I want to feel that first kiss again, I missed it so much!!! Idon't care about sex, just for that breathtaking first kiss.
Am I the only one?
I know I'm the worst person alive thinking stuff like that while married, but I really need that kiss so much.....
2006-08-25 03:58:44 · 25 answers · asked by Its my ass 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Then kiss your wife as though it is the first time. And yes you are the worst person in the world.
2006-08-25 04:01:02 · answer #1 · answered by doc 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are not looking for that first breathtaking kiss. You're looking for the thrill of romance. You didn't state your sex, but I assume you're a woman who daydreams about the emotional high of romantic love. This is common, but not reality. It sounds like you and your spouse need to read some good books about how to keep the romance alive in your marriage. Stop watching soap operas and stop reading romance novels. Realize both are fiction. I'm not saying you can't have those wonderful romantic highs, but most of life isn't like that. Also, marriage takes a lot of work and maintaining that romatic flame takes time and focus. There are a lot of Great books. Check it out.
2006-08-25 11:05:42 · answer #2 · answered by whiteparrot 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OK e1 can kill me for this answer but IMO its perfectly normal to think about stuff like that and there is NOTHING wrong with wanting romance and that high of a first kiss, you had it with the person you married then you had something more substantiol to lead you down the road of true love and companionship called marrige, congrats and remember to cherish that.
That being said, its not for everyone and I know very few men and women that can handle it in thier marrige BUT my husband and I have such a strong trust and respect for each other that jealosy does not exsist for us. We are both allowed those first kisses (no were not some sort of swingers, no offence to those who are lol) and find that after that thrill it only makes us want and appreciate each other more.
Think of it this way (as my husband told me once) you love PB&J you take it to work everday and couldn't imagine never having it, but one day darnit you just HAVE to have a ham and cheese on rye. So you have your ham and cheese and its wonderfull but the next day you miss your PB&J and are in just as much heaven when you have it the next day as when you had that ham and cheese....stay away from tuna tho :P
Also there is a lot to be said for feeling free and comfortable enough to just ENJOY the thoughts that you have and have your fantisies be just that, you don't have to act upon them to enjoy them, and sometimes sharing them with your parter can be just as thrilling.
Good Luck to you !
2006-08-25 11:26:35 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it is wanting something that we cannot have. You are not the only one, there are a million others out there too, and if they say otherwise, they are lying. It is human nature to never be satisfied. You want to settle down, and when you do, you want to be single again. It's not the kiss you need, it's the something different. The rush of a new flame. Yes, I know exactly what you're talking about. Don't do it, though, because it will open a floodgate. Trust me. Good luck.
Heather
2006-08-25 11:06:22 · answer #4 · answered by rlms_girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah that first kiss is something.. but it is natural to think about stuff like that even after you are married.. just remember the words you said to your husband on your wedding day . that should be enough of a kiss for you.. even though i would love to have some excitement i would never cheat on my husband and i think that kissing someone else is cheating.. but if you feel that kissing is not cheating and your husband feels the same way then go get that kiss. but remember one thing. once you get what you want.. you will keep wanting it and sooner or later you are going to be screwing around and end up without a husband.
2006-08-25 11:04:07 · answer #5 · answered by ~Mrs.C 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Why do you think your the worst person in the world....everyone at sometime wants to feel the kiss that made the sparks fly the fireworks go off in the sky. Kiss him again like the first time baby.....
2006-08-25 11:13:12 · answer #6 · answered by opyankees_06 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, no harm in thinking that way unless you actually try to do that.
You can make your wish come true. Share this with your wife and then you can plan a date together, where you meet as strangers. Spend sometime together and then you can take her to the room. Ask her to tie a blindfold on you and then switch off the lights. Imagine it is someone else and you can get your first kiss again. Works?
2006-08-25 11:04:36 · answer #7 · answered by Dileep J 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You are not alone........but a little fantasy can help keep a mariage bubbling along nicely. Most folks fantasise at some time or another. Limit to fantasy and you will be just fine. Step over the line and all hell could break loose....for the sake of a kiss,
2006-08-25 11:02:12 · answer #8 · answered by eagledreams 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Welcome to marriage you doof.
I had the best dream about Nicholas Cage the other night. Just his hug left me breathless. Then he kissed me (just a peck) and it was so breathtaking I woke up! I'm not even really a fan of his. But now I am! lol....ahhhh. My husband and I may be married, but we dream alone!
2006-08-25 11:03:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You know i feel you ...I am not married but i am in relationship and although i am very happy with him and i would never act on it or cheat on my man. i do think about that first kiss . but that is the difference thinking about it and actually acting on it . believe me there is nothing wrong with missing it.your not a bad person.
2006-08-25 11:11:05 · answer #10 · answered by tinker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋