Marriage & Divorce - 13 August 2006

we did try many times yet failed.
my husband does get erection when we warm up but when it gets down to business, his penis become soft. after so many times failing, i'm getting pissed off and eveytime we didn't make it, i start to get frustrated. i was trying so hard for him to be able to make it. i was damn tired!. he refuses to seek for any medical help cos he feels ashamed. he has high blood pressure. i asked him to do some sports as he never exercise. he said yes but nothing happens. he work from 8am-9pm daily. on weekends, he just rest and sleeps all the time when we're home. he keeps saying it's his work and financial problems that made him so stressful. he is just so stress and lost interest in sex! he is only 33 and i am 25!
He did try his best to hv sex with me but he can’t succeed. He said he needed me to give him oral sex, I did give him. He said he wanted me to warm him up, i did it! ...

2006-08-13 17:42:55 · 23 answers · asked by #1 Girl -She's Bittersweet- 6

my parents are seperated but they aren't divoced yet.... nd my mom is dating someone else now...,i mean she is dating lots of men.... nd my dad doesn't know about it yet.... i feel like i'm on the middle of this sittuation.... i want to tell this to my dad but i'm afraid matbe i'll hurt his feeling because i know he still love my mom... they just got sepearated because my dad went to alaska nd mannage our family bussiness... nd we stay here in maryland taking care our other bussiness here....

2006-08-13 17:42:47 · 3 answers · asked by nakitamaganda 3

Anyone know how to stop a divorce and repair a damaged relationship?

2006-08-13 17:40:42 · 12 answers · asked by shawn w 1

with a controlling alcoholic prick. 10 years is too much to handle and i want out now. anybody else feel me?

2006-08-13 17:32:55 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

Is it right for a girl to refuse to give back an engagement ring if she is the one to call off the engagement and no longer wants to work on the relationship even though there is no question the man has been faithful, has not been violent , and does want to work out the problems?

2006-08-13 17:27:27 · 24 answers · asked by TC/AC 1

I'm separated a long time ago (but not divorced), and now a want to marry me again, but i'm not sure of my marital status.
Where can i find my marital status by internet?
THANKS YOU!

2006-08-13 17:27:02 · 6 answers · asked by Just Me 1

My husband and his ex wife have a child together, and i tag along on the visits because me and my husband also have a child and i want the children to see eachother as well. but when we go down there, every single time, this happens : the ex wife will either get down on the floor with her butt in the air in front of my husband pretending to "play with the kids" or wear really short skirts and blouses <---- which is nasty to begin with because shes 5'5'' and 340 pounds. my husband is way over her and doesnt even bat an eye when she tries to "show off". shes a big lady and im petite and short compared to her. if i stand up to her and tell her off, im afraid she will overpower me. i know my husband would break up the fight and defend me, but i dont want him to have to do that. what can i do to show that i can kill her with kindness? shes a very large woman and i know if we get into a fight, she can easily smother me with just her belly fat. any suggestions? i am new to this "ex wife" deal

2006-08-13 17:20:43 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok, one of my closest friend's parents just got a divorce. I am really worried about her because she doesn't express her feelings to anyone. And please dotn say that is a good thing, because I know isn't. Her mom and dad are both with someone else now and when I look at ther when eather her mom or her dad's new dates she looks blank just like a ghost or something. It scares me. I don't want her getting messed up when she is older. Plus she was really spoiled by her mom and got like really expensive stuff. She also has a little sister whom I am worried about too, but she expresses her feelings more. I want 2 talk 2 my friend about it, but i'm not sure if i should or how too! HELP ME!

2006-08-13 17:16:38 · 15 answers · asked by blah 2

2006-08-13 17:14:13 · 16 answers · asked by fish_belongtothesea 1

Is it something I should accept as a part of life. My friends say that at least he's not out there getting the real thing, but it makes me feel like I'm not enough for him. Is it something that most men do?

2006-08-13 17:10:23 · 10 answers · asked by lesnike06 1

Okay I have to face this ladies husband, his my boss. I know he is cheating I have told him just leave her don't make a fool out of her. We do alot of family things together, them and two other couples we all know and when she leaves the room we all say when is she going to catch on...I feel sorry for her if it were my husband I would want to know

2006-08-13 17:07:54 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-08-13 16:55:36 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

My best friend of 20 years has hurt me so incrediably bad. My husband walked off and left me June 1st, and she's only called maybe a handful of times and been to see me only once (she lives an hour away and her parents live in the same town as I do). I feel so hurt that she's "abandoned" me. I have been there for her through thick and thin and would drop everything at the drop of a hat for her. And now that I actually needed her, she completly droped the hat. What should I do?

2006-08-13 16:49:37 · 23 answers · asked by carolscreation 4

He hit our son in wal mart a year ago last year..an emploeyee called dhr, they questioned my sons and found out not only was he hitting them but me too, and I was told we had to seperate untile he had anger managment classes, and parenting classes.So this whole past year we have still been talking and seeing each other, we talked everynight. 2 months ago his dad had a stroke, and I went and spent 2 weeks down there helping take care of him in the hospital and I was staying with my husband during all of this.After the hospital they put my father in law in the nursing home . I go down every other weekend, be with my husband and visit my father in law.I call EVERY day and the tell me he is ok.I find out fri that he died wed and my husband is seeing a nurse from the nursing home, so me and the kids werent welcome at the funreal.Now he is demanding a divorce and wants to give me nothing.We own 2 homes and land togther, in both our names, is it legal for him to not give me anything?

2006-08-13 16:48:22 · 18 answers · asked by Heather D 2

2006-08-13 16:32:03 · 30 answers · asked by lat1983 2

Positive advice sought on how you manage finances, deal with the children, find time for yourself, preparing spouse for travel, frustrations of husband's travel schedule, etc.

2006-08-13 16:28:57 · 14 answers · asked by writingmomma 1

I divorced my ex-husband because he took my vehicle that I drive to work, and sold it. He has done many things in the past, but selling my vehicle was the last straw. My parents paid for my divorce because they would help me get another car if I divorce him. The only problem was, he told me a lie that he hasn't signed the divorce papers yet, so we made love before the divorce was finalized. When the divorce was finalized, I found out I was pregnant. My ex-husband begged for me back after finding out and took care of me while pregnant. But, when my baby was 6 months old, he left us and I was going to school and couldn't pay the bills, so I moved back with my parents. He said he left because I yelled at him. I only yelled because of the hurtful things he did in the past. Well, my baby is 18 months and I regret yelling at him, but he should never have left. Right now, we're seeing each other. Should I bother? He hasn't told me he loves me yet. He just says I'm different from other women.

2006-08-13 16:25:22 · 13 answers · asked by angelolori1976 2

what is the minimum age for a girl and a boy getting married in Maryland?

what is the minimum age of a boy and girl getting married Massachusetts?

2006-08-13 16:24:08 · 3 answers · asked by sam_star700 2

besides wiring her mouth shut or strapping her to the bumper of my car and making her run

2006-08-13 16:11:06 · 17 answers · asked by TahoeBigCock 1

Am a mother of a 5 yr old girl. Have been married for 8 yrs to this man who needs to drink atleast a bottle every evening. He has been abusing me physically and torturing me mentally. I so desperately want to leave him. But I am scared whether I will be able to carry on in life. I want to give my child the same standard of life(financially) that she is having now. Please tell me how this separation can affect her. I just want her to be happy. He has now started venting out his anger on her too. I am afraid for her. He is the sweetest husband and father when he does not drink(very very rarely). Please help me.

2006-08-13 16:04:23 · 12 answers · asked by lovelylongrana 2

and has the wife's last name instead of the husbands?
I wonder why they prefer to keep their last name instead of their husbands.

2006-08-13 15:59:18 · 9 answers · asked by Mrs J 3

i have been having sex with my fiance n my vagina has gone a little loose. what do i do to tighten it up other than surgically. is there any cream or exrcises 4 that.

2006-08-13 15:58:51 · 16 answers · asked by nikkitasha 1

Okay men, be honest. Would you consider dating a divorced woman who is looking for friendship maybe with benefits, but she has 4 year old triplets. Plus, somewhere down the road may want something more commited, but not marriage. Just wondering.

2006-08-13 15:46:10 · 15 answers · asked by aliveagain 1

Is it really "doomed"?

We constantly check up on each other

(mostly me: searching phone records, credit card receipts, popping up at his job to make sure he's there) - whatever it takes.

2006-08-13 15:45:55 · 31 answers · asked by Nuni 1

2006-08-13 15:40:50 · 35 answers · asked by maltese 1

just tired of the same old lay on the back idea, any comments?

2006-08-13 15:39:27 · 12 answers · asked by leslieh338 1

My mom kicked out my dad out of home and he has no money or a place to stay but they are still officially married , I was wondering if he can place a request for any kind of social welfare . Every thing is under my Mom's name including the bank accounts and the house but how dose that work in a legal system ?? Since they are still married . Any kind of information helps

2006-08-13 15:26:59 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

is a one night stand typically sufficient to get enough of her if there are no emotions involved? assume you're single and so is she.

2006-08-13 15:23:10 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was just wondering about this recently and wonder what you all think.

One other thing I was wondering is; some people say that prenups aren't necessarily a sign of mistrust in the relationship. Some feel that it genuinely helps, and if the partner involved agrees with it, it means they really love their future husband or wife.

I think it's a sign of mistrust for this reason; with a prenup, if the couple feels that they may divorce in the future, then they don't trust that they will be fair with splitting the money, etc, with each other. Why marry someone that you feel may cut throat you after a divorce? That doesn't sound like trust. Shouldn't one marry someone they know would never do that to them because they really do love and care for them?

If not, shouldn't everyone just get long term girlfriend/boyfriends with preparations to trade spouses like trading cars after 10 or 15 years?

2006-08-13 15:20:47 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

how can i get a divorce from my wife??? as we are not compatible and i have lived with someone for the past four years, i know i should have done this before i had a kid with her who is 5 years old but i wanted try and work the marriage out,,, but in vain,but now iam very happy with my partner who is in the same field as mine,but my wife does not want to let go,what can i do in this situation is there an agreement which i can make keeping her title which she wants and still get married to my partner,like the udit narayan case pls give me options as my lawyer seems to be very slow in all this,, it is 5 years now and i have not even been able to file my case.i have not seen my wife for 3 years now but i hve sent the maintenance without fail till now.So please advise and give me solution.i have no feelings for my wife anymore but she does not want to let go even after 3 years of seperation.

2006-08-13 15:19:26 · 15 answers · asked by john abraham 1