2006-08-25 11:39:25 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
that is not enough information to make a decision
2006-08-25 11:42:20 · answer #1 · answered by fawn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That depends what do they chat about? Did she tell you she talks to him or did you find out some other way? Would it be ok with her if you chatted with women online? If she isn't trying to hide it she most likely has nothing to hide. No, just the fact that she is talking to him doesn't mean she is cheating. It is possible that you are a little too controlling though. Do you trust your wife or don't you? And if you don't why is she your wife? Would you expect or want her to have a little faith in you? If you would then you have to be willing to give her the same thing. Women rarely ever stray UNLESS there is something very wrong with the relationship they are in. They don't do it just to collect conquests or for cheap thrills like men do.
2006-08-25 18:44:44 · answer #2 · answered by dappersmom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Naturally, it depends on what they're chatting about.
If she is open to you and told you that she does chat with this particular man then I am pretty sure she isn't cheating, that would be stupid to tell you and then cheat with him, get me?
So, ask her what they talk about and if she doesn't budge and tell you right away then there could be something going on. Honesty is essential in a marriage anyway but don't jump to conclusions.
2006-08-25 19:06:59 · answer #3 · answered by ♪Msz. Nena♫ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not necessarily. People chat all the time. You have to give her the trust she deserves until she has proven otherwise. Just love her to the best of your ability and that is all you can do. If she does cheat then, it wont be your fault.
2006-08-25 18:44:48 · answer #4 · answered by myquietangel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is just chatting, no, If they are having intimate chatting yes... I wouldn't cheat on my husband for anything but I chat with guys all the time, it doesn't mean a thing....
2006-08-25 18:44:32 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because she chats with him doesn't mean she's cheating on you. Me, myself, I wouldn't like my bf chatting all the time with some woman. I would probably feel the same way you do about that, it would make me suspicious, too.
2006-08-25 18:44:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If that's the only thing you have to worry about, you are lucky. You can't **** through a computer or a phone line, if we could you may have an issue, but you don't. And as a side point, your jealousy may just be driving her away. Chill, It's just chat.
2006-08-25 18:44:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No... thats like saying my wife talks to grocery guy today is she cheating? If you married her then you should trust her 100%
2006-08-25 18:44:05 · answer #8 · answered by babygirl15 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's just chatting but it's different if you find something else about them talking on line about. but if you don't like her talk or chatting just sit down with her and tell her how you feel. good luck
2006-08-26 08:38:57 · answer #9 · answered by Melda R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my own thought is that its ok to chat with whoever about whatever, its diferent from sleeping with someone. Maybe ask her what she gets from him that you don't give her. Then try to give er some attention. Good Luck.
2006-08-25 18:43:35 · answer #10 · answered by kurticus1024 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe not yet..but these things can lead to something like cheating. Have a talk with her.
2006-08-25 18:43:54 · answer #11 · answered by e_deckwa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋