First off, have you even met her face to face, or have you been courting her for the past eight years ONLINE!? Futhermore, Internet relationships are totally suicidal. You can't even see the other person or see her personality. I wouldn't even touch this if I were you.
2006-08-25 11:34:24 · answer #4 · answered by Paul W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well dear, if you believe she will leave her marriage after all this time, I have some beach-front property in idaho to sell you. Hoping wont make it happen... you are being strung along and it sounds like you know that but playing the victim is easier than getting on with your life. and once again, if she cheated with you, she will cheat on you... wake up darling
2006-08-25 11:31:34 · answer #5 · answered by nanacakes06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey if she leaves her husband for you this means when she gets with you and she sees another guy of interest then you are just that EASY TARGET to get DROPPED~ So if you want to be the rebound dude so be it, just know what goes around comes around~ she is not the one~ Do not be the cause of there divorce. she does not love you but she is toying with your emotions. Do not show her you sweating. she is married~ Married folks talk a good game~ Its a GAME to them. Please believe it~ Coming from a woman~
2006-08-25 11:33:19 · answer #6 · answered by HotPucci220 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your being played dude... for real females just cheat because they need that extra attention that there not getting at home. even though they love the person there with... be a man and leave first... for real this aint cool your messen with your life... she cheated on himi what makes you think she aint gonna cheat on you later on when she gets board again. good luck
dont let females lie to you if she wanted you she would of moved out got devorce started and moved on...
2006-08-25 11:39:12 · answer #7 · answered by abbie24 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweetie if she was going to leave him she would have already its been 8 years she not going anywhere.You say you met her on here so you just chat with her on the computer.Honestly you really know nothing of her life and whats true and whats not your just going on what she tells you.Dont be a sucker any longer.Look for someone in real life that you can be with and return your love.Id forget it and leave her.
2006-08-25 11:31:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry but she's been stringing you along for 8 years now. You need to cut the strings and move on without her.
2006-08-25 11:33:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man.I usually try to be open.But please "Get A Life"of your own this woman has played you for real.Move on and find a real relationship with someone who's not married.Hey, 8 YEARS WAKE UP!!!
2006-08-25 11:35:32 · answer #10 · answered by endigogirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋