Seems that they only want men with no kids to help them raise their kids...
Just voicing a opinion lol thanks for listing and if so responding
2006-08-25 04:12:26 · 14 answers · asked by Common Sense 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
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2006-08-25 04:18:18 · update #1
There are plenty of women in the world who desire a hard working man who has children.
I just happend to be one of them. My husband had 2 daughter before we married, and I wanted ALL OF THEM. I wanted to in their life, just as much as I wanted them to be in my life. I was honored that my husband would chose me to be in their lives.
There are some women who prefer a man with no children.
There is no right or wrong choice, you have to understand that everyone is different. And it's a personal decision.
I believe that people who are single and have children have a much greater responsibility when it comes to dating, because it's not only "you" that they are dating, it's your children as well, and that's very important.
That doesn't make you any better or less of a man.
Blessings To You & Yours
2006-08-25 04:29:51 · answer #1 · answered by Pastors Wife 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am sometime ashamed to be associated with the femal gender. You sound like such a nice man. The kind of man every woman "says" she wants but ends up with a mean jerk. Try to play hard to get, act disinterested and a little conceited around women and see if you don't start attracting a different type of woman. On the other hand if you are already acting that way then maybe you have a flawed self-image. Most woman today are very selfish. It is so sad. Take your time in finding a good woman. There are a few left out there. Not me though I am happily married.
2006-08-25 04:22:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with being with a hard working man that has kids. I am with a hardworking man that has two boys. I treat and love those boys just as if i gave birth to them. I hope if not already you found that good hardworking woman that will do the same as me. Just voicing back my opinion.
2006-08-25 04:18:36 · answer #3 · answered by BabyGirl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I married what I thought was a hard working man and a father of 2. He soon began not working and I raised his 2 kids had one of our own. and now after 19 years of marriage, He moved out and wants time to think. I'm so hurt Yes I did ***** about him not working. He never appreciated me for all I did over the years. I don't however want him to go.I didn't know how much I still love him. I want him back and don't know how to get him. (but that is for another topic. good luck to you just make sure you take care of who you find. you'll find her.
2006-08-25 05:12:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honey there are lots of women out there that would tell you that the kids are not the problem. As a matter of fact, we can say the same regarding men.
2006-08-25 08:03:59 · answer #5 · answered by furbee_4 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes there are still ladies that want a hard working man, even if he has kids. As long as the fellow is affectionate and loving, who wouldn't.
2006-08-25 04:16:49 · answer #6 · answered by oddbutterfly1 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hell ya, there are lots of women that want a hard-working man - with or without kids. It's the baggage that they don't want - specifically the ex.
2006-08-25 04:19:36 · answer #7 · answered by VNCGirl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
More than you think. I'm getting divorced and have been talking to sooo many people. It's sad how mand, both men and women are in the same boat as you. Good luck
2006-08-25 04:16:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You seem like a decent guy - I hope you find the woman for you and your boys. She's out there searching for you too :0)
2006-08-25 04:48:57 · answer #9 · answered by The librarian 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that any guy who pays his bills AND looks after kids these days would be like the ultimate sex symbol.....
2006-08-25 04:21:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋