2006-08-25 12:27:16 · 9 answers · asked by mari-mar 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Where are you from, honey? If you live in the US, he doesn't have to give you an allowance, honey. By law half of everything you two own is yours, including the money he makes, whether you work or not.
2006-08-25 12:32:54 · answer #1 · answered by I'm just me 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is a classical situation and the answer is......Get a job, so you can be independant in many ways.What would it be like if something went wrong and you couldn't speak your mind because you can't afford to leave him? This way you will feel more secure and you wont have to ask him for crap.
2006-08-25 12:31:53 · answer #2 · answered by blondearies123 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
An allowance? He sounds like a jerk? In a marriage everything should belong to both people.
2006-08-25 12:31:02 · answer #3 · answered by I love sushi 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
he might be too busy paying child support for his other kids. tell him you need money to go out and live like a woman and not like a man. so ask him if he can give you 150 dollars per month and spend that wisely. it will last long
2006-08-25 12:32:54 · answer #4 · answered by All4Christ 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Now you know why he has been divorced 2 times..what did you think...you were going to be the one that was different??? Good luck
2006-08-25 13:41:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
YOU HAVE TO EARN YOUR OWN MONEY! GET A PART-TIME JOB....DO PEOPLES LAUNDRY,,,COOK MEALS FOR MONEY...IF YOUR GOING TO DO ALL THESE DUTIES AND NOT BE APPRECIATED WITH A LITTLE SPENDING MONEY,,,DO THESE CHORES FOR BUSY WOMEN FRIENDS WHO DONT HAVE TIME BUT MONEY...IF YOUR GOING TO DO THE WORK ...DO IT FOR MONEY!!!! THEN WATCH WHEN YOU START DOING THIS ,,,YOUR HUSBAND WILL GIVE YOU MONEY SO YOU WILL STOP HELPING OTHER PEOPLE...HE WONT WANT TO SHARE YOU OR YOUR WORK WITH ANYONE ELSE....GET YOURSELF A JOB...DONT KISS HIS *** ...MARRIAGE IS A PARTNERSHIP
YOU WORK JUST AS HARD AS HE DOES..EXCEPT YOU DONT GET PAID!!
2006-08-25 12:38:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have a serious talk or seek help from a counsellor.
If he won't change, divorce him.
2006-08-25 20:45:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can stand there with your hand out OR you can make your own money
2006-08-25 12:47:11 · answer #8 · answered by johnnydean86 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget the allowance divorce him and take half of everything he has
2006-08-25 12:39:51 · answer #9 · answered by bolandalbaby@verizon.net 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋