see you always fear wht you do, so he worries abouth cheatin that means hes cheatin simple as that!!!!!!!! dump him.
2006-08-13 16:48:45
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answered by Anonymous
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Because 9 times out of 10, they are doing the cheating and need to accuse their partner of doing the same thing. Especially, if they are guilty and too prideful to admit it.
On the other hand, maybe they are insecure, or have an attractive girlfriend who draws alot of attention from men because of her looks and personality, therefore, the guy may feel intimidated by other men and accused the female of cheating.
Normally, if a man is doing something sneaky, he will believe his girl is doing the same thing. It's distorted thinking from a guy with insecurity problems.
2006-08-14 00:32:52
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answered by cherrypopsickle2000 3
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In all honesty and from my experiences i have thought my wife was cheating on me and my reasons for that is because i have had that done to me alot in my past and it makes me worried, plus along with that my wife would hardly introduce me to her friends and was very vague on things when asked so that began to make me wonder along with her hiding things from me and gettin mad when i would try to check up on her and keeping things secret from me. My best suggestion for you if this is happening just sit down and talk with him and find out why he is acting this way and try to console him and let him know you will not cheat on him, but only do this if you don't plan on cheating, also be open and honest with him because if there is any kind of secrecy and he's been cheated on in the past then with that secrecy plus his past it will do what everyone else does just expect the same thing over and over. try to be more open and honest and if that don't work then girl i say leave him cuz he will always be paranoid and has severe trust issues
2006-08-13 23:46:11
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answered by draco_401 2
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Because there probally the one that is guilty My ex use to accuse me all the time of cheating if i would go out with my girls or jus go some where buy myself well I started watching him too and asking him questions and i Found out he was the one cheating on me! This may not be the situation in your case but sometimes its usually because they got something to hide! hope this helps
2006-08-13 23:39:15
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answered by Lee-Lee 1
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Either he's been cheated on before and it's still raw, or he's been cheated on more than once (in which case it tends to stick with you), or he's got a very low self-esteem, in which case he thinks he's not good enough for you, so why wouldn't you want to go find someone else? Just reassure him--GENTLY--that he's all you want. Everybody needs to hear that from time to time, right?
2006-08-13 23:45:51
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answered by I'm just me 7
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Not all men but some men do this because they're either insecure of themselves or they have been cheated on in the past.
2006-08-13 23:41:19
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answered by cheetah7 6
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In my dating years, I went out with over 70 men (Don't be sicko now! I didn't sleep with them.) But I never dated that one. There are plenty of decent men. The real question is why you are attracted to the controling ones. What is it that you find attractive about a man who has controling aspects of his personality? For many women, it reflects on their relationships with their father.
2006-08-13 23:56:45
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answered by lizardmama 6
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Usually its because of low self esteem on a mans part. They have self doubt, wondering about you being true to them, so they accuse you of cheating , often times to get attention, and validate your love for them. Good communication usually can solve this, its not really a problem for you, its a problem of his. You need to just assure him, its a matter of trust, and show him how much you love him. Change the dynamic of the relationship, and explain this bothers you, eventually he will either shape up, or just keep it to himself. Just tell him, no excuses...your not playing these passive aggressive games
2006-08-13 23:43:46
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answered by zeakster01 2
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Not all men think you are cheating on them everytime you do something only the controlling ones.
2006-08-14 00:02:08
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answered by luvlisteningtomusic 6
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because they are the ones that are cheating and doing things behind our backs , and they need an excuse to pick a fight and blame us for the world gone bad , blame us for all the starving countries , and cause Monday nite football doesn't come soon enough... I guess we woman are on a mission from god , or I guess we women are asshole magnets..Lol....
2006-08-13 23:53:02
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answered by E.M. 4
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umm well he's probably cheating or maybe just one of those controlling type of men that wants u all to himself. have u heard the song i should have cheated?
2006-08-13 23:46:09
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answered by Anonymous
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