It has been years. She used to, but not any more. How can I get her to give me head again? I need some words and terms, because i'm sure she isn't going to like me using words like "B*** Job" and "head" or "s**k me". I may need to resort to crying or begging - LOL. I'm sure I will need to promise not to "go too far" although she used to do that also. I have always pleased her orally.
2006-08-25 04:24:58 · 27 answers · asked by Midnight_Rider 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
NO - My hygiene is not a problem.
maybe I'll get out the scissors and trim
2006-08-25 13:11:59 · update #1
It may be from your hygiene. Get some Veet and take away the hair, take a shower using Axe body wash, then spray a mist of Tag body spray on.....She'll suck you clean like a Dirt Devil....No lie buddy.
2006-08-25 04:28:17 · answer #1 · answered by ? 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
here is what i do.. wait till she is a great mood! Then, talk to her about if she is happy the way the marriage is going in regards to everything. Restate how much you do for her emotionaly, finacially, and sexually. Then ask her if there was anything she would want u to do differently. This will get her female mind spinning, she will think "where is this comming from and why is he asking me this now?". Eventually, she will ask you those same questions, you then "sigh" and look away from her and say something like " i wish you had that same old spark you used to have for me where you would do anything to make me happy. She will say what do you mean? and u say "you know you used to do foreplay a lot more and you were so good at, it totaly rocked my world and made my week! I guess if i could go back in time knowing how it is now that i would have asked for it more. It made me feel special, in the same way i hope i make u feel sometimes that is all i am saying".
once she thinks about it watch out and enjoy the benefits!! she will feel so guilty she will probably swallow the first time!!
good luck!
2006-08-25 11:33:49 · answer #2 · answered by stewiegrif27 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make her feel good about doing it. Wait until you're having a great time together, feeling sexy together, you know, and tell her, maybe even whisper it in her ear, tell her you miss the oral sex. Pump up her ego by telling her you loved it when she did it, that she was so good at it, and you miss the feel of her mouth on you, and that you'd love for her to do it again. Don't tell her that old line about "But I do it for you". That doesn't ever come across as anything but a whine and it's a great big put off.
2006-08-25 12:16:27 · answer #3 · answered by I'm just me 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hide all the food in the house, then after about a week when she starts to crave something to snack on smear some peanut butter or chocolate on your penis and enjoy. Then to make her finish, don't give her any milk or water until she has completed the job.
2006-08-25 11:31:34 · answer #4 · answered by curious1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, Do you know what you did to me in the past that I really miss a lot?......oral sex. How would you feel about giving me oral sex again like you used to? I'd be more than happy to double up on my services to you.
2006-08-25 11:33:30 · answer #5 · answered by 2BaD4u 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to ask her why she dosent find pleasing you that way enjoyable.After all she enjoys when you do it to her right.Maybe you need to wash it good and maybe trim up a little bit she may not like hairs getting stuck down her throat and trying to hack them up like shes a cat or something.I dont know what her prob could be i enjoy sucking my husband off.
2006-08-25 11:37:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't force her or beg her! If she doesn't want to what can you do? Explain how much you want it and how you need it. My husband gets one whenever he wants; and there is always a mess-free happy ending! She has forgotten how great it is! I love it!! Tell her you won't do her anymore(as a last resort!).
2006-08-25 18:53:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Talk to her, be lovey and romantic and when you feel like you can, ask her "remember when you used to....., why did we stop doing that?" Then she knows you are interested once more, and you are not putting it out there obnoxiously. Good luck, hope you get what you want! ;)
2006-08-25 11:29:00 · answer #8 · answered by Smilingcheek 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yo she's ur wife..u should be able to say stuff to her w/o hesitating..actually the best way to say this would be give her a sad face and say i dont know how to say this but i want head..lol..cover ur face or something...she'll just think ur cute and start laughing....its worth the shot....just do it...u BABY!!!
2006-08-25 11:28:17 · answer #9 · answered by chaand5 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell if your good enough to go down on her, she's good enough to go down on you. If she cant fufill that requirement, take 20 bucks and go to the corner, then shut up and quit whining. Tell her you'll do it.
2006-08-25 11:32:53 · answer #10 · answered by flowwjoe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋