Marriage & Divorce - 13 August 2006

2006-08-13 20:15:47 · 3 answers · asked by LLV 1

I found out my accident that hubby is buying me some "sexy" undies for my birthday but there are a few problems:
1. I don't enjoy parading myself in this sort of thing as my self esteem is not good.
2. Our marriage is pretty much loveless anyway - and although I can appreciate that he is trying to revive the lust, I just don't feel it for him
3. I would really rather avoid confrontation, but it is getting tricky to fake pleasure when we actually do have sex - i would rather be doing something else.
I know there are fundamental problems in our marriage which I will have to sort out one day, but for now how do I get through the birthday underwear thing?

2006-08-13 20:15:30 · 38 answers · asked by Jen 2

2006-08-13 20:13:47 · 4 answers · asked by otncgirl 1

My hubbie and I stayed at a low budget hotel while we were on the move. Well, my feet were really sore so he rubbed them and it was really a turned on. We had such amazing sex after that, that we now refer to it as "the good stuff". So, why wouldn't he just rub my feet or shoulders to get "the good stuff" but instead, do nothing and just get so-so sex from me?

2006-08-13 20:11:58 · 18 answers · asked by FerretLover 3

she called my house asking if I was single which I'm not so I told her no I am married now my wife is mad at me what should I do?

2006-08-13 20:10:36 · 22 answers · asked by Lothario 1

2006-08-13 20:00:48 · 25 answers · asked by sherbions 1

I got married after I came home from over seas, Things were great but, now they are bad, very bad! I have found texts on her cell phone from other guys, I have cought her in multiple lies, about her going out with a girl friend, and then finding out she was out with her friend and a guy, but lies to me about the whole thing. I have heard her speaking on the phone with a guy, but when asked about it she tried to lie about it and say that it was her friend, I have the feeling that I have been blinded. What Should I do?

2006-08-13 19:52:45 · 38 answers · asked by will 1

was it your dream when you grew up to get married have 2.4 kids and a mortgage? did your dreams come true?

2006-08-13 19:49:32 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

my husband doesn't know how unhappy i am in our marriage, and i have no idea how to tell him. he hasn't worked in over two years and we have not had sex in over a year. the times i have tried to talk to him about these things he says he is stressed out and doesn't wasnt to discuss it. help!

2006-08-13 19:47:50 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous

As it was a marraige against parents will i had to marry in the court. Before he was very nice to me. but now he keeps on abuseing me, keeps on shouting at me for no reasons, use abusevie words and even beats me. Now i have nobody whom I can go to. My parents will not support me. Even after my divorce I have no place to go and stay. But still I want to get rid of this things. i feel as if my whole life has got messed up. Please help Please help.

2006-08-13 19:41:09 · 59 answers · asked by Jyoti 1

What is life when you experience wife swaping and how does it effect on social & your personal life.

2006-08-13 19:40:57 · 27 answers · asked by Sahil 2

he called my house asking if I was single which I'm not so I told him no I am married now my husband is mad at me what should I do?

2006-08-13 19:35:40 · 15 answers · asked by ? 2

In your opinion, what are the basic qualities of a perfect wife?????

2006-08-13 19:33:45 · 10 answers · asked by OC 7

My husband and I are fighting, I love him dearly. We just got into an agrument over my issues I have been dealing with over a year. Communication, and not listening properly. As a result, he feels under-appreciated, and feels he is not being rewarded for good behavior when he talks to me assertively.
I am seeking counseling again, in hopes to better myself as a person. My husband is getting feed up with me. I love him I want to work it out with him, he hears my apologies, and holds no value to it. Because apologies gets more "sorrier" . My husband is tempermental, he has recognized his issue and is taking action. In the course of 4 months I was impressed. Yet, I have not taking action to correct myself, and it is unfair. He has mentioned divorce. And...now, I am more fearful of losing him permanently because of my faults. In the course of three months I suffered two miscarrages, separation anxiety, and depression. I feel ashamed and blameful of myself if we got divorce

2006-08-13 19:03:49 · 19 answers · asked by Jenny A 1

Two-day-old marriages falling apart. A few hundred couples queuing up at the courts every day - dying to go splitsville. Is this a sign of traditional Indian society fraying at the edges, or, does it indicate progress?

2006-08-13 19:02:28 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been with my defacto for 30 years, we broke up once for 12 months had a settlement, then we reconciled, for 3 years it did not work,now i want another settlement , he is saying we never lived together, the second time even though I gave him his first settlement back. Should I go for 50% of the estate, he also beat me up a lot.

2006-08-13 19:00:42 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

She is my friend abt whom I am asking her parents get her married with guy in very early age when she was of 16 year after 6 month of her marrige her hubby expired from last five years she was staying with her in laws. Prior her in laws says that they will take care of her self they take her responsibility on their self now three years bfore her father expired now her in laws are not treating her well they leave her alone and went to U.S.A. she is staying alone in her in laws house event they dont give her maintance also she managing all the thing by herself she is in a miserable condition she is very depressed she dont know what to do her in laws always aking her to leave home and went back to her mother's home she dont want to do so bcause she dont like to create prob for her mother she want to get married but not yet. I will suggest her to call Police . please suggest her what to do . she really need our help.

2006-08-13 18:51:12 · 10 answers · asked by ash 1

when you're huaband have no job what about child support$ you won't get nothing or what? (not divoce yet)he have nothing. no house no car....... oklahoma .

2006-08-13 18:45:53 · 14 answers · asked by cici 1

me and my husband are from different countrys im american and hes african (kenya,africa). we havea daughter who we love so much and were both going to school so my husband and i decided to send our daughter who is 10 months old to africa to stay with her grandparents and family there. everything is somwhat healthy in our relationship but the communication. he does not express him self and does not like to talk alot and i feel left out of his loop when he talks to other kenyans how could i tell him how i feel without offending him and being too needed

2006-08-13 18:37:54 · 7 answers · asked by tametra t 1

she said she asked him and he says he didnt do anything but says when she goes to see her mom he knows she's not just sitting in her mothers house she's out i told her thats because he's done something cause he didnt say stuff like that b4 so he's making excuses for why he cheated but wont admit it!

2006-08-13 18:27:57 · 4 answers · asked by dominicana 2

Ok today my wife left me, We have been having alot of arguments lately about pointless stuff. She says that she can not take it anymore and leaves over and over again i tried to get her to communicate with me and the answer that i always seem to get is that i hate arguing all them time. I tried to suggest counseling i also have tried to hcnage what we do with each other by going on dates and going out.. Too add to all this we ahve a one year old son and another child on the way. I would so much love for this family to stay to gether for our kids sake and i have plenty of faith that any marraige / relationship is repairable. I would love to chat with anyone that could be able to give me advice both succesful and unsuccesful marriages. She says that she still loves me. But i do not understand that is someone still loves you why they would want to give up on love and step back and fix the matter well if anyone wants to chat i am on messanger at the moment just send me a tell.

2006-08-13 18:18:14 · 11 answers · asked by shawn w 1

she is manglik, her family is trying but no fruitful result is coming in regard to her marriage.

2006-08-13 18:17:58 · 5 answers · asked by savitri yadav niece marriage 1

I will be married almost 3 years to the man I believe is my soulmate. This is my 2nd marriage, and his 1st. My question is about the "Madonna vs. Whore" idea with men, and is it maybe what my husband is going through? During our 2 years of dating, sex was great. Now, almost right after the honeymoon, he has told me that once a month is perfectly fine with him. We talked about our sexual experiences before marrying, and he told me he had a threesome. I had a sex life, but I thought he topped me! Now after the honeymoon, I found out most of his "history" was made up. It seems that his sexual past was more like "in the dark, and done in five minutes- missionary only". Sex is not the end all be all for marriage, but I would like it everyday. We try buying toys, but he gets shy about using them. He likes porn, but says he can't watch it with me. He has trouble getting it "up" sometimes, but gets it "up" in mere seconds if I wake him from a dead sleep. It seems to be in his head. Any ideas?

2006-08-13 18:16:00 · 7 answers · asked by BuffyFromGP 4

2006-08-13 18:07:58 · 6 answers · asked by Minnesota Guy 1

my best friend thinks her bf is cheating i told her what to look for she said she sees some of the things i said to her and has a gut feeling cause of the things he say to her what else should she look for? she's right here so she will read your responses

2006-08-13 18:07:38 · 5 answers · asked by dominicana 2

I have a fiance' whom I love very much, but unfortunately I have a huge dilemma. I am going to law school and have the scores to get into very good schools which are all far away from where we live. I know that if I go away to school next year he will not come with because of his 2 kids here, which is understandable. Law school is 3 long stressful years and its quite possible I will be moving across the country to go the best school I can get into. He wants me to stay and go to a mediocre school here, but I'm scared if I do that I will be selling myself short and will always regret it. On the other hand 3 years is a long time be in a long distance relationship, with only 2 years behind us. What would you do?

2006-08-13 18:03:47 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

My ex-boyfriend who is the father of my kids wants me to sign legal documents concerning the visitation rights. He knows that I want to get back together with him. He told me that if I sign those papers that would put us equal grounds. I just don't trust him and a part of me fears that he's going to use me into signing.

The legal documents are concerning child support but he knows that I can go after him for spousal support and that I have him for suppervised visition because he does have a criminal record.

What should I do. I love him and want to get back with him but I just can't trust him at this point in time.

Need advise.

2006-08-13 17:58:31 · 12 answers · asked by pcummings22000 1

2006-08-13 17:50:58 · 17 answers · asked by neutrals 3

I love him so much, he means the world to me. And I am not saying I don't get angry sometimes. But he works overnights and when he has to get up early he is a pissy. Which is understandable but he takes it out on me. I get his anger to the world, for I know the way he was raised and his dad throws things when it is going wrong, and has no patience. But he is getting better with age. I am ready to get married but I wonder if all relationships take so much work. We have been together for four years now, and I am at the point where I think we should be married or seperate, but seperating doesn't even seem to be in the equation for me or him, it is such love. When I think of our relationship I am reminded of the NOTEBOOK movie, where he says, "it is gonna be hard and we will have to work at it" Is that always true? Any suggestions? Do all relationships take work, is it always hard? Any ideas on how to calm his temper and impatience?

2006-08-13 17:44:38 · 17 answers · asked by thedreamer 2

My sister and I are in our 40's this has gone on since we were 13 and 14 years old. Neither of us speak to our father now because ift has become such a hassel. Our step mother is rude to us and our children. They went on to have 3 of thier own children and of course they are the best and my sister and I have always been the out cast. Please how do we deal with this in an adult way?

2006-08-13 17:43:22 · 18 answers · asked by Kristine B 2