For those who want to know what nice, sweet or romantic thing they can do for the other:
Men's answer:
Leave me alone, let me watch t.v without interruption
Make wings and buy beer for me and my friends, let us drink, scratch our balls and watch the game without another word out of you, in fact, go hang out with your sister for the night.
Give me a massage, then head, then let me go straight to sleep without pillow talk or spooning.
Clean the house, do the laundry and cook dinner without whining about how much you have to do and how little I do. Then do the dishes while I go watch tv, in silence.
Womens answer:
Send me flowers at work for no reason
Clean the house, do the laundry and take me out for a romantic dinner, Arbys does not cut it
Suprise me with a weekend away in a bed and breakfast by the ocean.
Say "tonight is all about you honey, take the phone aff the hook (thats after you clean the house and take her out)
2006-08-25 03:59:52 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Good one! The funny thing is, so many couples start out on the same page, with all the romance & fun, but...this is how most end up 3-5 years into the relationship. Sad how we take each other for granted. If we lived each day like it might be the last with the other, things would change. How do we know the other will not be in a crash on the way home? Something to ponder.
2006-08-25 04:02:42 · answer #1 · answered by mustanglynnie 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the woman in the example is looking for a gay man. i would suggest going to the bed and breakfast alone, and find one. the man seems to have a good handle on life.
you just explained what most men would like, in general. you didn't ask any man if he thought that was romance. on the other hand, your example of what the woman's answer was, included nothing but romance. not a very good comparison.
i think most men would drive right by arby's and check in at the b&b if it would be ok to watch the game there (without his friends), some pillow talk, spooning and perhaps some head with a willing provider.
2006-08-25 11:11:07 · answer #2 · answered by bill loomer 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What crappy relationships you've had to come up with those sexist remarks. My hubby and I have been together quite some time, and never once have I ever had to ask for flowers, supper, etc. as he does this all the time for no reason and he has never answered with sarcastic / demeaning remarks as you've put down. Time for the women out there to be a little more selective in men if you are getting those types of remarks.
2006-08-25 11:14:09 · answer #3 · answered by GirlinNB 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I get what your saying............. and man are you right on!!! But that isn't as much a question as it is a statement for us all to read and agree or disagree. My woman answer is all you said except without the cleaning part being done by the man. I prefer to do that because I do a MUCH better job at it. But you are right on with everything else. WOW! that really does show the difference in us in a whole new light.
2006-08-25 11:05:54 · answer #4 · answered by shy&gental 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Give me some head, forget the beer
2006-08-25 11:03:23 · answer #5 · answered by Michael 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, some men and women are like that.
2006-08-25 12:30:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Men would be able to spell their question better.
2006-08-25 11:04:19 · answer #7 · answered by whudda 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have to disagree... my husband itsn't that way... he comes home from work and its all about me, how was my day, what did i do, ect. he's sooo sweet
2006-08-25 12:32:42 · answer #8 · answered by Justin's Wife of 10 Years!! 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i don't agree with the men's answer, im not like that @ all.
2006-08-25 11:04:19 · answer #9 · answered by WhyNotMe 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That was sexist - on both sides!
2006-08-25 11:02:41 · answer #10 · answered by doc 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋