2006-08-25 04:30:58 · 52 answers · asked by LaShawn S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
My wife just came right and and told me she wanted a divorce. SO, Just tell him!
Good Luck
Jb
2006-08-25 04:32:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
If he is a good man be gentle. If he was unkind you owe him nothing. Why is it over? If he has deceived or betrayed you then you owe him nothing. If you have betrayed him then shame on you. People just don't care or understand the impact and devestation and destruction they cause in another's life by thoughtless, selfish and immature actions. Some people really have no business marrying. A successful marriage requires two mature adults to begin with and a lot of work after that. A mature adult is not one who marries today and becomes bored in 6 months or attracted to another in 1 year. That is just a self-seeking adolescent and god-help anyone who comes in contact or marries this type of person.
2006-08-25 04:40:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you are in counseling -- do it there with an impartial mediator helping you both to deal with the situation.
For me, it was over when I did the paperwork -- get the Divorce papers started right away, and get them served. I was Active Military (and did have deployments at the time), so it was a challenge, but I just could not take it any more -- he was abusive and doing all sorts of stealing from me as well as disappearing and even started sleeping around -- and that was it. I boxed his things up, dropped them all off to him, and just quit. There was no need to continue to go through hell for a jerk.
2006-08-25 04:39:57 · answer #3 · answered by sglmom 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
One begins a relationship with great hope. The initial signs are very encouraging. The chemistry between both the partners is just right. Both enjoy being with each other and are happy. They believe that they have got what they wanted. Their friends know that the two are going steady and marriage may take place soon. One fine day, a partner announces that he/she would like to break away. more-
http://www.yourromanceguide.com/articles/break-up/saying-goodbye.php
2006-08-25 05:24:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say it depends on his temper, personality and what caused the demise of the relationship.
If there is a chance that their might be violence try to pick a public place. But sitting down in private like at your house would probable be the best choice. You just have to pick the right moment. I had one buddy that his wife dropped the bomb on him at their New Years Eve party they were having. It wasn't the best choice of times.
2006-08-25 04:36:11 · answer #5 · answered by acidcrap 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I feel it depends on how his personality is and how you feel he would take the news once give to him. This is only in some instances. Let me take 1 step back! You can have the sweetest man, with the best personality in the world. He may love you dearly. But girlfriend be careful giving him the news because passive, quiet men can turn on you like white on rice! And if you're leaving him because of domestic violence, tell him with a police officer standing at your side. Yes Girlfriend---CALL A COP!
2006-08-25 04:36:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Pack his stuff and put the suitcases outside after changes the locks. Place a note on top. that says:
Dear Bozo,
It's over. I'll send the divorce papers to your mistress address.
Yours always,
Happy to be without you
That would do the trick. Good luck
2006-08-25 04:37:30 · answer #7 · answered by Blunt 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
easy.............if you don't love him beacuse he has been a bad husband, father, A wife beatter Etc. Does are the only reasons you would want to get away from your husband. If it is for a different reason, such as you got a crush on some else, that is bad, think twice before donig anything stupid.
2006-08-25 04:36:39 · answer #8 · answered by Mother of three 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
A lot depends on him...What kind of reaction do you expect? Is he the violent type?? has he ever hit you?? if he is dangerous in any way make sure you tell him in a public place with people you trust present....If he is a calm guy then just tell him that you need to get out of the marriage..Explain to him that you see marriage and people like styrofoam cups...Disposable.......
2006-08-25 04:42:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
The best way to handle any subject, sit down with him and communicate. Be as honest as you can, without placing blame or throwing up guilt or yelling and screaming. And, if need be, get someone to sit down with you when you do this, kind of like a counselor would. Just make sure it's someone whose going to be unbiased.
2006-08-25 04:35:28 · answer #10 · answered by Unmade Promises 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Dear LaShawn S
I dont know what are the reasons you want to finish ur relation with ur man, but i have to go against all the answers above and tell you that u r week if u just didnt fight for ur life and your right to have a great lovly life with ur housbend... again i dont know why, but i think u need to fight more ... sorry i talked to you this way but thats what i think
best of luck for u
2006-08-25 04:54:05 · answer #11 · answered by Clark794 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋