Marriage & Divorce - 25 August 2006

Well I have my husband whom i love so much he treats me good and loves me right but there just this one problem thats interfering with our lives. He doesnt think it seems to be an issue but i strongly feel that it is. When i have my friends come over he wants to know what we talked about, also when hes working and one of my friends come over he gets upset and thinks wierd things. I also have to ask permission to go somewhere with my friends, like shopping or taking the kids out. I even want to go visit my friends and he thinks were up to something. I really dont understand why he is this way, is he jealous of everything i do or does he think i do wrong things because he probably does. dont seem to get it is he controlling my life or is this just normal i dont know what to expect or how to react maybe someone can give me a little advice......

2006-08-25 14:31:46 · 25 answers · asked by tori 1

Our marriage was bad. But I still love him. I found out some things that he did but he swears up and down he didnt cheat on me. I havent called him in 3 days. I figured I would let him call me but he didn't. It's just really hard because it feels like he just doesnt care about me anymore and he just walked away.

This is absolutely killing me. We have 2 small children and this was his weekend to get them so I was waiting to see if he would call me but he didnt. It just makes me so mad that he doesnt even care about them. He tells me he does but his actions prove otherwise. Should I call him and ask him why he didnt call about his kids.

I just have such a mixture of emotions I feel like I am going crazy. Im sad, Im mad, Im overwhelmed. I dont know what to do but I cant keep feeling this way. This is the hardest thing I have ever had to deal with.

2006-08-25 14:24:28 · 21 answers · asked by muchfunrwe 1

2006-08-25 14:14:25 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

I gave up my job, my home, my family and friends to run off with him. He had a dream to retrain and do something other than the same job he had for 30 years. I begged him not to quit his job but I encouraged him to follow his dream. We got married and he got fired the very next month...he took out all his vested income and we lived on the money for over three years. I worked but he never took any of my money for "our bills". I paid for my clothes, hair, nails and expenses such as gas and classes and licensing etc...He was in debt deep and we refinanced our house to cover all his school debt and the mortgage...he took out extra to build a second bathroom...he gave that money to an attorney who wrote up a quit claim deed and divorce papers for me to sign. I couldn't beleive it! I thought he would come after me and beg me to forgive him...instead he calls me a gold digger and says he doesn't want to hear from me again? I barely had enough money to get back home...he let me take my

2006-08-25 13:49:54 · 36 answers · asked by waleah n 2

I know men who are married and go to strip bars frequently (and their wives are actually very pretty). Don't you think that is wrong? It's almost like cheating, because they are desiring someone else, right? What are your thoughts?

2006-08-25 13:48:21 · 32 answers · asked by Sugar_Mama 3

My boyfriend proposed me and my mom gave as a blessing but later she told me that she only acepts him because of me. She doesn't like him and she doesn't want to see him in her house. I don't know what to do? We were planning to have wedding in my hometowne where my parents live. I didn't tell anything to my fiance. What should I do in this situation? Will our reliationship surrvive?

2006-08-25 13:47:43 · 25 answers · asked by s1mone 1

We got married when I was on my fifth month of pregnancy. The biggest motivating factor of our marriage was my pregnancy. We have not been getting along well for the short time that we are married. Our last argument had ended with a minor physical violence and me throwing him out of the house. I am afraid that my child will grow up without a father and blame me for initiating the separation between her father and I.

2006-08-25 13:34:47 · 29 answers · asked by 888goddess 2

my husband and i been marriage for almost 8 years he's a good husband and a good father i love him with all of my heart. but there is one problem i use to love sex he's good and all but why do i feel gross having sex with my husband why do i feel this way?

2006-08-25 13:34:23 · 11 answers · asked by browneyes 3

What is the best way to find out if your b/f was cheating on you when he gets home from "work"???

2006-08-25 13:20:13 · 9 answers · asked by Jersey Girl 1

why cheat when he said there wasnt anything wrong in the marriage??

2006-08-25 13:19:30 · 11 answers · asked by craziekof 1

Husband (sounds weird at this point) and I have been separated for well over a year, after he cheated on me. Things had been shaky, with disagreements over the future, so I actually understood about that and have since almost really forgiven him. I don't miss him as a husband, but I miss my friend. We were best friends for seven years, three of them married. (Add four years at the end that weren't so great....) He was depressed when we started having trouble, but refused help from me or a doctor. We've barely talked in two months, and I called to say I'd gotten a lawyer & invited him to come with me so it could be done together. He said he'd just gotten medical help for depression two weeks ago and asked for some time before we complete this..... My heart aches b/c I still care about him as a friend, but when is enough enough???? I don't trust him since the betrayal....and I've been MORE than fair throughout this......What would you do?

2006-08-25 13:04:56 · 39 answers · asked by justme 3

We got into an argument after we were drinking, and she left due to my inattentiveness and being gone alot over the last year. This is our first year of marriage and I love her very much. She says she needs time, but thats the one thing I have none of. She wont talk to me on the phone, but will talk through mutual friends. All say that she is not cheating and I believe she is not. I just want her to come back and start to try again.

2006-08-25 12:58:43 · 18 answers · asked by snafulikeu2 1

My husband and I want to file for divorce (uncontested) but I don't know the steps to do it. I have the forms filled out but dont know where do go from there. Do I have HIM sign the papers and then send them to the local court? Or do I just send them without his signature??

2006-08-25 12:56:02 · 6 answers · asked by Leah 1

2006-08-25 12:51:21 · 17 answers · asked by Jujeaux 6

It doesn’t matter anymore.


I used to sit and wonder to myself,
what it was, I did so wrong.

Could I have treated you different?
or wrote you, a beautiful song.

I loved you with all of my heart,
and I believed, you truly loved me.

You used to say, I was your true love,
and there was no place, you’d rather be.

How could a love so wonderful and pure,
change, from the day we first met.

Was it I, who did you wrong,
or a friend, I will never forget.

But now, it truly doesn’t matter anymore,
why, you hurt and cheated on me.

Because I know, deep in my heart,
It wasn’t I, who committed adultery.

So I just wanted you to know,
that if you ever, think of us two.

My life has truly changed, my dear,
and I deserve allot better, than the likes of you.



By: Kenny P aka- Cobra

2006-08-25 12:38:32 · 17 answers · asked by Cobra 5

2006-08-25 12:32:37 · 4 answers · asked by mari-mar 3

2006-08-25 12:27:16 · 9 answers · asked by mari-mar 3

Im in a good mood Are you?

2006-08-25 12:17:02 · 15 answers · asked by pebs 4

2006-08-25 12:15:04 · 15 answers · asked by country girl 3

I'm often told that at first your all in love and there's this spark, but it doesn't last long and before you know it the spark has died. That scares me. I'm a young woman who wants to find a man she can love and have a family. I'm just afraid that after marrying the person...the spark will die.

2006-08-25 12:11:21 · 19 answers · asked by mountaingirl88 3

my ex takes our baby from daycare whenever it suits him (im currently in the process of obtaining court orders). he wont tell me the address he takes my son to.

2006-08-25 12:10:44 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

is it true that women ask for help from a guiy if they like them

2006-08-25 11:44:16 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-08-25 11:39:25 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

WHILE YOU'RE WITH HIM. I FIND IT DISRESPECTFUL. WHAT DO YA'LL THINK? THANKS FOR YOUR ANSWERS.

2006-08-25 11:35:57 · 62 answers · asked by Sandra 2

2006-08-25 11:23:36 · 6 answers · asked by dee 1

of you would admit it even if you did see him?

Wife Wakes Sleeping Husband In Driveway
(AP) ROGERS, Ark. A man who fell asleep in his driveway woke up when his wife came home and turned into the driveway to park the car.

Kristine Bolson of Rogers said she drove into her driveway shortly after midnight Tuesday and heard a loud cracking sound, a Benton County Sheriff's Office report said.

When she got out of her vehicle, she heard moaning and found her husband, Richard Gonzalez, on the ground near her vehicle. Bolson said she did not initially see her husband in the driveway.

According to the report, Gonzalez said he had been drinking and he must have passed out. He was taken to St. Mary's Hospital where he was treatment for abrasions and contusions.

2006-08-25 11:17:30 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

or anything else in the shape of

2006-08-25 11:07:17 · 6 answers · asked by noggle4 2

Well me and my husband have been going threw some hard times 2 kids and we have been together for 10 years i want to do something but not any thing to crazy where it looked like i tryed to hard!

2006-08-25 11:06:38 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

I found a womans number in my husband's phone. I called it and it turned out that they had been seeing each other for a month. I confronted him and he said nothing happened and that he was "sorry". I tried to leave to give him some time but he wouldn't let me. He told me that he loved me and that it had nothing to do with me that everything was going to change. I staid, he started paying more attention to me, telling me he loved me all the time. I still didn't trust him so I kept looking through his calls. In the month of July I found another number, So once again I called it. A woman picked up, I didn't ask her anything I just hanged up. I told him about that one and he tried to say someone at work had used his phone, I told him that was funny because it was after work hours and he had been calling her a lot so it wasnt a wrong #. I looked more and found pics of a naked woman taken 4/2006 and many other #'s. I love him but is it worth staying with him? not trusting him,checking calls?

2006-08-25 11:04:27 · 24 answers · asked by Elizabeth M 1

My EX and i just broke up 2 weeks ago, sence then i have lost the kids i have been with for 2 years, ( his kids) i have no friends, and i feel like my life has no meaning now. I go day after day just wondering what i am here for, and what to do with my life. I am only 22... it may be a little corney but like that song goes. '' i was born the day i meet him, died inside the day he left me, but i lived while he loved me" I just dont know what to do. I feel so alone! Can anyone help?

2006-08-25 11:03:12 · 13 answers · asked by sexy momma 3