She is my friend abt whom I am asking her parents get her married with guy in very early age when she was of 16 year after 6 month of her marrige her hubby expired from last five years she was staying with her in laws. Prior her in laws says that they will take care of her self they take her responsibility on their self now three years bfore her father expired now her in laws are not treating her well they leave her alone and went to U.S.A. she is staying alone in her in laws house event they dont give her maintance also she managing all the thing by herself she is in a miserable condition she is very depressed she dont know what to do her in laws always aking her to leave home and went back to her mother's home she dont want to do so bcause she dont like to create prob for her mother she want to get married but not yet. I will suggest her to call Police . please suggest her what to do . she really need our help.
2006-08-13 18:51:12 · 10 answers · asked by ash 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I think that more information is needed. Does she have a job? If not, she should get one and then get her own place. Maybe she can go to school and learn a skill?
How would it cause a problem if she moved in with her mother since her mom is alone too? If she lived with her mother, they could take care of each other.
If she is in a country where it is difficult for women to take care of themselves, she probably should try to remarry. Enough years have gone by.
2006-08-13 19:03:10 · answer #1 · answered by runningviolin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Take life in her own hands than being dependant on her in laws.
2. Take the matter to courts & ask for her husband's share of property & money in family.
3. If she does not want to do above said, go back to her parents for short term, start a new life, educate her self in her field of interst & get a job.
4. Get married again. But I would suggest her to remarry only after she gets her due share from her present in laws.
There are NGOs in all places to help women in such situations. You can take their help to fight her cause without letting anyone take political advantage of the issue.
I can help you more once you inform me more about your friend, like her location, her education, & her future plans.
You can mail me on cosy_devil1@yahoo.com
May god bless you & your friend & give her strength & will power to get through difficult circumstances. Just tell her that "when the going gets tough, the tough gets going."
All the best.
2006-08-13 19:18:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately it sounds as though her in laws took her in out of sympathy and she's over-stayed her welcome. Honey, you can't honestly expect them to take care of her for the rest of her life. If she was 16 when she got married, she'd be 21 now. That's old enough to live on her own, get a job, etc. The police aren't going to be able to do anything for her. She doesn't pay the bills, her name is not on their mortgage and she has no right to be there. They opened their doors to her out of the kindness of their hearts and she took advantage...it's time for her to grow up. And if she can't handle it, then she needs to move back home to her own parents, regardless of what hassle its' goingn to cause.
2006-08-13 18:59:02 · answer #3 · answered by Hollynfaith 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
more info. needed about her.
And of coarse what is her own decisions.
she should come out and spread her wings from that bloody cage and develop herself.
Y sticking at that point.
See one thing is clear no one helps accept own hubby, both parents and kids after some time fly away.so prepare her mind for marriage and enjoy.
2006-08-13 19:35:04 · answer #4 · answered by sm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What country is she living in?
2006-08-13 18:56:39 · answer #5 · answered by Jimmythekid 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she should first take the help of lawyer and make a claim in the property/assets of her husband including the house she lives in and that would help her in financial stability and then further decide to get married to make her future stable.
2006-08-13 19:23:10 · answer #6 · answered by anurag v 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in what country does she live in
2006-08-13 19:08:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She has to get out of there get a job and meet prople, stagnating in that place will not do her any good
2006-08-13 19:02:08 · answer #8 · answered by bash 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her 2 remarry.
2006-08-13 19:07:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-08-13 19:15:13 · answer #10 · answered by Lothario 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋